Keep Sharing, Keep Close: The Best Relationship Booster

American writer Mark Twain once said:“Sadness can be dealt with on its own, but joy needs to be shared to be fully appreciated.”
This is indeed true in life. When you are sad, sharing can reduce the pain by half; when you are happy, sharing can double the joy.Relationships between people can become closer and more harmonious through sharing, or they can become increasingly distant due to a loss of the desire to share.The best relationships are often characterized by a strong desire to share.
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The desire to share is the blue ribbon of friendship.
One netizen shared the following story:Every December, my family receives a local specialty from 4,000 kilometers away, a tradition that has continued for decades.The person who delivered the local specialties was my father’s friend, Lao Li.Old Li and his father grew up together and worked together after they grew up. They had agreed to get married together and buy a house in the same neighborhood.But things didn’t go as planned. Instead of becoming neighbors who lived together day and night, Father and Old Li were separated by thousands of miles.Even so, the two never became estranged. Every year, Old Li would fly 4,000 kilometers to meet and have a meal with his father.The two met, but instead of discussing national affairs, they talked about the past and their current lives.This habit has been maintained for more than 20 years. Every time they meet, Lao Li brings local specialties that he made himself, and his father will also give back some small gifts.My father felt that his greatest expectation every year was to catch up with this old friend, talk about his troubles, and listen to him ramble on about his worries.He also said that having such a confidant in one’s life is enough.There’s a saying that goes:”We don’t contact each other often because our relationship doesn’t need to be maintained by frequent contact.”I often think of you, because no matter where we are, whenever I see something that suits you or a beautiful view, I always want to share it with you.Although we don’t see each other often, our constant sharing reflects my longing for you and your care for me.I used to think that true friends meant contacting each other frequently and being together all the time.I later learned that no matter how far apart we are or how much time has passed, as long as we maintain our desire to share with each other, our friendship will not fade, but will instead grow stronger over time.Because each effortless sharing is like an invisible blue ribbon, bridging the distance between hearts and maintaining the other person’s importance in one’s heart.

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The desire to share is the preservative of love.
There was a popular topic on Zhihu: How do two people drift apart?One highly-rated answer that struck a chord read:”I don’t want to talk to you anymore, and you no longer care about what’s happening in my world.”The breakdown of a relationship often begins with silence.I once read a story like this:Before marriage, she and her husband both said that the other was a chatterbox. Whether it was a few cents off the price of fish and shrimp at the market or a discount on clothes at the mall across the street, they could always chat about such trivial things with great interest.As time went by, the two of them found themselves with nothing to talk about anymore.One day after get off work, the wife tried to start a conversation by saying to her husband:”Honey, I was singled out for praise at work today, and my boss asked me to run for department head. I’m so happy!”The husband simply replied with an indifferent “Oh,” and then went back to playing his game.The wife stood frozen in place, but quickly composed herself and tried to start a new conversation:”Honey, I don’t want to cook today. Let’s eat out. I heard the new Japanese restaurant downstairs is pretty good.”The husband responded coldly, “I’m too tired, I don’t want to move.”The wife didn’t say anything more, but went back to her room and cried silently. She recalled how close the two of them used to be and felt that her current efforts were like punching cotton, completely useless.In the end, the wife chose to end the stagnant relationship through divorce.In an era where “marital aphasia” is prevalent, living together in a deaf-blind manner has become the norm for most middle-aged couples.So many intense feelings have vanished in the daily neglect and indifference.Nietzsche said:”Love life is like a long conversation; only those who can always have something to say can truly go the distance.”The best relationship in the world is having someone you can talk to, someone who doesn’t mind you talking too much, and someone who is willing to share your joys and sorrows.Yang Jiang once wrote about the details of her relationship with Qian Zhongshu in “The Invisible Cloak”:”I’ll give you a magical artifact. What do you want?””We all need invisibility cloaks, each of us wearing one, to travel together. We only seek to break free from constraints and experience different places; we have no intention of doing anything wrong.”But when playing happily, one inevitably becomes unruly and mischievous, thus disturbing people. Unable to hide any longer, one must quickly run away.”Oh dear, we also need the Shrinking Earth Technique.””And there’s a protective spell!”Their relationship wasn’t filled with dramatic events, but it withstood 63 years of trials and tribulations through countless small acts of sharing.Han Han once said:”The byproduct of love is nonsense.”A good relationship isn’t about being together all the time, but about having a million things to say to you even if it’s just for a minute.When the initial passion of a relationship fades, and we want to keep the love alive amidst the everyday routines, we must learn to share.Love can withstand the long years, and the desire to share can resist the erosion of life, keeping love as fresh as ever.

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The desire to share, the protective umbrella of family affection.There is a kind of emotion that is neither as warm and enduring as friendship, nor as sweet and passionate as love.It simply flows quietly in our hearts, providing us with spiritual nourishment.It is family affection—the emotion that accompanies us the longest, yet is also the easiest to overlook.When I first started college, I thought I was finally free from my parents’ control, so I almost never called home.When I returned home for winter break, I discovered that my mother had written down many things I had done while I was away in a small notebook:I enjoyed eating blueberry yams at the student cafeteria, wore bright green nail polish, got my hair permed for the first time, visited the Forbidden City, and climbed the Great Wall.I have never mentioned these things to my family, so it goes without saying how they found out.My WeChat Moments is just a way for me to casually record my life, but it has become the only way for my parents to understand me.Imagining my parents watching my social media posts like “voyeurs” makes me feel a pang of sadness.Since then, my chat window with my parents has been frequently open:I told my parents it was raining in my city, and they told me they had a bumper harvest of vegetables.I confided in them about the unfairness I experienced in the student council election, and my parents told me about their experiences in the workplace when they were young.I send my parents small red envelopes during holidays, and they often send me local specialties from their hometown….Although we are thousands of miles apart, I feel that these sharing and interactions have added a bond of kinship between me and my parents, firmly binding us to each other’s hearts.As more and more people get older and the generation gap widens, they no longer share their lives with their parents, but their parents’ concern for them has not diminished in the slightest.In fact, communication between parents and children doesn’t require literary skills; simply sharing everyday moments can bring warmth to each other.There is a passage in “Watching You Go”:”The so-called relationship between father and daughter, mother and son, simply means that your connection with him is limited to this lifetime.”Life is short, and our connection with our parents is brief.Make the most of the time we have to share our joys and sorrows with our parents, let them feel our happiness and sadness, and give them a sense of participation. This is more valuable than any gift.Family ties with a desire to share are like saplings under a protective umbrella. No matter how fierce the wind and rain or how scorching the sun, they remain safe and sound, becoming the warmest presence in our hearts.I speak and you listen, so we can live a fulfilling life; you share and I enjoy, so we can cultivate a deep bond of family.▽Someone once said:”Sharing is a simple formula; once you solve it, you will find joy.”For friends, each chat and venting session is not just a pastime when they are bored, but also a warm and touching concern in ordinary life.For lovers, greetings and care after get off work are not only a ritual, but also the best way to keep the relationship fresh amidst the daily grind.In the hearts of loved ones, weekend phone calls are not only a way of passing on filial piety, but also a way of giving each other the greatest peace of mind during times when they cannot meet.If we compare each person to an island, then the meaning of sharing is to build bridges connecting us, so that we are no longer alone.Click ” Like” to share. Life is short, so let’s learn to share wholeheartedly, so that we can live up to every bit of love and not let life down.

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Keep Sharing, Keep Close: The Best Relationship Booster