The 1–6 Hidden Levels of How the Opposite Sex Feels About You

Level 1: Observation period, frequently spying on you

Commonly occurring environments:

Student days, workplace.

You and the other person have common ground, you often see each other or work in the same office environment.

When someone develops feelings for you, they may not take immediate action but will observe you for a period of time.

For example, he might secretly watch you and pay attention to your every move.

When your eyes meet his, you notice he nervously averts his gaze.

This feeling of affection is actually a form of “unrequited love”.

Such feelings are more common and more private during student years.

Having a crush is like a chaotic battle for someone; at least the person won’t rush into bothering you before they’re sure of your feelings or know you well enough.

There is a line in the movie “Before Sunrise”:

“I like the way he looks at me when I look away.”

This is what unrequited love is like: secretly liking you, afraid that you’ll find out, yet worried that you won’t know.

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Level Two: Actively Initiating Chats with You

A person of the opposite sex initiates a chat with you.

And they chat very frequently, trying to get closer to you every day by finding various topics to try and understand you;

They like your posts on WeChat Moments and interact with you on social media platforms;

I’ll share anything fun, interesting gossip, or delicious food with you as soon as I see it.

What is his purpose in doing this?

To put it another way:

There must be some motive behind everyone in this world who is “especially enthusiastic towards you”.

They either need something from you, want to invest in you for a return, or they like you.

Analyze your own social, professional, and romantic relationships. Is this the case?

Taking the initiative indicates that you have a higher priority, suggesting that he intends to advance the relationship.

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Level 3: Proactively create “dating opportunities”

Relationships between men and women always involve a gradual process;

You’re too hasty; the other person will think you’re impatient.

You are too slow to warm up, and the other person is easily impatient.

The most comfortable state should be based on a rhythm that is comfortable for both parties.

If things proceed at a steady pace, you’ll find it acceptable, and the other party won’t feel any pressure.

All the online chatting and flirting were just preparations for an offline date.

If you’re not aiming to meet up and date to deepen the relationship, then cultivating feelings solely through chatting “through a phone screen” is all fake.

The sign that they have a deeper affection for you is that they will take the initiative to invite you on a date.

Online chatting is a way to get to know someone, to test their feelings, to verify their interest in you, and to analyze the “similarities” between you.

Offline dates are the final evaluation by the other person.

If you get along well during the date, he will guide you to the next stage of the relationship.

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Level 4: Establishing a relationship or entering the ambiguous stage

At what stage of pursuing someone can you confess your feelings?

If someone of the opposite sex likes you to this extent, and your signals indicate acceptance without rejection;

When he makes efforts for you and takes the initiative to contact you, you always give positive feedback;

This is the perfect time for him to confess his feelings to you.

With the atmosphere of romance built up to this point, it’s now a matter of who will take the initiative to break the ice.

If you accept the confession, your relationship will enter the dating stage.

Of course, there is another possibility:

As the other person pursues you, you’ve unknowingly fallen for them;

Subconsciously, you’re hoping the other person will confess their feelings and give you a definite answer.

But no matter how long you wait, the other person never confesses their feelings and only flirts with you.

Your relationship is no different from that of lovers, except that you don’t have a “formal title”.

If you see this sign, you should be alert:

Is the other person’s attitude “truly likes you” or “just wants to flirt and play around”?

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Level 5: Possesses “holistic” characteristics

When your relationship reaches a higher level, you’ll have this feeling:

Subconsciously, you are increasingly trusting and less guarded towards them.

The same applies to the other party.

It’s like this: falling in love with someone is one feeling, getting a marriage certificate is another, and getting married is yet another.

Each time the relationship progresses, your intimacy and trust increase by one point.

The deeper the love, the more the other person trusts and depends on you.

They will habitually say “we” instead of “I”;

They will prioritize your life with the other person, the future, and the next steps, rather than just thinking about themselves.

This is what gives the relationship its “wholeness”.

Conversely:

If the other person doesn’t like you that much, they will be on guard in every way, setting a line in your relationship, and will be very clear about most things.

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Level 6: Aiming for marriage

This is the process of progressing from short-term choice relationships to long-term choice relationships.

During the time you’ve been together, your partner has found you to be a good match, and the two of you are compatible in many ways.

At this point, their mindset begins to shift towards marriage.

What are the specific manifestations?

For example, they might take the initiative to introduce you to their friends and invite you home to meet their parents.

Your presence will always be a part of his plans for your future and his vision for your life.

They will consider the next stage for both of you, rather than just their own.

The most obvious feeling that comes from the deepening of the relationship is: “We’re almost like family now.”

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The 1–6 Hidden Levels of How the Opposite Sex Feels About You