The Hidden Reason Why It Ruins Men and Women’s Feelings

Many people like to dwell on conflicts and won’t give up until they figure out who is right and who is wrong, sometimes even staying up all night to argue. I really don’t agree with this approach.

Some issues should be put aside for now, allowing both sides to calm down.

Only after emotions have cooled down and the mind has calmed down can one calmly and empathize with others.

Time is the best remedy for resolving conflicts.

Many conflicts are not resolved on the spot, but rather through reflection and understanding in daily life.

The issues between you and the other person may only become clear after you see other people’s stories or hear about their experiences.

So that’s what the other person was thinking back then; I also realized I had my faults.

When people get into a dispute, it’s easy for the problem to turn into a debate.

Most people argue until the end not to solve the problem, but to win.

Both want to prove themselves right and want the other to submit.

But this only exacerbates the conflict and serves no purpose.

The real solution is when both parties are comfortable and understand each other.

It means understanding the other person’s motivation and recognizing their limitations.

Misunderstandings are inherently common between people.

When emotions run high, these misunderstandings can turn into a competitive spirit.

A good communication has been turned into a war of mutual attacks.

I firmly believe that no one in a close relationship will easily give up on each other.

Even the most intense arguments eventually give way to compassion after calming down.

I will reflect on whether I spoke too harshly or was too demanding.

This act of being soft-hearted was the best opportunity to repair the relationship.

But some people take advantage of the other person’s guilt and push their luck.

Take advantage of the other party’s soft heart and continue to suppress them.

This is the root cause of how deep the conflict accumulates and how it becomes irreparable.

Ultimately, it’s all due to human limitations and the inherent flaws of human nature.

Stop complaining that your partner doesn’t understand you or can’t grasp your emotions.

Ordinary people don’t have exceptionally high empathy abilities.

It’s impossible to accurately capture your every thought and subtext.

Many conflicts are essentially caused by a lack of ability.

Whether it’s relationships or family of origin, many deadlocks are difficult to resolve on one’s own.

The two people are caught in a state of conflict, reflecting on themselves, introspecting, and making concessions, which places too high demands on human nature.

In building relationships, someone always has to take the first step.

First understand, first be tolerant, first guide.

Instead of a stalemate and mutual attrition.

Don’t be obsessed with winning or losing, and don’t get stuck on trivial details.

Give each other space to cool down, and show some compassion and understanding.

Only then can the relationship last and be comfortable.