Sexual techniques for long-distance and international couples

Long-distance couples, especially those in international relationships, often find it difficult to meet frequently. They struggle to make love, and each time they meet, they feel they need to drain each other dry.

Therefore, proper phone sex techniques are especially important.

I don’t know if others have a button to unlock various life scenarios, but I rely on music.

I have a song that I’ve been using since high school to get into a vocabulary memorization mode. I only listen to that song when I’m memorizing words. After it became a habit, hearing that song automatically puts me into vocabulary memorization mode.

It’s very convenient for someone like me who is emotionally unstable to quickly get into a learning state.

By forcibly imbuing a scene with emotions through music—a form of muscle memory—it can be very effective to control them.

The ear is a highly efficient memory organ, especially when you block out other senses; the effect is even more pronounced.

Now, back to the main topic, how can we apply this highly effective auditory stimulation to the challenges of long-distance relationships?
The answer is to say “textual love” aloud and replace video calls with voice chat. Have an ” adult online voice-based murder mystery game ” with your loved one.
Why use voice instead of video?Because blocking out all senses except hearing can actually make the content you hear more likely to stimulate your brain.Moreover, hearing allows people to quickly immerse themselves in a scene.Studies have shown that making a sound when aroused is far more effective at stimulating sexual desire than any visual image.
Normal long-distance relationship videos are often risqué, with little to no foreplay. They rely on primal sexual urges, like looking at the other person’s genitals or body, to stimulate each other, which is no different from watching porn.I’ve completely lost interest in this kind of gameplay.
But once you’re familiar with the ” using language to build a scene ” phone sex approach that I’m about to describe , you can try more approaches that combine your own and your partner’s sexual preferences.
You can think of it as an online murder mystery game, except that the script, characters, and scenes are all created by the two of you. And it’s a slightly risqué version.
The specific steps can be summarized as follows:1. You two need to create a scene first.2. Then establish your outfits and every movement.3. Now, place your conversation into this scenario you’ve created.4. During the final stage, both parties need to use some small toys and props in real life to simulate the erotic sensation.
Note that in this type of phone sex game, when the two of you are interacting throughout the entire session, you should try to simulate the realistic sound effects of the scene you have created (such as friction sounds, bondage sounds, moaning sounds, sounds of pain, mouth sounds, dialogue, and water sounds ).
for example,Woman: “Let’s say the scene is like this: we just went to a bar and had drinks together, and now we’re back at the hotel. I’m a little tipsy and curled up like a pill bug. I’m wearing a short skirt, and from your angle, you can see the pink marks left by my stockings on my thighs. My skirt just happens to cover my underwear.”
Then the other person should also continue this scene to construct their clothing and actions.
Man: “I was wearing a suit and tie. After returning to the hotel, I took off my tie and used it to tie your wrists, then I took off one of your stockings and stuffed it into your mouth.”
Woman: “Then I’ll struggle, resist, and not let you touch me!”(Laughing, simulating the sound of struggling)
Man: “Then I’ll take off your other stocking and tie it around your leg, so you can’t move and I can do whatever I want with you.” (To get into character, speak in the tone and manner appropriate for this scene.)
Woman: Simulates the sounds of struggling after being tied up.
This is just an example, a brief description of a foreplay scene. In fact, you can use your imagination to lengthen the foreplay time.

The subsequent suggestive scenes were even simpler and more direct.
You can use your voice to simulate kissing. Kissing your own arm will produce a sound similar to kissing, allowing your partner to hear an ASMR-like kissing sound. Your partner will also respond with the same sound .
You can moan and use your respective toys to simulate the sensations of arousal. Most girls find it difficult to reach orgasm through normal arousal , but small toys can do it 100%.Moreover, vocal stimulation is very important. The two of you must say some suggestive things and make sure that the other person can hear your breathing and suppress your groans.
You can also use your imagination to continue the conversation and actions. Use your individual imaginations and responses to enrich the experience.
For example, if you like playing outdoors or in a revealing way, you can describe the scene as a bustling street with many people.
Those who enjoy SM can simulate pain in real life using props, and can also go to extremes and perverse levels. It all depends on personal preference.
Fetishists can create props out of thin air, adding descriptions of various latex suits, socks, feet, and the like to the scenes you construct.
Those who enjoy role-playing can set their own and their partner’s characters in the scene to their favorite roles, and being called “Mommy” can be very enjoyable.
While auditory stimulation may seem a bit childish, if the two people coordinate well, there are many ways to play, and the experience is not only no less than real sex, but sometimes even surpasses it.
So take advantage of long-distance or international relationships to immerse yourself in the right kind of phone sex!

Of course, all of these methods are based on communicating with your partner in advance and respecting each other.

Finally, I wish all long-distance couples a happy and fulfilling relationship.

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Sexual techniques for long-distance and international couples