Should You Take Action If a Girl Removes You From Contact?

I met her in July 2020. Since we were in the same industry and did basically the same job, we initially only had work-related interactions and occasional contact, chatting about five or six times a month.

As we got to know each other better, we started chatting more frequently starting in October, and the topics covered a wider range of topics. We chatted about 15 to 20 days a month, and I gradually developed feelings for her.

We had become quite familiar with each other before the Spring Festival. We had gone back to our hometowns together (we are from the same county, but we both work in another city 100 kilometers away). We had eaten alone together a few times. When the Spring Festival holiday was approaching, I gave her a box of dried fruit as a gift.

On the way home with her during the holiday, she asked me why I gave her a gift. I told her it was Chinese New Year and I wanted to give her a small gift, which she happily accepted.

During the Spring Festival holiday that followed, I could feel that her feelings for me had increased. She often took the initiative to chat with me, and even sent me a WeChat red envelope on New Year’s Eve.

During the Spring Festival holiday, she even asked me to go shopping and watch a movie together. We went out together for an afternoon, but since it was getting late, we didn’t go to the movies. She seemed to be in a good mood throughout the trip.

However, after she expressed this affection for me, I became a little hesitant.

There are three main reasons:

Firstly, I’m 30 years old this year, and the issue of marriage is becoming increasingly urgent. I’ve considered some practical issues, such as the financial pressure of buying a house in another city if I’m with her.

Secondly, at the time, I only had a slight liking for her, but I didn’t like her very much.

Thirdly, during a junior high school reunion during the Spring Festival, I ran into a classmate I hadn’t seen for many years. During our conversation, I learned that she was also single and worked as a teacher at an elementary school near my home. Then, a few of my good friends tried to set us up, thinking we were a good match.

These factors made me hesitate and take some steps back. After returning to work after the holiday, I didn’t actively pursue the relationship and reduced the number of times I chatted with her. This continued for two or three months, with only intermittent contact.

During that time, I had contact with the junior high school classmate mentioned above once or twice. Although everything else was suitable, I didn’t feel anything when I was with her, so I remained in a state of indecision.

By the end of May, I realized that I felt more relaxed and comfortable with her than with my junior high school classmate.

After that, I took the initiative to chat with her again, and she responded quite positively. We continued chatting like this for about half a month, talking until after midnight on several days, and we also ate together three times during that time, as if we had rediscovered the way we used to be.

At that time, I thought of giving her a small gift, partly to try to improve our relationship and partly to make up for the neglect I had shown her before. So, on the first day back to work after the Dragon Boat Festival, I bought her a Huawei smart band.

That evening, I took it to her. When we met, I said I wanted to give her a small gift. She asked me why I wanted to give her a gift, but I couldn’t give a proper reason. She was a bit reluctant, but she didn’t seem very angry. We took it back and forth in the car and even took out the bracelets to try on each other. We sat there for a while, but she still refused to accept it.

At that moment, one of her roommates came back from outside (she shared an apartment with two guys). When she saw us, she opened the car door and called her away. To my surprise, her roommate put her arm around her shoulder. Although she seemed to resist a little, she still walked with her. When we were almost at the top of the stairs, I saw her shake off her roommate’s arm. I was very surprised at the time. I thought to myself that the two of them might be together. I was too hasty.

After I got back, I felt something was off, so I messaged her to apologize for not knowing she had a boyfriend. She said she didn’t have a boyfriend and explained that her roommate liked her, but she emphasized that they had a strict family avoidance relationship and couldn’t develop a romantic relationship with a colleague. She didn’t say she didn’t like him.

Later, she pressed me to tell me why I gave her the gift. I explained that I wanted to make up for what she meant, but she wasn’t satisfied with that reason and kept asking. So I expressed my feelings for her.

The next evening, I felt I had been too hasty and wanted to explain things to her properly, so I sent her a message. A little while later, she replied directly, “Let’s be together.”

I was completely stunned. I asked her if she was drunk, and then a little while later she called me again and said directly: Let’s be together.

I said okay, but I sensed something was wrong when I heard her voice sound like she was about to cry. So I asked her where she was and said I would come to pick her up.

She didn’t say anything and hung up the phone quickly. I was very worried. It was already 10:30 p.m., so I immediately got up to go to her dorm to find her. I called her several times on the way, but she didn’t answer. I drove quickly to her building, went upstairs, and knocked on the dorm door. Her roommate opened the door, and there were only the two of them in the room. I saw her wiping away tears in the kitchen. I was quite nervous at the time, so I asked her a few questions. Seeing that she was okay, I went downstairs.

When she got back, she told me on WeChat that she had a good talk with her roommate. She said that her roommate was very good to her. She said, “Although I don’t have those feelings for him, his kindness to me has sometimes made me ignore everything else…” She also said, “Why does he have to be a colleague?” “I can’t be with my colleague, I can’t marry my colleague, I can’t have a future with him…” She also said, “I’m getting more and more annoyed with him.” Then I asked her if they were still sharing an apartment.

She said, “I don’t know either. He said he was moving out, and I said I was moving out.” But I was thinking of helping her find a place so she could move out.

The next day, I found a suitable house, and we went to see it together in the afternoon. Although the house was relatively nice, she was in a bad mood the whole time, and it was obvious that she didn’t want to move.

After viewing the house, we chatted in the car. Although I could tell she didn’t want to move, I still tried my best to persuade her to rent the house.

She started crying as she was talking, and I was at a loss for what to do. I just stayed with her silently until she calmed down, and then I took her home.

After we got back, we chatted on WeChat again, and then she suddenly told me that she wanted to stop now while it wasn’t hurting me too much… saying, “I really want to try with you, I don’t care about the outcome, but reason tells me I can’t do that.”

I tried to win her back, but it didn’t work. In the end, I asked her if what she said to me last night was just said in anger. She said she was serious and sent me a screenshot of her chat with her best friend expressing her feelings for me. She also said that she told her roommate last night that she liked someone else, which made her quite emotional.

That night ended just like that. I felt very hurt, but there was nothing I could do for the time being. I wanted to calm down for a few days before contacting her again.

The very next morning, she took the initiative to send me a WeChat message, as if nothing had happened in the past two days. We continued to chat like this for about a week, talking until very late every day, but we didn’t talk about anything related to our relationship.

During this time, I started thinking about buying a house. I personally don’t need to buy a house in this different city; I mainly have hope for our future together.

I looked at a secondhand apartment and told her about it, but she wasn’t too keen on it. One day after work, I asked her to go for a walk, and we talked about apartments. She was very helpful in finding one for me and even recommended a house that a friend of hers was selling.

It was a new development, and the price was a bit high. We went to see the apartment that night, and she strongly encouraged me to buy it. However, I felt that the apartment was too far from both of our workplaces, so I wasn’t too keen on it. I would have preferred it to be closer to her. I explained my reasons for buying the apartment, but I didn’t explicitly say that it was for her. The atmosphere during our conversation was rather heavy, and we parted on bad terms after I sent her home.

A while after I got back, she sent me a WeChat message. The message only contained my name. My gut feeling told me something was wrong. It was like she wanted to confront me, so I ignored her.

The next afternoon, I took the initiative to send her a WeChat message, saying that I was a little tired last night and went to bed early. Then we continued chatting as usual.

On the afternoon of the third day, she went out for a drive again because of her tire problem. On the way back, her roommate seemed to have called her. When we were almost at the apartment complex, she didn’t want me to take her downstairs, which made me feel a little uneasy.

When I got back, around 10 p.m., I took the initiative to chat with her. We started by talking about other topics, but around 11 p.m., she suddenly changed the subject and said she wanted to tell me something serious. At that moment, I had a feeling that she was going to say something she hadn’t mentioned the day before, so I asked her if she had thought it through.

She said she had thought it through and asked if I had. I said, “Tell me, I can only accept it.”

She told me that chatting with me like this all the time would be bad for me and would affect my chances of finding a partner.

Then I asked her: Are you dating her roommate?

She said, “Maybe in the future, but I don’t know what to do if relatives have to avoid me.” Then I told her that if she gets together with someone else, I would wish her well, but I’m worried about this roommate.

She pressed me for an answer: Why?

I said: I won’t go into details, because you’d think I’m being prejudiced if I did.

But she kept pressing me for an answer, so I told her my opinion of her roommate. I didn’t belittle her roommate; I just analyzed her personality based on what I knew. Then she said, “You’re exactly the same.”

Then I asked her again why she sent me a WeChat message the next morning after she rejected me the first time.

She told me she was hesitant and not firm enough, saying, “I even thought about deleting you.” Then she suggested we play a game where whoever replies to the other first loses. I asked if that made sense, and she said at least we could go a while without contacting each other.

I feel like this time she’s really saying goodbye to me. I’m heartbroken. I told her I did many things wrong and put pressure on her, hoping she’d give me another chance. She just said it was all her fault.measuresI did nothing wrong. If she hadn’t said those words tonight, she would have felt guilty every day.

My mind was a mess at the time, and I didn’t know what to say, so I simply said goodbye to her, and she sent me a simple message of well wishes.

The next day, I was in a terrible mood all day. In the afternoon, I drove out alone, wanting to be by myself for a while. After lying down in the car for a bit, I realized I couldn’t give up like this; I had to win her back. My mood calmed down a little, so I searched online for information on how to win her back. I read some answers from other users on Zhihu, and also came across some of your answers and consultation cases. I suddenly gained confidence. After returning home, I read through several similar consultation cases from your team. I followed your methods, hoping to rekindle the familiar feeling through normal contact and interaction, and then slowly make a breakthrough.

I decided to contact her again in three or four days. During that time, I checked her WeChat Moments and she seemed quite sad. She also changed her WeChat profile picture to one that looked a bit melancholic. I could tell she wasn’t doing well, so I resisted the urge to contact her and decided to do as you suggested.

On the afternoon of the fourth day, I felt it was about time to go to work, so I asked her for help with something related to work. She responded quickly and sent me some materials that I needed, which helped us establish normal communication.

I contacted her around 7 p.m. that evening. She took the initiative to send me a WeChat message asking why I had contacted her again. I told her that I couldn’t get the materials I needed from anyone else, so I had to ask her. We then chatted about our recent situations for a while. We had a very pleasant chat that night. Before going to sleep, she told me that she dreamed about me last night, which made me quite happy.

After reconnecting, our conversations quickly returned to their previous level. By the weekend (they started having only one day off a week), things felt just like before, and I asked her to go out with me, which she accepted.

I went to see her on Sunday noon. After we met, we had hot pot together and then drove to a riverside for a while. It was a very hot day, and she suffered from heatstroke when we got back in the evening. She wasn’t feeling well, which was my fault for not being more aware and not buying enough water. Since I had to get back to work that night, I let her rest in the car for a while and bought her some Huoxiang Zhengqi Water to help relieve her symptoms.

As she was preparing to return, her roommate called her. She told her that she wasn’t feeling well, and her roommate, showing great concern, offered to come and pick her up (it’s nearly 200 kilometers round trip), but she politely declined.

It was quite late when we arrived, and she had gradually recovered. I felt that the date had given her a bad experience.

On Monday morning, I checked on her health, and I ran into her on my way to work at noon. She seemed to have recovered, which made me quite relieved.

We often chat during the day. Since the weather was nice this week, I wanted to ask her out for a walk after get off work. I tentatively asked her out for two days, but she declined both times, citing other commitments.

But we chat almost every day. Sometimes she initiates the conversation, and sometimes I initiate it.

By Friday, I planned to go home in the afternoon. They only had one day off a week, so they could only go back on Saturday afternoon. I had advised her not to drive this week and to come up with me. I thought I would leave my car with her so it would be more convenient for her to come back the next day, since my colleague who came with me also had a car, making it easier for me to get back. She knew that too.

But she didn’t accept my suggestion and told me to drive back myself, and she would find a way to come back tomorrow.

On Saturday, we had a very pleasant chat. In the afternoon, I helped her arrange a ride with an unlicensed taxi that I often used. On her way back, during our conversation, I suggested she get off near my house (her way to her house involved passing through our area), and we could have dinner together before I took her home. She finally agreed.

After we finished eating together, I took her home. On the way, I tentatively asked her what she was doing tomorrow. She said she was free, so I took the opportunity to ask her to go peach picking together. Although she didn’t agree directly, she seemed to be in a good mood.

The next day at noon, I went to see her, and she agreed to go out with me. We went to a peach orchard to pick peaches, visited a flower market, and she bought two potted plants. After having dinner together that evening, we headed back together; she didn’t drive.

Not long after we set off, her roommate called her again, just like last weekend, asking when she was coming and so on. I didn’t hear the rest. The two of them had a pleasant chat all day, but somehow the conversation turned to relationships on the way. I had followed your advice in the case study to avoid discussing relationship topics with her.

Then, during the conversation, I realized that I said three things that were inappropriate.

First, I told her that it’s better for two people who are on a blind date to be decisive about their relationship, and not to drag things out and delay each other.

Secondly, she asked me if I had met anyone suitable over the years. I really wanted to say that she was the most suitable person I had ever met, but on the one hand, I was too embarrassed, and on the other hand, I thought that saying it might put pressure on her, so I said no.

Third, she asked me if anyone had introduced me to anyone recently. I said no, I’m under a lot of pressure, so I’ve lowered my standards for girls and might compromise soon.

This kind of topic is already quite heavy, and both of them were in a bad mood while talking about it; you could tell she wasn’t happy either.

When we got to her building, I helped her carry her things, walked her to the bottom of the stairs, told her to cheer up, and then went back.

When I got back, I sent her a funny picture, hoping to cheer her up, but she didn’t reply immediately. I was quite tired from driving all day, so I went to sleep.

About half an hour later, she replied with “hahaha”. I was quite sleepy at the time, so I told her to go to sleep and sent a goodnight emoji before putting my phone down and ignoring it.

A short while later, she replied with a message, but I didn’t look at it again.

I didn’t sleep well that night and woke up around 4 a.m. Unable to fall back asleep, I checked my phone. She had replied with an emoji, not something like “goodnight” or “sleep well,” so I couldn’t understand what it meant. Then I clicked into her Moments to take a look, but found I couldn’t scroll down. After looking closely, I noticed the message “Only show the ten most recent Moments posts if you are not her friend.” That’s when it dawned on me. I tried sending her a message, and sure enough, she had deleted me.

I panicked immediately and became even more unable to sleep. I tossed and turned, unable to figure it out, and barely slept all night.

The next day at work, I was feeling very frustrated, but I tried to add her back. I tried three times, and she didn’t respond the first two times. The third time, she accepted my friend request. I was thinking about what to send her when I sent an emoji, and then it showed that she had enabled friend verification.

Then I opened her Moments and found that she just wanted me to see her latest status update, which read, “The bravest way is to disappear without a trace.”

I didn’t send another verification request, but after a while she sent one. The verification message read “How to say goodbye, how to reconcile with regrets”. I clicked add, but it showed as pending verification and I still couldn’t send the message.

And so, the morning was spent in a state of unease.

But coincidentally, we bumped into each other on our way home from get off work (we shared a section of our commute). We didn’t greet each other and just walked past each other with our heads down. As we passed, I could tell she looked quite sad.

In the afternoon, I didn’t send any more verification requests. I opened her Douyin account and found that the content she liked had changed from encrypted to public. The first video she liked was a video that said, “Let’s say goodbye properly…” Finally, we went our separate ways.of…” Copywriting video.

Today is the second day since she deleted me. I’ve calmed down a bit and would like to consult you about the following issues:

1. I still have feelings for her. I want to ask if I still have a chance? If so, what should I do next, and what mindset should I have when interacting with her (we are very likely to run into each other on our way to and from get off work).

2. Please help me analyze why she suddenly deleted me.

3. Please help me point out the mistakes I made in this relationship so that I can improve in future relationships.

Hello, I have read your letter carefully. Here are my thoughts, which I hope will be helpful to you.

1. Let me first point out the areas where you handled things poorly in your attempts to develop a romantic relationship with a girl.

1) There are problems with the way you try to advance the relationship, the pace you take, and the path you follow.

A, before your relationship with the girl cooled down, you tried to improve it by giving her gifts. However, the girl kept asking you why you gave her gifts.

This situation arises because you and the girl haven’t established an emotional connection. Therefore, from her perspective, she needs a suitable reason for you giving her a gift. Of course, it’s also possible that the girl senses your feelings for her and is using this opportunity to ask for a clearer answer.

From your perspective, you shouldn’t have given her a gift in this situation (to avoid making a mistake from the start) . If you manage your relationship well, she’ll happily accept your gift, and she might even reciprocate later. This way, you both contribute to the relationship, creating a positive cycle.

Either you give a girl a gift, and she asks you why you gave her a gift, you can tease her back. For example: INot firstIf I give you a gift, how can I better receive it in return? Or, do I really need a reason to give you a gift? If that’s the case, then tell me why you won’t accept the gift I give you?

How exactly to tease a girl depends on the specific circumstances of your interaction with her. I’m just giving you a general idea here.

If you can make a girl feel good by teasing her and put her in a good mood, she will often accept your gift later, even if she doesn’t accept it at first.

If a girl really doesn’t want to accept your gift, don’t insist or force her. The purpose of giving a gift is to make her feel good, not for her to accept it.

If the girl ultimately refuses your gift, although it might be a little awkward, you can gracefully accept it. For example, you could tease her by saying, “Then I’ll keep it for you for now. If you want it someday, just pretend to beg me and I’ll give it to you.”

B, after you reconnected with the girl, you would often mention, without really meaning it, that you talked a lot with her and that the conversations went very well.

Forehead……

In a situation where it’s already clear that you like a girl and she already knows it, even if she doesn’t particularly like you, she’s still willing to continue chatting and meeting up with you.

As the person in question, you should consider, on the basis of giving the girl a good dating experience through more and better interactions and dates, you should try to make your relationship more like that of a couple. An important part of this is to naturally try to have physical contact with the girl.

What practical benefit does it have if you chat with girls a lot and have good conversations with them?

This ambiguous state and rhetoric is not the path you should take when trying to advance your relationship with a girl.

To give an extreme example, if a girl and you get closer and closer during your dating process, even kissing and sleeping together…

Even in this situation, some girls might still choose not to be with you, but you should still try.

Key resultsIf that’s the case, and the girl has kissed you and even slept with you, then in her mind, you’ll naturally be more important than her so-called roommate.

Sometimes, if your competitors knew you were doing this with girls, they might just back off.

2) From your words, you might feel that this girl is deeply in love with you, but I need to remind you that this girl doesn’t actually like you that much.

Don’t give me any of that nonsense about how she was in a bad mood, how upset she was, or how depressed she was after rejecting you.

If a girl doesn’t want to develop a serious romantic relationship with you, or if she doesn’t want to be with you, it’s actually because she doesn’t really like you.

If she likes you enough, what obstacles are there between you?

No, not at all.

Why is she conflicted and hesitant about your relationship?

Because of your relationship, she was neither able to make up her mind to be with you, nor did she feel regretful about the complete end of your relationship.

From the girl’s perspective, she herself isn’t clear about what she really wants. Between you and her roommate, is she going to choose one, or neither?

When faced with a girl’s indecisiveness and uncertainty in relationships, when she’s unclear about what she really wants, you can either do what I mentioned above—constantly try to advance the relationship through interactions and dates, encouraging her to invest more in it (but what kind of substantial investment is chatting or meeting you?) —or simply be more carefree from the start. Her indecisiveness is her problem. There are plenty of good girls out there; I have the ability to attract excellent women. Why would I put myself in the position of a backup plan, making a woman choose between me and another man ?

Girls should act shamelessly.GrandpaHow could I possibly act like a jerk like a girl?

In short, if a girl is confused, foolish, or even pathetic in a relationship, don’t be shy.GrandpaI’m sorry, I can’t keep you company!

2. Reasons why a girl suddenly deleted you

The girl deleted you, was that sudden?

It’s not sudden.

What happened suddenly?

Oh, so you think that after you re-established contact and interaction with the girl, your relationship with her has progressed…ofgood.

The key issue is that your relationship with the girl hasn’t made any real progress, and she clearly values her roommate more than you.

The girl didn’t distance herself from her roommates because of you; on the contrary, she talked about her roommates in front of you.

Please, I’m sure you felt bad after hearing her talk about her roommate.

Why did you make her mention her roommate?

Even though the girl is meeting and dating you, she talks about another man, and her emotions are more affected by him (she doesn’t ignore calls from another suitor just because you’re with her).

All of this indicates that the current situation is not good for you.

So whether the girl chooses to delete you or chooses to be with her roommate, you should have foreseen these possibilities.

IfIf this happens, don’t be surprised. If you still don’t want to give up, you should treat her with a calm attitude.

For example: you’ve been deleted by her, and in the course of your normal life, you run into her, so you greet her and chat with her normally.

Instead of meeting her and pretending not to see her.

As the person involved, a girl messages you saying, “Let’s be together.” You’re completely confused.

The girl deleted you, and you felt very surprised.

Don’t you have any idea about the objective situation of your relationship with the girl?

If you act like that, you’ll easily end up like you and this girl, where the girl is in control and you’re just someone she chooses and manipulates.

3. Now that things have come to this, if you don’t want to give up and still want to keep trying…

1) My primary advice is to just forget about it.

Even if you like this girl, she has no reason to treat you like this.

Is this a monkey show?

As a man, you can choose not to date, but you have to maintain your dignity.

More importantly, the fact that the girl has abandoned you suggests that she may actually be more inclined towards her roommate.

There’s nothing wrong with a girl’s own choices and decisions.

But is there any ambiguity between her and her roommate? And could there be any physical intimacy between them based on that ambiguity?

There are many probabilities, more or less, that actually exist.

Think more about these possibilities that make you feel bad; it will help you let go of her.

If you choose to ignore these possibilities, or if you’re stubbornly unwilling to give up, then keep reading.

2) You like a girl, but for some reason, she’s against being with you, and now she’s proactively deleted you from her contacts.

So, at present, your relationship with the girl is just that of acquaintances.

If you’re still not over her, then don’t…existJust like before, he focused on his own perspective, wanting nothing more than to pursue her and win her back.

Instead, we should just treat her as someone we know, like any other person.

If you meet her on your way to work, just greet her normally and chat with her casually.

The more you treat her with a normal attitude, the more it will help your relationship with her return to normal.

If your interaction with the girl goes well when you meet, you can try suggesting that you add her back on WeChat and express your desire to be just friends with her.

This is something you can’t rush. If you rush, it just means you still want to pursue her, which contradicts her current attitude towards you.

If you meet a girl and things aren’t going well, try suggesting adding her back on WeChat so you can postpone it.

If it’s been a long time since you’ve had any contact with girls, then naturally…ofIf you happen to cross paths, you can try adding her as a WeChat friend directly.

3) If afterwards, you and the girl resume normal contact and interaction, and even if your interaction with the girl is going well…

Even so, there hasn’t been any real progress in your relationship with the girl.

On this point, I’d like to add some explanation. Some inexperienced people in love encounter a girl who rejected them before. After they resume contact and interaction with the girl, if the two seem to be getting along well, some inexperienced people will think that they have a chance this time, or that their relationship with the girl has made great progress.

In reality, this is often not the case.

Whether your relationship with a girl progresses depends on the specific details of your interactions with her.

So don’t assume that a girl has accepted you just because she seems to be interacting with you well after rejecting you.

Note that some girls’ attitudes toward a particular boy in a relationship are often ambiguous.

Even if a girl rejects you, does that mean she has absolutely no feelings for you? Often, that’s not the case.

Even if a girl resumes contact and interaction with you, does that mean she’s ready to accept you? Often, it’s not.

If a girl is conflicted and hesitant about being with you, then you are often like tasteless and unappealing to her, yet she can’t bear to give you up.

If you want a girl to be more inclined to choose to be with you, then you should attract her to like you more by having more and better interactions and dates with her.

If you want to attract girls to like you more, you need to rely on your own strength and charm, so self-improvement is very important.

On the other hand, you also need to guide the girl to invest and contribute to the relationship. If you’re the only one giving and the girl is passively receiving, she won’t be willing to make any real investment or contribution to the relationship. Then, no matter how well your relationship seems to be developing on the surface, it’s often just your own illusion.

4) I suggest you give up if you really can’t. Even if you continue trying to develop a romantic relationship with the girl, as long as your relationship remains in the acquaintance stage and you haven’t established an emotional connection, it’s still not a viable option.

I suggest that while you continue to contact and interact with the girl, you should also have normal contact with other girls.

I’m not telling you to pursue other girls, but rather suggesting that you can normally approach and get to know other girls and build social relationships with them.

Only in this way can Xiaobai better balance her relationship with her target girl.

If you have a strong enough mindset, even if the girl you’re targeting has other guys who like and pursue her, she won’t completely reject them; instead, she’ll retain the possibility of a future relationship. She might even be in contact with or flirting with other guys.

If you don’t care about this at all, then that’s great.

However, many newbies to love simply cannot do this, which directly leads to the fact that, for you, the girl is your only one, and you easily and unconsciously place all your emotions on her.

For the girl, you are just one of her many suitors, and one she has already rejected.

This objectively results in a situation where, in your relationship with the girl, she is stronger and you are weaker; she has more choices and more say.

Such a relationship and status can seriously…ofIt prevents you from attracting girls who genuinely like you from the bottom of their hearts.

Relationships are the result of mutual selection; that’s fair.ofvery.

If you are truly good, if you can truly bring happiness to a girl, if you can truly attract a girl to like you from the bottom of her heart, girls aren’t stupid, why wouldn’t she choose you?

The fact that a girl doesn’t choose you precisely indicates that you yourself have some problems.

If a girl keeps rejecting you, and you still can’t give up on her, is this unwavering devotion to love, or does it mean you don’t value yourself enough?

Often, it’s just a hair’s breadth away.

In my opinion, liking someone is not a reason for me to act foolishly; liking someone is not a reason for them to treat me badly; if I like someone, I must first genuinely like and value myself, only then can I better like others.

So even if you’re still not giving up on a girl who keeps rejecting you, you should try to maintain a good balance in your relationship while you’re trying to continue developing the relationship. Don’t unconsciously make it seem like you’re deliberately pursuing or trying to win her back.

You really like her, you’re 30 years old, and you’re under pressure to get married, but none of that should affect how you should get along with her.

Hopefully this will inspire you.

Your loyal love doctor

Love Sir

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