The Love Affair of a Divorced Couple – Our Real Story

I got into an argument with Cong Jun on the phone. I had arranged with Cong Jun that he would clock in at the company first, and we would meet at the Civil Affairs Bureau at 9:00 AM sharp, but it was almost 10:00 AM and he still hadn’t arrived. I called him, and Cong Jun hesitated and said that it was probably impossible to register today, and he would explain to me later. I’ve been craning my neck and waiting for almost an hour, and now they’ve left me hanging here. It’s infuriating! Cong Jun and I have both been married before. He is widowed and I am divorced. He has a son and I have a daughter. My ex-husband was a gambling addict. He gambled away all our savings and is now drowning in debt. I wanted a divorce, but he wouldn’t let me go, and it took me a lot of effort to finally get a divorce from him. I was terrified of being hurt by my ex-husband, and after the divorce, I just wanted to raise my daughter alone and had no intention of remarrying. So when my colleague Sister Wu introduced me to Cong Jun, I initially refused. But Sister Wu said that Cong Jun is financially well-off and owns a three-bedroom house in a good school district. If she could marry him, her daughter Xiao Xin could attend a top-tier primary school. Xiaoxin has loved watching English cartoons since she was little. Now that she’s almost five, she can have simple English conversations with her foreign teacher. Many parents are envious and have come to me for advice. Sister Wu said, “Xiao Xin is a promising child. It would be a pity if she wasn’t properly nurtured … To be frank, even if you don’t think about yourself, you should think about your child. You can’t let your child lose at the starting line. She must attend a top-tier primary school!” I have to admit, I was moved by what Sister Wu said.

After meeting Cong Jun, we were both very satisfied with each other, so we decided to give it a try. Privately, I also inquired about Cong Jun’s ex-wife. His ex-wife was a strong woman. She left her child before the baby was even a month old to continue working on her project. When the child was three years old, she was diagnosed with systemic lupus erythematosus. She didn’t rest properly after giving birth, which led to a weakened immune system. In the early stages of the illness, she had a low-grade fever for a period of time, but she was too busy with her project to take it seriously, thus missing the best time for treatment. Later, due to the severity of her condition, multiple organs were damaged, and she passed away a year later. Cong Jun was also busy during that time. After learning that his ex-wife was ill, he took a long leave from his company and stayed by her side almost every day. This shows that Cong Jun is a very affectionate and loyal person, which made me feel much more at ease. Three months into our relationship, Cong Jun told me that my rented apartment was too small and asked me to move in with him. I hesitated for a moment, but then agreed. Cong Jun’s three-bedroom apartment was decorated in a very stylish way. After moving in with my daughter, I felt much more relaxed and comfortable. Cong Jun’s son, Lele, was initially a little resistant to me, but soon he was won over by my shredded pork with garlic sauce and sweet and sour pork. Cong Jun is usually busy with work, so he either takes his child out for fast food or orders takeout for him. Now Lele can eat a big bowl of rice every meal, which makes Cong Jun very happy. Cong Jun was good to me simply because he wanted me to be good to Lele, and I tried my best to be a good wife and mother simply because I wanted Xiaoxin to get into a top elementary school. We both had our own agendas and mutual constraints. Neither of us hid anything from each other. We both knew it and talked about it openly, which made us feel more at ease. If Cong Jun and I don’t get our marriage certificate, Xiao Xin won’t be able to enroll in school smoothly. I hinted to Cong Jun many times, and he finally agreed to get our marriage certificate. However, at the last minute, he stood me up.

That evening, I took my two children out to dinner and ignored Cong Jun. He served himself some rice and shamelessly came over. After we finished eating, as I was clearing the dishes, he came closer to me and explained that the day before we were supposed to register, he received a call from his ex-wife’s mother, who suggested that it would be better to register after the three-year memorial service. Since her daughter passed away, the old lady’s health has been deteriorating. Now that it has improved slightly, Cong Jun is worried that remarrying so soon will make her sad. But he didn’t know how to tell me, so he simply chose to run away. Cong Jun said that a year and a half would pass quickly, and by then, they would definitely register their marriage and he would buy me another big diamond ring. I slammed the bowl I was holding into the sink. The bowl and plate collided and shattered with a crash. The two children were startled by the noise and ran over to cling to the doorframe, looking at us in fear. “Cong Jun, we’ve been together without hiding it from anyone, and we’re about to register our marriage. What’s with this old lady’s antics?” After holding it in all day, I couldn’t take it anymore and shouted at Cong Jun. “Hey, be careful, this set of tableware is very expensive!” Cong Jun reached out his hand, but immediately pulled it back. “Don’t prick my hand. You’d better pack it up quickly. Anyway, I’ve already explained the reason to you. If you don’t believe me, there’s nothing I can do.” After saying that, he went back into the room and started playing on his phone. For a moment, I really wanted to smash the kitchen, but the two children behind me were looking at me with fear, so I had to calm myself down and comfort them. I can wait, but Xiaoxin can’t. She’ll be starting elementary school in a year and a half. How can she get into a good school if her household registration isn’t resolved? This issue was clearly discussed openly beforehand; you can’t avoid it by bringing up an old lady. After putting the child to sleep, I planned to go back inside to continue arguing with Cong Jun, but no matter what I said, Cong Jun wouldn’t say a word. It was late at night, and I was worried about scaring the child, and I didn’t want to argue with him, so I had no choice but to compromise for now.

The next morning, Cong Jun acted as if nothing had happened, taking the children to kindergarten as usual, chatting and laughing along the way. They’ve already given me a way out, so I can’t keep dwelling on it. Actually, after spending so much time together, Cong Jun has been quite good to me and Xiao Xin. Knowing that Xiaoxin likes English, he signed her up for a 20,000 yuan a year course without hesitation. He also never hesitated to take me shopping for clothes. Because of Cong Jun, our lives have taken a qualitative leap. As for our official status, let’s wait and see. Before I knew it, the day of the three-year memorial service arrived. Cong Jun took Lele to sweep the tombs, but I felt an irrepressible sense of anticipation welling up inside me. After today, we can get our marriage certificate. Although my excitement is a bit filthy, I can’t care about that for my daughter’s sake. The death of Cong Jun’s ex-wife was not caused by me. Moreover, in the past year or so, I have put more effort into Lele than into Xiaoxin. No one can say anything bad about me. Looking at the calendar, I saw that next Wednesday was a good day, and I brought it up with Cong Jun when he came back. “Are you in such a hurry?” Cong Jun asked, looking displeased. “It’s already April, and elementary school registration starts in June. How can I not be anxious?” Cong Jun glanced at me, then didn’t say anything more. He changed his clothes, turned around, and left. Here we go again. I settled the child in and then chased after them. “We have to register by next Wednesday, we can’t wait any longer!” I shouted, grabbing his arm. Our tug-of-war attracted the attention of many neighbors. Finally, Cong Jun impatiently said, “Okay, I’ll go next Wednesday!” Hearing Cong Jun’s promise, I finally felt a little more at ease. I never expected that something like this would happen to me before Wednesday.

On Tuesday afternoon after school, I was playing with Lele and Xiaoxin in the yard when a big dog suddenly appeared out of nowhere and charged at Lele. Instinctively, I pulled Lele behind me, but the dog was huge and fast. Before I could defend myself, it had already knocked me to the ground and then bit my thigh. In an instant, blood stained my pants. A kind neighbor took the two terrified children and ran away. Upon hearing the news, the property security guard rushed over with an electric baton and, together with the dog owner, subdued the vicious dog. Cong Jun came home from get off work. I had already washed the wound and applied iodine. I asked him to drive me to the hospital to get a rabies vaccine. Because the wound was deep, the doctor also gave me an antitoxin injection. It was quite late before we got home. “I just checked online, and that dog is a Rottweiler, which is extremely aggressive and banned in the city. I’m going to call the police!” After treating my wound, I calmed down a bit, but the thought of my registration being ruined again tomorrow still made me furious. “Didn’t you see how scared that girl was? Let bygones be bygones. They’ve already paid compensation, what more do you want?” Cong Jun kicked the first-aid kit I hadn’t had time to pack up into the corner and said in a muffled voice. “If it weren’t for me today, Lele would … ” “Why did you put sausages on Lele? You deserved to be bitten. If anything happens to my son today, you’ll see if I can forgive you!” Cong Jun’s finger almost poked my forehead. I had a sausage left over from making sandwiches for breakfast. Lele insisted on feeding the stray cats on his way to school, saying there were some on his way. I couldn’t refuse him, so I cut the sausage into small pieces and put them in his pocket. Unexpectedly, the stray cats didn’t appear today, but I got bitten by a dog because of those sausages. Two children surrounded me, touching my leg with their little hands and asking if it hurt. I forced a smile, trying to suppress the anger and bitterness in my heart.

I was injured while protecting Lele, and Cong Jun’s attitude towards me has deeply hurt me. I have two children at home, and I don’t want to argue with him; I just keep a straight face and don’t want to talk to him. Cong Jun didn’t give me a friendly look either. During the two weeks I was recuperating at home, we barely spoke a few words. I don’t know if Cong Jun’s coldness towards me is because he resents my constant pressure to get a marriage certificate, or because I almost hurt Lele. Since we weren’t legally married, I felt fine living at home when Cong Jun was nice to me and Xiao Xin before, but now he always has a gloomy face, making me feel like I’m living under someone else’s roof. I want to find an opportunity to have a good talk with Cong Jun and see what he really thinks. That evening after dinner, I made two mango smoothies for the children. Just as I was about to do the laundry, I heard a loud crash, followed by Cong Jun’s scolding and Xiao Xin’s wailing. Xiao Xin accidentally knocked over the cup, and mango juice splashed onto the side of the sofa, turning a large yellow patch on the off-white sofa. When I ran over to see what was happening, Cong Jun was holding a tissue and vigorously rubbing the stain. I couldn’t comfort Xiaoxin and rushed to get the mop, but Cong Jun pushed me away. He was breathing heavily, his face grim, mechanically wiping the mango stains off the sofa. “Don’t worry, I’ll look online. There should be some cleaning agents for fabric sofas that can definitely clean it,” I said, wiping away Xiaoxin’s tears. Cong Jun remained silent throughout. He threw away the tissue in his hand, slammed the door, and left. After Cong Jun left, Xiao Xin cried for a long time. She nestled in my arms and said she was scared, clinging to me and refusing to let go. For so long, I’ve been thinking about getting Xiaoxin into a top-tier primary school, but I never realized that Cong Jun’s attitude towards my daughter and me had already hurt Xiaoxin. I figured we didn’t need to talk anymore. I packed my bags overnight and left with Xiaoxin early the next morning. I texted Cong Jun to tell him I was leaving, that I had left 3,000 yuan at home, and that if the sofa wasn’t clean enough, I should just buy a new one. Also, I told him not to forget to pick Lele up from school tonight. He didn’t reply to my messages, and he didn’t respond at all to whether I stayed or left. Xiaoxin cried and fussed for several days and refused to go to kindergarten. In the end, I decided to take Xiaoxin back to my hometown and not send her to any prestigious primary school. I just wanted my daughter to grow up healthy.

A year later, I received a call from Sister Wu back in my hometown. She said Cong Jun committed suicide by jumping off a building and even posted a suicide note on his WeChat Moments, asking me if I knew about it. I held my phone, speechless with surprise. It turns out that when I urged Cong Jun to get the marriage certificate, he didn’t really have much of an opinion. However, the day before we were supposed to get the certificate, Cong Jun’s first love suddenly contacted him. His first love had just gotten divorced and was in a bad mood, so the two of them got back in touch. In Cong Jun’s heart, how could he, with a child, compare to his first love? His heart fluttered, and he decided to rekindle his romance with his first love. The so-called three-year grand ceremony was nothing more than a delaying tactic by Cong Jun. I don’t know if he hid it too well or if I was too stupid, but for so long I didn’t find a single clue. Cong Jun was probably weighing his options. After all, I genuinely cared for Lele, and the child was very attached to me. He probably felt that he couldn’t do without me, his free nanny, for the time being. He wouldn’t tell me he wanted to break up, and he was also seeing his first love luring him away, so he couldn’t be affectionate towards me, nor did he like Xiaoxin. After I left with Xiaoxin, my first love encouraged Cong Jun to speculate in futures. After tasting some success, he increased his leverage and unexpectedly lost nearly ten million overnight. Seeing that things were not going well, my first love ran away. Unable to bear the pressure of debt, Cong Jun jumped from the twelfth floor and died on the spot. Sister Wu sent me a screenshot of Cong Jun’s suicide note, along with a photo of his ex-girlfriend. The ex-girlfriend was smiling brightly at the camera, and standing next to her was a majestic Rottweiler. I gasped. So, whether Lele had the sausage on her or not, we would have been attacked by that dog that day. Wasn’t Cong Jun afraid of accidentally hurting the child? It would be a lie to say I don’t hate him, but I feel more sorry for Lele than for Cong Jun. Cong Jun’s suicide will probably cause irreparable damage to his life. I’m so glad I didn’t linger and chose to leave in time! Looking at my daughter doing her homework beside me, this peaceful and ordinary life is truly wonderful!

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The Love Affair of a Divorced Couple – Our Real Story