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Return To ShopWhen We Grow Old: Human Hearts and Feelings Fade So Fast
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Have you ever had these moments? When you were young, you and your best friend promised to stay together for life, but she never liked your posts on social media again; a friend you sincerely helped for ten years thought of someone else first when you needed help; or a marriage you finally made where you have to look down at your phone even when you’re having dinner together.
Getting stuck on the obsession of “why feelings change” will only make you more exhausted and even make you feel bitter when you drink a cup of tea.
As you get older, you realize that the key to getting along with others lies in just three words: let it go.
A while ago, when I was having tea with my old colleague Sister Chen, she took out her yearbook from twenty years ago, gently touched her deskmate’s name with her finger, and then sighed.
The two had agreed years ago to take their grandson to the Forbidden City together after retirement, but now they haven’t even added each other on WeChat.
She used to keep asking herself, “Is there something I did wrong?” It took her more than half a year to slowly recover.
We always like to ask why people’s hearts change, which is because we are bound by the idea that emotions must last a lifetime.
Wise people stop arguing about right and wrong and simply say, “It’s okay.”
The first person to forgive and forget about right and wrong is the one who doesn’t dwell on it.
The next level down is left to develop naturally without intervention.
Relationships shouldn’t be written on stones, but rather like clouds that change with time.
The more you treat “long-term” as a standard you must adhere to, the easier it is to become suffocated and unable to breathe.
Being too fixated on “forever” makes one lose the warmth of the present moment.
Aunt Wang downstairs went on a trip to Yunnan with her friends a few years ago, but they all broke up last year.
She didn’t cause a scene; she simply switched to a different square dance group and danced to the music every day, happier than anyone else.
Someone asked her if she had any regrets. She said, “When the wind comes, it blows and it’s fine; when the wind goes, I rest and it’s fine.”
“The most important thing is to let things take their natural course and not waste your energy.”
Don’t waste your energy trying to repair a relationship that has already soured.
There’s no need to compromise yourself to salvage a declining relationship, nor to lose sleep over someone else’s changing feelings.
Last year, while helping a friend sort through old things, I found many scarves in a box that I hadn’t given away. People I thought I could give them to for a lifetime are now useless to me.
“Life’s time and heart should be reserved for those who are willing to spend time with you and for your own leisure time.”
“Not wasting your own emotions is being responsible to yourself.”
Actually, “letting it go” doesn’t mean abandoning responsibility; it means you’ve finally realized that some things are beyond your control.
If you stop clinging to “forever,” you won’t be trapped by “fading.”
After staring at the jasmine petals in the teacup for a long time, it took her quite a while to look away.
Just like holding sand in your hand, the harder you grip it, the more it slips through your fingers; but if you gently open your hand, it will remain in your palm. “The sand in your hand is not something you squeeze out, but something you let go.”
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