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Hello, I’m Xiaoyu. The Bao Yuming incident happened a long time ago, and I wonder how many people still care. This afternoon, let’s talk about this topic. This article is from another account of ours: The Evolution of Cabbage Mom. The main writer is Sister Cabbage, a PhD in Chinese Literature, who will discuss this topic with everyone.
This happened many years ago. One of my senior classmates went out with her boyfriend, whom she had just started dating, until midnight. When the dorm was locked, the guy suggested they go to a hotel.
Those who have been through it all know what will happen, but my senior sister has absolutely no sexual experience.
My senior colleague described the experience to me, saying that she had no idea what was happening at the time, and that she was not very willing during the whole process, even feeling humiliated. Even after it happened, she didn’t understand what the process meant.
It sounds absurd. Our nine years of compulsory education really didn’t teach us what sex is? What does sex mean?
In the case of Bao Yuming sexually assaulting his adopted daughter, there was a passage in the Southern Weekly report that made my heart tremble.
Li Xingxing recounted her first sexual assault, at which time she had no idea what was happening.Later, she searched for “causes of genital pain” on her phone.A doctor’s consultation dialog box pops up.The profile picture shows a “doctor grandma”.Li Xingxing told the doctor the cause of the pain.I only learned from the other party that I had been raped.
Don’t think I’m exaggerating; very few girls around me actually know the complete process of sexual intercourse. Talking about sex is forbidden before age 18, and you can get married at 21 (23 for men), then you’ll be pressured to marry by relatives and friends. To expect to understand all the knowledge of human reproduction in just three years is so rushed and so unacceptable. This is why Chinese women’s attitude towards sex is always one of avoidance, humility, and forbearance, rather than enjoyment.
Ironically, while sex education is neglected, advertisements for painless abortion are everywhere.
It’s not just girls who are sexually assaulted; boys can be sexually assaulted too. But who knows what sexual assault specifically refers to for boys? We can’t find any answers in our current education system. But society has shown us, with its bloody reality, that there really are bad people in this world who prey on little boys.
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So, how do we conduct sex education? Or, in other words, how do we teach children to prevent sexual assault? I think parents must have the right attitude towards sex education. Talking about sex with children is not something shameful.
We must make our children understand that they came into this world because of the love between their parents. Sex and love combine to create a new life.The following picture book sharing contains no advertisements. We recommend that you purchase genuine books from major e-commerce platforms. 01 “The Story of the Little Penis” & “The Story of the Breasts”Text by: Naohide Yamamoto, Makiko Sato, and Pu Pu LanPublisher: Lianhuanhua Publishing House
Every child is curious about breasts and penises; it’s human nature. Never laugh at a child or try to hide it from them. Instead, tell them openly and honestly.
Previous sex education, in essence, boiled down to one sentence: You’ll understand when you grow up.
What do we learn when we grow up?
Withdrawal will not result in pregnancy.Cervical erosion is caused by promiscuous sexual activity…Painless abortion is quick and doesn’t cause any harm to women.Because you’re not a virgin, you’re a slut.
These misconceptions about sex not only prevent women from protecting themselves, but also cause further harm to women who are already vulnerable.
A French friend of mine has told me more than once that women should learn to enjoy a healthy sex life, including masturbation, but looking at the women around me, very few “enjoy” it. Once, during a discussion about “women’s independence,” a female scholar mentioned that women’s independence should include sexual independence, such as using female masturbation toys. A male medical doctor said very seriously that female masturbation would lead to women’s psychological health problems. The female scholar countered by asking him how single women satisfy their sexual needs. Do they resort to one-night stands or suppress them (ultimately leading to hormonal imbalances)?
He stubbornly insisted that he could find a man to solve the problem.In other words, he can accept women seeking help from men, but he cannot accept women having sex. The female scholar then asked, “Why can men masturbate, but we women can’t use masturbation toys? If masturbation is done at a normal frequency, what psychological harm does it cause?” Unable to answer, he repeatedly emphasized that women’s sexual needs must be met by men, and that it was indecent for women to use sex toys. I don’t know where he got this idea from, but he is definitely not an isolated case. Many times, even women are ashamed of their sexual needs.
Therefore, it’s not hard to understand why, among so many sexless couples, the men still indulge in debauchery while the women act like “ninja turtles.” Or perhaps, during sexual intercourse between lovers, the woman is already extremely uncomfortable, yet she still has to endure the man. Remember that shocking scandal that just broke? A male celebrity was caught hitting his girlfriend with a cell phone cord. This celebrity’s behavior must be condemned!
But I also feel sorry for this girl. She was clearly uncomfortable at the time, but why didn’t she resist?
Weibo influencer Hou Hongbin remarked: “Why do you see male celebrities engaging in such varied, fresh, and constantly changing acts of ‘scumbag behavior,’ while female celebrities are far less likely to commit rape, infidelity, or prostitution? Because their moral standards are different. In my eyes, the biggest stain on a female celebrity’s record isn’t even her infidelity, but rather her tolerance of her cheating husband,” I hope more parents will prioritize sex education for their children. When your child learns to view sex correctly, they will understand the beauty of human reproduction. This will prevent them from harming others or being harmed themselves when they grow up. A surprise at the end
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