What constitutes true affection between men and women?

There should be a feeling, a sense of “closeness” when two people are together.

　　Men don’t have to be handsome, and women don’t have to be beautiful, as long as they find each other pleasing to the eye.

　　They felt close to each other, like family, and could completely relax in each other’s presence.

　　They are willing to open their hearts, willing to expose their vulnerabilities, and willing to expose their shortcomings without worrying about being looked down upon or ridiculed by the other party.

　　This feeling of intimacy and relaxation is like the affection of family.

　　True affection is the fusion of hearts and minds, and even more so, mutual understanding and tolerance.

　　It’s easy to forgive someone’s shortcomings and love their strengths, but it’s very difficult to forgive their weaknesses.

　　Only the person who is most tolerant of themselves is the one who loves themselves the most.

　　Mutual care and consideration are feelings of cherishing and loving each other, and a sense of gratitude for your kindness to me and my even greater kindness to you.

　　When he’s tired, I’ll massage his shoulders; when I’m in a bad mood, he’ll patiently listen to my rambling.

　　When it’s cold, they remind each other to wear more clothes. If one person coughs or catches a cold, the other can immediately bring water and medicine.

　　Silently remember what the other person likes to eat, and save those foods for them to eat…

　　Both parties know how to be grateful and how to reciprocate each other’s love, rather than one party giving while the other only takes.

　　Love has nothing to do with material things or money; all I want is you as a person.