The Silent Change That Makes Men Fall Into Extramarital Affairs

Xiao Qiu had a boyfriend in school, but they broke up by graduation. It wasn’t a big deal; relationships are complicated, and no one can really say for sure, and it’s not a matter of right or wrong. She was single for a year after graduation, and then, by some twist of fate, she started dating Xiao Liu, a classmate I was quite close to.

It really feels like the world is small; everyone here is someone I know. My friends on social media are so supportive of them, constantly joking, “Get together! Get together! “

Xiao Liu is a down-to-earth person who is very careful in his dealings with others. In Xiao Qiu’s mind, he is a good man. Perhaps that’s why Xiao Qiu and he developed into lovers.

They were truly happy in love, traveling everywhere, enjoying local delicacies, and eventually they got married.

I ran into Xiao Qiu the other day. She didn’t look well. She was playing with her child by herself. The child was playing there, and she was just sitting there watching blankly.

When she saw me, she forced a smile. She said she was troubled because Xiao Liu had an extramarital affair, and the mistress was rumored to be pregnant.

I really didn’t expect this. We don’t usually have much contact, and when there’s something to discuss, it’s just a few words and we go about our business quickly and directly. They really don’t know anything about my personal life.

Now that this has happened, I don’t know how to bring it up. Xiao Qiu continued, saying that his lover was from the same school as him, and they met during the school’s anniversary celebration.

He was invited back to the school by his teacher. With the teacher introducing him, the female student looked at him with great admiration. After the department event, the female student took the initiative to greet him and even treated him to a meal in the cafeteria.

The female classmate said she wanted Xiao Liu to mentor her after graduation, and Xiao Liu agreed on the spot. Whether he said it casually or with good intentions, the female classmate actually asked Xiao Liu for help later.

Xiao Qiu remembers that she was taking care of her child at home when the child was two or three years old. After having the child, she devoted all her energy to the child and was very careful about everything about the child.

She can eat whatever she wants at home, but she’s meticulous about her child’s diet, though she doesn’t pay much attention to Xiao Liu’s. If Xiao Liu wants to eat at home, she has to cook for him herself, which is completely different from other wives who prepare meals and wait for their husbands to come home.

There was almost no love between the two, but if the child had a fever or a cold, Xiao Qiu wouldn’t allow Xiao Liu to go to work, and he had to stay with the child no matter how busy he was.

This made Xiao Liu very angry, so he tried his best to keep himself busy and not think about those things. When he was hungry, he would order takeout. He felt that his life had no color at all.

His female classmate came looking for him. He was both surprised and delighted, unable to believe that she would actually come. Besides, she wouldn’t have to come all the way to him to learn something .

It turned out that learning was one of her purposes, but another reason was that she liked Xiao Liu. Xiao Liu was often used as a role model by the teachers, and it was said that what was said unintentionally was taken seriously by the listener; the girl actually came to him because of that love for the seat.

The female classmate said, “I don’t mind that you’re married now, especially since you’re not happy at all. Why don’t we just stay together for now, and you can get a divorce when you have the chance? “

Xiao Liu had long been dissatisfied with Xiao Qiu. Since having a child, she hadn’t lived up to the expectations of a wife. She was a good mother, and he was only satisfied with the divorce because she was good to the child.

Since having children, we’ve almost completely stopped having sex, maybe once a year. Now, a girl who’s proactive and loves me deeply has secretly made me try it for the first time. It was a long-lost feeling, except this time with someone else. After that, things spiraled out of control, like we were really lovers.

Xiao Liu said he has already made up his mind to get a divorce. If the child wants to stay with him, he will stay with him; if not, he will give the child living expenses every month. He just doesn’t want to live with Xiao Qiu, with whom he has no feelings, anymore.

Between the two of them, I’ve managed to figure something out:

1. After Xiao Qiu had another child, she devoted all her energy to the child.

2. She has shown almost no concern for her husband, Xiao Liu.

3. Xiao Qiu did not consider Xiao Liu’s feelings, nor did he consider the intimate life between husband and wife.

4. Xiao Qiu did not notice the changes in her husband, and only found out that Xiao Liu had another woman when his mistress became pregnant.

From these aspects, it’s clear that Xiao Qiu, as a wife, indeed neglected her marital relationship and failed to take good care of their daily life, leading to the breakdown of their marriage. Xiao Liu is also at fault; he should have first communicated with Xiao Qiu. If they couldn’t communicate and could no longer live together, then they could have chosen divorce, instead of using an extramarital affair to force a divorce.

A happy marriage requires the joint efforts and contributions of both partners to achieve shared happiness.

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The Silent Change That Makes Men Fall Into Extramarital Affairs