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Sex is an incredibly wonderful experience, but it’s important to remember that it shouldn’t be done without restraint, at will, or anytime, anywhere. Couples should avoid inappropriate words and actions during sex, as these can not only affect themselves but also make their partners uncomfortable and negatively impact the quality of their sex life.
Both men and women should know these 16 things you shouldn’t do during sex. Please read on carefully to learn more.
1. Tear her clothes
Tearing her clothes might seem exciting in a movie, but in reality, it could infuriate her. After all, mending that precious shirt could take a lot of her time and effort.
2. Unchanging posture
When couples first get together, sex is usually very passionate, partly because neither can predict what kind of sexual stimulation the other will provide. However, over time, if the man doesn’t take the initiative to make changes and always uses the same foreplay, positions, and locations, sex can become boring.
3. Working without cleaning
A man covered in sweat is unlikely to arouse his partner’s sexual desire. Although the smell of sweat on a man can be sexually stimulating for a woman, a man who doesn’t brush his teeth, wash his feet, clean his private parts, or has long, dirty nails is likely to cause his partner to feel disgusted, or even become sexually frigid.
4. Fake an orgasm
Women may think that faking an orgasm will make men feel accomplished, but most men can tell the difference between real and fake orgasms, and doing so will only hurt them.
5. Always request approval.
Some men feel that asking a woman’s needs or obtaining her permission is a respectful way to treat her. However, surveys show that 79% of women say they are “very annoyed by their partners constantly asking for their approval,” suggesting that men should be more proactive and bold, initiating the “attack” based on their feelings. Getting up and leaving the room immediately after sex is also a bad practice.
6 only cared about venting
Perfect sex requires complete immersion. If a man only focuses on releasing his desires and neglects foreplay and emotional communication with his partner, he will not only find it difficult to achieve orgasm, but his partner will also doubt his motives and become increasingly averse to sex.
7. Men feel an urgent need to urinate after sex.
Urinating promptly after sex helps flush the urethra and prevent infection. For women, urinating immediately after sex is a simple and effective way to prevent urinary tract infections.
Because women’s urethra is shorter and straighter, bacteria from the vulva may travel upwards into the urethra during sexual intercourse, causing urethritis, cystitis, and other conditions.
However, men should not urinate immediately after sex, as this can damage the prostate. The male urethra is long and winding, resulting in greater resistance and a longer time for urine to pass through.
When sexual intercourse has just ended, the engorgement of the corpora cavernosa of the penis has not yet subsided, and the contraction of the urethral sphincter and detrusor muscle has not yet been eliminated. This causes high urethral resistance, leading to difficulty in urination or even inability to urinate.
If you urinate urgently at this time, the pressure inside the urethra will increase, and the urine containing bacteria and metabolic waste will flow back into the prostate. Over time, this can easily lead to prostatitis.
8. Women are too passive
Many women believe that men should take the initiative in exploring during sex, but sex is a two-person activity, and both men and women should participate. So don’t make men guess; boldly express your thoughts.
9. After the passion, I immediately fell into a deep sleep.
One partner may be used to the comfort of having their own bed and think that they won’t be disturbed while sleeping. However, after sex, they should “make an exception” and share a bed with their partner, or at least be intimate and whisper to each other in the same bed for a while.
Whether it’s one person or both, falling asleep immediately after passion diminishes the allure of sex. This is because it leaves no time for either partner to savor the afterglow or relive the passion. Sleeping separately can also lead a partner to mistakenly believe that all their previous enthusiasm was solely for sex.
10. After the initial excitement, rush to make a phone call or immediately get back to work.
After a passionate encounter, don’t rush to make a phone call or immediately get back to work. Your partner might think: “You must have been distracted during the passion, which is why you ended it so quickly. Is a phone call, a text message, or regular work really less important than mutually enjoyable sex?”
Doing this will eventually diminish your partner’s desire for sex, and may even make them doubt whether your relationship is as important as work or other external factors.
11. Do not make a sound during sex
For a man, his lover’s silence is a great “insult.” Making love without uttering a sound sends the unspoken message, “I have absolutely no interest in you.”
12. Leave the other person immediately after the passion ends.
From a psychological perspective, after a passionate encounter, you might leave your partner immediately and head straight to the bathroom for the sake of cleaning. However, your partner might perceive you as eager to end the sexual encounter and not giving them a chance to “do it again.” Alternatively, you might think that sex is “dirty,” or even that the bodily fluids left on you by your partner are unclean.
This is more common in women. It can leave a psychological scar on your partner, so it’s best to linger for a few more minutes after your passion ends. Actually, basic cleaning before and after sex is sufficient; the body has a “self-defense system” and won’t create an easy path for bacteria just because you linger for a few minutes after sex.
13. Naked, facing the air conditioner.
After sexual activity, you may be covered in sweat, and some men and women like to stand naked in front of the air conditioner, which is also not advisable. This makes it easy for germs to take advantage. This is because after sexual activity, the body’s ability to regulate temperature weakens, making it more susceptible to cold.
Direct exposure to cold air can cause the sweat glands to close suddenly, preventing sweat from being released. Therefore, even in the sweltering heat, it’s best to avoid sitting naked in front of an air conditioner. It’s better to cover yourself with a light blanket to prevent catching a cold.
14. Comparing his sexual abilities to “others”
The most hurtful thing you can do to a man is to compare his sexual prowess to “others.” Even if you want to praise him, never use a comparative approach. Comparative statements can easily lead to misunderstandings, making him feel like you were thinking about someone else during sex, which will make him feel very uncomfortable.
15. Constantly urging your partner to clean up when you’re deeply in love.
Men generally like clean women, but if a woman is a clean freak in the sexual sense, thinking that sex is “dirty,” and even constantly urging her partner to clean up when things are getting intimate, and then immediately washing up after sex, it will extinguish a man’s passion.
16. Eating cold food immediately after sexual intercourse
The feeling of fatigue after sexual intercourse is mostly due to the temporary relaxation of the brain and spinal cord reflexes that control the ejaculation of semen after ejaculation.
During ejaculation, the nerves are excited and tense, so it’s best not to eat cold food immediately. During sexual activity, the sympathetic nervous system is more active, resulting in less blood flow to the gastrointestinal tract compared to normal.
Therefore, drinking ice water immediately before the gastrointestinal mucosa returns to normal after congestion can cause sudden cold exposure, potentially damaging the gastrointestinal tract. In severe cases, it may even cause gastrointestinal discomfort or cramps.
Whether it’s summer or winter, if you feel thirsty after sex, you can drink a small amount of warm or cool boiled water, but try to avoid drinking ice water or cold beverages.
As for those who already suffer from gastroenteritis, indigestion, or ulcers, even if they abstain from sexual activity, consuming too much cold food is not good. When eating cold ice cream, popsicles, etc., regardless of whether sexual activity is involved, one should eat in moderation according to their own gastrointestinal function and not without restraint.
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