Cohabitation between men and women: Is it driven by sexual needs or feelings?

housework

How many chores are there in a home ? Wiping tables, washing clothes, feeding the cat and cleaning up its litter box, cooking, washing dishes, scrubbing the toilet, organizing the closet, taking out the trash… When you live alone, you might find that tidying up your room is a fun way to pass the time, but when you live with him, you’ll find that you’re a complete monster in his eyes.

From a young age, your mother taught you to roll your socks into a ball and put them in the second drawer, but he thinks it’s completely idiotic . You ‘re supposed to wash the dishes right after eating, but he puts it off until after the sports news, and even after the evening news, he still doesn’t want to wash them. “Life is meaningless because of women like you.” But why doesn’t he think it’s pointless for you to tidy up his underwear when you’re having sex ?

A large-scale survey revealed that in 65.73% of cohabitation requests, the boy initiated the conversation. Furthermore, nearly 20% of girls, when faced with such a request, were completely at a loss or chose to compromise their own desires to accommodate him. Premarital cohabitation has its advantages and disadvantages, which this article will not discuss. This article simply serves as a reminder to unmarried girls considering cohabitation: before deciding to live with a boy, be aware of the major pitfalls of cohabitation, and then consider whether it is suitable for you. After all, cohabitation is a serious matter.

sex

I wonder how many people move in together solely to solve their sexual problems. I suspect that sex isn’t the primary factor for a girl deciding to live together. However, many girls naively believe that sex is indeed a powerful weapon to keep a man. And when men first move in together, they might be happy about being able to enjoy sex anytime, anywhere. But within three months, sex life in a cohabiting relationship usually becomes more boring than when they live separately, and they start to doubt whether accepting cohabitation was a foolish idea.

Is this situation caused by frequent occurrences leading to decreased intensity ? “Doing the same thing for too long gets boring” isn’t the whole story. More often, it stems from various minor flaws revealed in the other person’s life. For example, they eat too loudly, or drink soup like a pig… Before you know it, you might find yourself, once passionately in love, gradually becoming a “sexless person.”

money

When you first started dating, you naturally felt entitled to let him cover all the expenses. However, once you decided to live together, the necessary costs of shared living would be far beyond what this inexperienced young man could afford. Eventually, he’d open your wallet and tell you to pay for that crystal vase yourself, and from then on, he’d start listing all the household bills. Of course, there are ways to solve this problem, such as adopting a system of splitting expenses equally within the household .

This seemingly fair approach doesn’t actually solve the problem well. Your arguments will still be frequent, such as someone running the air conditioner all night in the summer or someone constantly making long phone calls. Before long , the supposed equality of splitting expenses will crumble. To truly resolve this issue, you must be upfront about living together. Ideally, each person should contribute a portion to a monthly household fund based on their income and spending habits. All other expenses, regardless of size, should be meticulously recorded, and a settlement should be made at the end of the month.

privacy

When you don’t live together, if he receives a call from someone of the opposite sex and you express curiosity, he might just think you’re being cute and innocent. If you go to his dorm and look through his drawers, he probably won’t strongly condemn you. But once you live together, if you monitor his calls and movements, constantly tracking his location with your phone, he’ll likely call you petty and narrow-minded. Over time, both of you will be driven to the brink of collapse by this constant suspicion.

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Cohabitation between men and women: Is it driven by sexual needs or feelings?