These 5 stories will tell you what love is.

A couple of days ago I wrote an article about playing games all day, just to flirt with you . Besides stories of people flirting, being flirted with, or even getting married while playing games, the comments included things like, “Xiao Xin must be pretty too,” “Why didn’t I think of that?” “This works?” “I’m downloading the game now and asking my crush to carry me…”

Look at you all, on one hand, you believe that playing games can really flirt with people, and on the other hand, you question whether there are other factors involved in flirting, such as appearance, methods, and boundaries. This article is to tell you that your doubts are correct.

(one)

Let’s think back to how a relationship, or at least the kind of relationship you dream of, began:

When you walk down the street, amidst so many people, you might notice a girl in a long dress with black hair and delicate but not garish makeup, or a well-dressed boy. But would you notice Ru Hua from a Stephen Chow movie? You would, but you wouldn’t want to stand next to him.

A survey on “men trimming their eyebrows” found that 90% of women found men more attractive after trimming their eyebrows, while 90% of men didn’t care.

Image is something implicit in interpersonal relationships that no one will explicitly say.

To put it extremely, there’s a scene in *King of Comedy*:

The new hostess complained to the nightclub manager

The guests at table number seven are too ugly.

Liu Piaopiao said

Do you have any professionalism? What does it mean to shift the focus? If a customer is unattractive, don’t look at their whole face; if their ears are nice, look at their ears; if their teeth are nice, look at their teeth.

But when Liu Piaopiao arrived at the table of guests, she found that there was nothing she could look at.

When a person is full of flaws, their strengths seem more valuable; and when a person is full of strengths, their flaws become even more glaring.

Can you imagine a well-dressed guy who flips his hair and finds it covered in dandruff?

If there is such a guy, what he needs most is probably not a girlfriend, but Head & Shoulders; even if he has a girlfriend, doesn’t she complain, “Don’t let your dandruff keep me company all night”?

(two)

If appearance is your ticket to love, then sincerity is the guarantee that the ship won’t capsize.

I remember it was an afternoon when I was in high school, and CCTV-6 was showing a movie called “Ashes of Time”. It was very unique and I immediately fell in love with it.

Such love stories, where two people know each other’s feelings but choose not to confess, ultimately leading to their loneliness and regret at the end, are extremely rare.

The woman Ouyang Feng deeply loved became his sister-in-law, and on that day he ran away from home and started a business of murder.

But my sister-in-law was not happy after her marriage; she was depressed and unhappy. Before she died, she said…

I used to think that sentence was very important because I felt that some words, once spoken, are for a lifetime. Now I think about it, and whether I say it or not makes no difference; some things change. Deep down, I want something, but I just don’t say it.

The reason she chose Ouyang Feng’s elder brother was because Ouyang Feng had never said “I love you”.

As for Ouyang Feng, he said

From a young age, I learned to protect myself. I knew that the best way to avoid being rejected was to reject others first.

So even though he knew he had feelings for his sister-in-law, he stubbornly kept them buried in his heart.

When I finished watching it, I felt that I shouldn’t ask myself if I love you. When you ask that question, the person you should really be asking is yourself.

But after experiencing a failed relationship, I suddenly realized, “Tell me, is it really that hard to say ‘I love you’?”

If it’s really difficult, how about taking a sip of Chunzhen yogurt?

Speaking the truth after breastfeeding ensures no regrets.

(three)

Furthermore, you must be prepared to take risks in relationships.

Vee, a high school student, is an ordinary, well-behaved girl who likes a boy but is too shy to confess. She wants to change, to transform from a well-behaved girl into a bold and popular one.

Back then, a game called Nerve was popular. It was a live-streamed real-life adventure game where participants had two choices: be a “viewer” or a “player.” Viewers paid to decide which player would take on various adventure challenges.

As a “player,” the braver you are and the more exciting the activities you participate in, the more popular you will be.

From kissing a stranger for five seconds, to going to the city with him, to secretly wearing expensive clothes, to finally encountering danger, and at the same time finding love.

This high school girl found true love through an adventure.

What is love, really?

You’ll have incredibly happy and sweet moments, but you’ll also have to trade something of your own for them, including your courage, anxiety, confusion, and self-doubt.

But just like that advertising slogan

“Don’t drink Mirinda if you’re not playing big enough.”

Don’t start.

(Four)

However, every relationship, whether it has a happy ending or a disappointing conclusion, can end in a different way.

When your sincere efforts are met with disappointment, you must continue on the road ahead, no matter how difficult it may be.

In “My Blueberry Nights,” the pastry shop owner, Jeremy, keeps a glass jar filled with keys left behind by customers.

One day, Elizabeth was dumped by her boyfriend who was two-timing her. She was at a loss and heartbroken.

Jeremy told her the story behind each key, each key opening a door, and each door leading to a different sad story.

Like Elizabeth, I was curious: why keep them? Why not throw them away?

Jeremy said

If I lose these keys, those doors will never be opened.

However, if they don’t let go, some heartbroken people will never get over it.

I remember when I had just broken up with my boyfriend, my ex said…

Keep those things as souvenirs!

You’re kidding me! I casually downloaded the Xianyu app and sold everything related to it. Notebooks, Huba plush toys, souvenirs, and even a couple’s cartoon I drew while traveling. Heartbroken after my breakup, I exclaimed, “Holy crap! This actually sold!”

When there are still feelings involved, those old things make it hard for me to move on . But when we break up for some unpleasant reason, do I keep those old things as badges of honor?

A sincere heart only brings disappointment. Let go of emotions and past entanglements, and move forward.

(five)

Finally, for some people, sadness and happiness go hand in hand; the happier they are together, the more heartbroken they will be when they part ways.

Before it even begins, there’s already the fear of ending.

I recalled a story I had read before.

Young Bonnie works as a waitress at a pub, dealing with drunken customers every day. One day, she sees a young man pacing back and forth outside the door. “Oh, so he’s trying to sneak away with my mother’s car.”

Clyde noticed the waitress in the tavern; she was beautiful, sexy, and ambitious, completely out of place with the surrounding desolation.

When he saw the waitress come out of the store and walk towards him, he wondered how he could make a good start. So he boasted to her about his past imprisonment for armed robbery, and how he had even robbed the town’s small supermarket right in front of her.

From then on, the two wandered the world together, making a living by robbery.

Although the ending is tragic, “Bonnie and Clyde” represents the rebellious spirit of American youth in the 1960s.

Everyone wants to have extraordinary experiences, so they can look back on them in their old age.

Years later, I asked what “wind, flowers, snow, and moon” meant, and you said it was an idiom.

I’ve also seen many online names like “Calm and breezy,” and the real ID behind them is probably a young person in their early twenties. But without experiencing sweetness, pain, and storms, what right do they have to talk about being ordinary?

Just like Xiaomi’s slogan “Take it out and make things happen,” let’s get hyped and “make things happen” together.

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These 5 stories will tell you what love is.