Why are people who are sentimental always the ones who get hurt the most?

You who value relationships

Why are people who are sentimental always the ones who get hurt the most? Because you’ve always lived for others, never considering your own needs, and never daring to express your own desires.

Because you never allow yourself to be selfish, you keep compromising yourself.

Xiaoting said that she doesn’t eat fruit or buy clothes, but she does buy her child an expensive toy. However, she also feels envious when she sees other women being so generous to her.
Lanlan said that she was always afraid to get angry in front of her boyfriend, because she was afraid that he would break up with her. So in the relationship, she was always the one giving and taking the initiative. She was too afraid of losing him.
Xiaoyu said that after her husband came home, he did nothing but lie down and play games, while she had to do the laundry, cook, and take care of the children. Whenever she complained, her husband would get impatient and never showed any concern for her. She didn’t even dare to ask her husband for anything because he paid for all the household expenses.

Do you see yourself in any of these stories?

You who want to love yourself well

Those who don’t know how to properly meet their own needs and always focus their attention and attention on others are actually the ones who are least able to live a good life.

Everyone has their own needs, desires, and wants; this is our most normal human nature. If you don’t know how to express your needs reasonably and keep suppressing yourself;

On the contrary, it will only make you more and more tired, physically and mentally exhausted, and you will not be able to feel the joy of life at all.

When you yourself have no energy, how can you have the energy to take good care of your children and make your family better and better?

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