Figure Out Proper Intimacy Timing With Three Simple Questions

If you’re currently in a relationship, you’re bound to struggle with one question:

When exactly can I have sex with my boyfriend?

Boys are always very interested in this kind of thing, but girls are not so enthusiastic, which can easily lead to disagreements between the two.

For the girl, if she sleeps with him, she can’t get over her own conscience.

I don’t want to sleep with him, but he keeps making a fuss, and I’m afraid it will affect our relationship.

What should we do?

As my friends know, I had a theory before:

After establishing a relationship, it is best to wait 3-6 months before engaging in sexual activity.

Some girls said this method was too old-fashioned and asked me if there were other methods. Of course there are—that is, ask yourself the following three questions.

If your answer to all three questions is yes, then now is the perfect time to sleep with him.

Question 1: Do you have desire for him?

To be more specific, do you want it?

Do you want to have further physical contact with him now? Do you want to possess his body? Do you crave it when you think about him entering your body?

Many girls have sex with their boyfriends, and frankly, they’re all completely unaware of it.

Or to put it more bluntly, it’s like being a puppet, led by the nose by her boyfriend.

Deep down, she may not have any sexual desire at all, and may even be somewhat resistant to it; her boyfriend’s body doesn’t hold any appeal for her.

But she couldn’t resist her boyfriend’s repeated pleas, and fearing he would be unhappy, she gritted her teeth and did it with him.

The outcome of such sex is predictable.

She was not happy at all, letting her boyfriend do whatever he wanted. She didn’t know what to do, nor did she want to do anything.

In this way, the boyfriend won’t be happy either, because she’s not fully engaged. It’s like he’s having sex with a doll, he’s putting in a lot of effort while the other person doesn’t react at all.

Such love is worse than no love at all.

Question 2: Have you discussed having sex?

To be more specific, have you discussed each other’s views on sex? How do you view sex? What does it mean to you?

If you were to have sex, when and where would you each prefer to do it? What methods would you both prefer? How would you use contraception?

Many couples don’t actually discuss these things; they just get emotional, and then, when passion strikes, they do it.

It’s not that it’s impossible, but we should talk first and discuss what each other thinks, which will make it easier for you to make a decision.

Ultimately, harmonious sex requires a harmonious relationship where you are tolerant of each other’s ideas and willing to satisfy each other’s preferences.

Discussions can actually bring you closer together, allowing both of you to understand each other’s innermost thoughts.

As your relationship deepens, your sex life will naturally become more harmonious.

Question 3: Are you prepared?

Or to put it more specifically: Are you prepared to face the potential risks associated with sex?

Many women struggle with whether or not to have sex because it has both advantages and disadvantages, and they are unable to bear the potential risks.

But nothing in this world is 100% safe. No matter what you do, you always have to take some risks.

If you feel you can handle the risk, then do it;

If you feel you can’t handle it, then don’t do it.

It’s that simple.

As adults, we must take responsibility for our decisions. Whether we do something or not, we must face the final outcome with equanimity.

All I can do is tell you the risks and benefits of “doing” and “not doing”.

As for which path to take, that depends on your choice.

1. Benefits of having sex:

To achieve a certain level of sexual pleasure;

Increase the intimacy of the relationship;

It’s easier to see through a guy’s true colors this way. (For details, see: This trick will definitely work to determine if a guy truly wants to be with you, but I advise you not to try it… )

2. Risks of having sex

If you break up with your current boyfriend, your next boyfriend might dislike you because you are not a virgin;

If you’re not careful, you might get pregnant or even contract a disease.

3. Benefits of not having sex

Don’t worry about your new boyfriend disliking you for not being a virgin after you break up.

4. Risks of not having sex

It could damage the relationship; the guy might feel that you’re not sincere towards him, and conflicts between the two of you could increase.

In short, no matter which direction you choose to go, there will always be gains and risks.

As adults, we simply choose the path that we can best accept, and at the same time, accept the consequences of that choice with equanimity.

As the Cantonese saying goes: “You choose your own path, don’t cry when you fall down.”

If you stumble and fall, don’t cry. You chose this path yourself.

Please believe in yourself and don’t come back to regret it a few years later, because there’s no need for that. All your choices were the best choices you could make at the time, given your experience and intelligence.

Trust your decisions and strive to bear the consequences.

You are free, I love you, and I hope you can get everything you want in terms of sex.

Good luck.

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Figure Out Proper Intimacy Timing With Three Simple Questions