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We 90s generation are really optimistic. Although we are materially poor, we always consider ourselves to be spiritual billionaires.
A couple of days ago, my girlfriends shared a list of the world’s top ten luxury brands compiled by The Washington Post. I understand what my friends meant.
Although we don’t have much money, we still have these:
1. The awakening and understanding of life.
2. A free, joyful, and loving heart.
3. The ambition to travel the world.
4. Return to nature.
5. A restful and peaceful sleep.
6. Enjoy time and space that truly belong to you.
7. Soulmates who deeply love each other.
8. There will always be someone who truly understands you.
9. Physically healthy and spiritually rich.
10. It can inspire and ignite hope in others.
But after reading this, Xiao A’s mentality collapsed. She said that as long as she didn’t quit her job, she would have no freedom, no sleep, no time or space, no lover, no health, and what’s worse, no hope!
She’s so busy, she must be making a lot of money, right?
It’s true that she works in jobs that can make millions every minute, but her monthly salary might only be 90 yuan.
Yes, you read that right. She showed me her salary from last month. All I could do was comfort her: Keep smiling and live on.
You guessed it, this unfortunate kid is doing the job of a bank teller, a profession that other public accounts are threatening to disappear in 10 years.
A few years after graduation, I’ve seen too many friends, and my relationship with work has transitioned from the honeymoon phase to a period of burnout. I’m experiencing the following symptoms:
Going to work is like going to a funeral.
The only time I find joy in my work is on the 10th of each month.
My salary was deposited into my bank account on time, a “ding” sounded, and I felt happy for about 5 seconds before it was all over.
I want to quit my job every day, but I don’t know what I truly enjoy doing and what I can never get tired of.
They can only maintain a semblance of adult dignity, going to work soullessly during the day and scrolling through job search apps at night.
However, there are also some women who are more excited about their work than about dating. They all share a common experience: changing careers and genuinely enjoying their current situation.
We interviewed 500 elite women from all walks of life, and they have something to say about women changing careers.
“I earn a million a year, bought my own house, and didn’t rely on underhanded tactics.”
Before resigning: One of the Big Four accounting firms
After resigning: Investment Banking
To be honest, the label of “investment banker” is quite controversial.
The outside world’s impression of investment banks is nothing more than extravagance, high pressure, and ruthless pursuit of power.
I’ve also heard many industry rumors: a girl caught the eye of a high-ranking executive and was allocated an apartment in Beijing; another woman had an affair with her boss, which was discovered by his wife, leading to a public argument in the company WeChat group, resulting in both of them being fired.
But I haven’t encountered any of the unspoken rules in this industry yet. Maybe I’m not at a high enough level, or maybe I’m too engrossed in my work.
Whether the circle is chaotic or not is one thing, how you choose to participate is another.
In reality, there aren’t that many unavoidable circumstances or pressures in life; ultimately, it’s all about one’s own choices.
If you choose to be sexually exploited, you have to accept being gossiped about behind your back. If you refuse to be sexually exploited, then you have to bear it yourself, even if it’s extremely difficult, don’t cry.
Most of the female colleagues I know rely on their own hard work.
Two female colleagues I know have only been in this industry for two or three years, and they already earn a million-dollar annual salary.
How lucky is it to find your favorite job in your very first job?
Back then, I was also fascinated by the allure of investment banking when I was with the Big Four, but I only realized how disappointing it was once I got there.
Whether you are suited to do this has nothing to do with whether you are interested in it or not.
What if you insist on doing it anyway?
There’s no other way but to give it a try, and you’ll have to bear the risks yourself.
It’s always better to start trying than to repeat to yourself every day, “I want to quit my job.”
However, adults work for two reasons: money and responsibility. No matter how tiring it is, they will persevere. Even if it is not what they truly want deep down, they still have to do their best to do things well.
This industry is highly cyclical, and it has been affected by many fluctuations this year, with more cases of deducting or reducing wages under various pretexts than usual.
But just like life, there are highs and lows in any industry. Quitting is the easiest thing to do; the hard thing is to persevere.
Oh, by the way, I just bought a house in Shanghai. *smiles* Now back to work.
“Pursuing love is more important than pursuing a career.”
Before resigning: Senior executive of a Fortune 500 foreign company in Shanghai
After resigning: The guesthouse owner
I worked for a foreign company for 5 years. I’ve seen all kinds of people and experienced all kinds of big events.
Later, I gradually lost my passion and enjoyment for my work.
When you first enter any industry, everyone is full of passion. But after 365 days of repetition, even the most beloved job will wear you down. The saying “you get tired of a job” doesn’t mean you’re tired of the job itself, but rather that you’re tired of the unchanging routine.
What’s even more frustrating is wanting to change but taking no action, feeling powerless to break free from the status quo.
Many people may seem to have 10 years of experience, but in reality, they have only been repeating the work of the previous two years. The so-called 10 years of experience is just a vanity statistic to boast about.
The reason for resigning was not workplace infighting or physical illness, but simply because I felt I owed my partner too much.
I have a boyfriend with whom I have a very stable relationship. We have known each other for 3 years and he has proposed to me 5 times.
He told me last month:
“We’re married now, so you can do whatever you want. I’ll support you in whatever you do. If you don’t want to get married yet, don’t feel guilty. Anyway, you’re my wife, and there’s no escaping that.”
I couldn’t bear to refuse him anymore. In my resignation letter to my boss, I wrote that I wanted to go home and marry someone.
I thought she would scold me for being unambitious and disappointing, but instead she smiled and said: Family is always more important than career.
I love the dazzling night view of Lujiazui. Every time I walk home from working overtime, I feel like I’m one step closer to the life I want.
But actually, I’ve always been able to have the life I want.
My boyfriend and I have now gone to his hometown and opened a guesthouse on a small island.
Having a loved one, seafood to eat, and sunsets to watch by the sea—that’s the life I want.
“I sell sex toys, and I’m a good girl too.”
Before resigning: Website editor
After resigning: Entrepreneur
I used to work as an editor at an internet website. Although it was just simple information organization, I gradually gained experience.
I get excited every time I see news about financing in emerging industries.
We’re both born in the 90s, but some people are even younger than me, yet they’ve made it onto the Forbes 30 Under 30 list. That’s so cool.
Seeing their entrepreneurial stories is more inspiring than any motivational quote.
I thought, why can’t it be me? We’re both young, both have ideas, and both have the drive to execute them.
While reading industry analysis reports, I discovered that the market for sex toys was huge, so I started selling sex toys.
When I first started doing this, I was met with disdain from others, especially guys I had just met. After hearing what I did, they called me shameless and never contacted me again after meeting me once.
It doesn’t matter, my family is very supportive.
I only sell sex toys, I’m not selling myself.
At first, I found distributors one by one and handled each order myself. When sales were good, I went 35 hours without sleep.
Fortunately, we’ve now achieved a monthly turnover of over 500,000 RMB, and we’ve also found reliable people to work with me on this project.
Many people have asked me, “You’re a girl, why did you choose to start your own business?”
I don’t think so. Starting a business has nothing to do with gender. You’re a girl, so you should earn money through your own abilities.
No matter how beautiful you are, it’s not as good as doing your job well.
Although I was exhausted at first and working until midnight was the norm, I never thought of giving up.
There is no such thing as an easy mode in the world; the only path is hard mode.
Men understand this principle early on and honestly work hard on their own.
Women face too many temptations, and many only realize in their old age that there are no shortcuts in life.
There’s only one path for a girl: abandon her fantasies and throw herself into the fight.
Girls these days are pretty daring.
When I interview children, the type of person I like the most is someone who has a stubborn streak and refuses to give up.
Professional skills aside, if you put these people in a completely new field, they will also try their best to learn.
I’ve also met many friends who quit their jobs at 4A advertising agencies to start their own maternal and infant brands; couples from state-owned enterprises who both worked there quit to open a flower and photography shop; and others who, despite lacking both higher education and start-up capital, secured funding for e-commerce through social media…
In my eyes, they are all pretty cool.
The standard for being cool isn’t what achievements you’ve made or how much money you’ve earned, but rather that you live in a way that you love.
In writing this industry story, I don’t want to encourage everyone to change jobs, but rather to ask you: Is the job you’re doing what you really want to do?
A video has gone viral online showing a tollbooth worker at a highway toll station in Anhui province. He has eight perfectly aligned teeth and his movements, whether looking up or turning around, are so precise that he looks like a robot.
Seeing this scene broke my heart. How many times a day does he have to repeat the same actions? How many years will he have to repeat the same work?
I’m also afraid that I’ll end up like him, repeating the same things for decades.
Take advantage of your youth to experience more things; wherever your heart leads you, that’s the right place.
The founder of the “Goddess Evolution Theory” said:
Around age 25, human fluid intelligence reaches its peak; reading speed and comprehension/learning abilities are at their best. If you’re still single at this time, that’s ideal—free from household chores, you can focus entirely on self-improvement.
You’re only in your early twenties, worrying about not having enough time is nonsense! Just get to work, who knows if you’ll be the next rich woman!
Finally, here’s a quote from my idol in “The Good Wife”: “Men can be lazy, but women can’t.”
Men can be lazy, but women can’t!
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