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“It only lasts 2 minutes at a time, there’s no need to take off your clothes.”This is a heartbreaking news story.Mr. Lin and Ms. Yang are a married couple.It only took two months from when they met to when they got married.After their marriage, they did indeed enjoy a sweet period.However, precisely because it was a whirlwind marriage, the two had more and more conflicts in their later relationship.After an argument, the wife, Ms. Yang, filed for divorce and left home.Mr. Lin was stunned by his wife’s reaction, but he did not want a divorce.Later, Mr. Lin found his wife, who had run away from home, in a hotel.No matter how much he pleaded, he couldn’t persuade his wife to come back.Faced with the crowd who came to persuade him, the wife, Ms. Yang, explained the reason.She stated that her feelings for her husband were genuine, but she filed for divorce because her husband had a physical disability.

Ms. Yang said that her husband couldn’t wait to have sex with her every time he came home, and she refused many times.Especially in winter, when it’s cold, I really don’t want to take off my clothes.More importantly, the husband only lasts two minutes each time, and he has to put his clothes back on before he can even take them off, which is completely unnecessary.If saying it’s too cold is a perfunctory excuse, then “two minutes at a time” is blatant disdain.Mr. Lin, whose desires were not satisfied, was rejected and disliked, which made him furious. He then beat his wife severely.In Ms. Yang’s view, her husband was clearly incompetent, yet he still hit her. Why not get a divorce immediately?She said with dissatisfaction:”If he wants me to be with him in just two minutes, I’d rather stay single forever. It’s my life that’s going to be lived.”

It was only then that her husband, Mr. Lin, realized that his physical defect was the root cause of everything.In the end, Mr. Lin had no choice but to agree to the divorce.After this incident spread online, netizens discussed it heatedly:”Two minutes at a time, it’s less like married life and more like a sneak attack.””A sexless marriage is torture; it’s better for both of you to get a divorce as soon as possible.”Indeed, marital relations are never something that can be disregarded.Whether a couple’s sex life is harmonious largely determines the future development of their relationship.
02“How many loves have lost to sexless marriages?”In “Sexual Solitude,” Seven Chestnuts wrote:“For humans, sex is more than just sex; it is a language, a bridge, a place from loneliness to intimacy, and a crucible for building a sense of belonging.”Sex is very important in married life.But nowadays, sex has become a luxury for many couples.Pan Suiming, director of the Institute of Sexual Sociology at Renmin University of China, conducted a survey, the results of which showed:Among cohabiting couples or married couples, 28.7% have sex less than once a month.6.2% of people have not had sexual intercourse in the past year.Another survey shows that 21% of women in China are experiencing sexless marriages.In other words, at least one in five adult women is suffering from sexual repression.
In an increasing number of marriages, the absence of sex has led to resentment and pain between spouses.“My husband and I have been married for 6 years, but we haven’t had marital relations for 4 years. I’m desperate.””I hope that no one will experience a sexless marriage.”How many marriages end because of a lack of sex?One set of data once showed that:While 10,000 couples are getting married, approximately 4,500 couples are getting divorced, with 85%–90% of these cases due to disharmony in their sex lives.A senior I met in a university club recently got divorced.There was no infidelity, domestic violence, or conflict between mother-in-law and daughter-in-law.They were simply tired and weary, and their feelings faded away due to the long-term lack of sex.She has been married to her husband for 8 years and has a 6-year-old child.The senior student said that they had not had sex for five years since their child was born.She tried to take the initiative, but her husband always said he was “tired,” and nothing ever came of it.And so, they ended up getting a divorce.

As the saying goes, “Sex without love is cowardly, and love without sex is incomplete.”Sex is not the most important thing in marriage.But without sex, the emotional connection between two people will inevitably have a crack.There’s a line in Sex and the City that goes like this:“How we behave in bed reflects how we live our lives.”Many marital crises begin with sexual burnout.
03“Sexual intimacy between husband and wife is a harmonizing agent in marriage.”I recently watched a foreign documentary called “A One-Week Sex Improvement Experiment”.Each episode of the show selects two couples, whose marriage duration ranges from 1.5 years to more than 20 years.Their biggest commonality is that they are dissatisfied with their current marriages and have very little sex life.

The production team required them to have sex every day for a week.Let’s see if their sex life can improve their marriage.One episode featured two very representative troubled couples.One of the couples is white and has been married for eight years, but they have had constant conflicts over the years and have started sleeping in separate rooms.

The other couple was a Black couple who had been married for two years. They couldn’t stand each other, blamed each other, and had almost no sex life.

These two couples are like most couples experiencing relationship burnout.Do you expect them to have sex for seven consecutive days?It is indeed very difficult.During those seven days, there were times when they were reluctant, but they eventually cooperated and completed the experiment.The results of the experiment seemed to live up to expectations: the relationship between the two couples improved significantly.The white couple went from avoiding each other to learning to communicate openly. They also began to pay attention to each other’s feelings and were willing to do things to make each other happy.

The Black couple went from blaming each other to understanding each other’s difficulties, and their relationship became closer.The couple said they wanted to get married again in their own backyard as a tribute to their beautiful future life together.

As the saying goes, “A fight at the head of the bed is resolved at the foot of the bed.”Good sex has a therapeutic effect.Because sex and intimacy are closely linked.When sexuality improves, intimacy also increases.Sexual issues are a reflection of marital relationships.It may seem like it’s about physical attraction, but it’s actually about emotional connection.
04“A true soulmate is one with a profound fusion of sex and love.”In her poem “Moonlight Falls on My Left Hand,” writer Yu Xiuhua wrote:

“Men don’t want love without sex.”Women don’t want sex without love.Men and women fall in love while making love.Women and men, in their love, eventually made love.Did sex seduce love?Or is it love that tempts sex?It seems like neither is true.Rather, they both need love and sex.”The basic needs of human beings to live”

Sex without love is destructive; love without sex is torment; love and sex together are transcendent.A good marriage is half love and half sex.In a TV program, Dee Hsu and Alyssa Chia talked about their marital relationship.Little S asked her: Do you and your husband still have a sex life?Alyssa Chia stated frankly: ” We have all the marital intimacy that a married couple should have.”

More than seven years into their marriage, Alyssa Chia and Hsiu Chieh-kai are still very much in love.Although Alyssa Chia is already over 40, time has been kind to her. Not only has time graced her appearance, but she also possesses a refined elegance that comes with age, making her impossible to look away from.A truly happy marriage is a combination of sex and love.As the writer Shunyi said:“Married life consists of two parts: splitting the bills and sleeping together; in other words, it’s about sharing responsibilities and sharing happiness. “Happiness comes from love and sex .

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