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Return To Shop[Sex] Expressing love is even more exciting than him finding the G-spot.
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Q: Thinking back on the people I’ve dated, one studied sports, and the other practiced martial arts. Logically, they should have better coordination and control over their bodies, but during sex, their movements were rough and unrefined, wasting their great physiques. My current boyfriend is a fitness instructor with a great body, but I’ve been putting off uping our relationship, afraid that if we sleep together, I’ll get aroused again. I’d rather just continue dating and enjoy it more, but I’m worried he’ll get fed up with my procrastination and want to break up.
A: I watched a Japanese drama called “Second Love” ( I really didn’t watch it because I wanted to see Kazuya Kamenashi take his clothes off ) . It’s about a poor dancer who falls in love at first sight with a middle school teacher. The teacher initially rejects his advances, but he says he’ll stop bothering her, but he wants to sleep with her once. She agrees. After just one time, she falls hopelessly in love with him. She tells her friends how flexible his body is, how gentle his movements are, and how wonderful the experience is. Physical appearance is certainly a basic requirement for a good sex life, but it’s not the deciding factor. Whether you’re an athlete or a martial arts expert, you should be gentle with your lover in bed. A woman’s sexual sensitivity isn’t limited to just those erogenous zones; the environment, atmosphere, language, and subtle gestures conveying affection are far more effective at arousing a woman than simply finding her G-spot.
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Q: I’ve been dating my boyfriend for three months, and he told me he has a virginity complex. I’m a little upset, and I also angrily said I have a male virginity complex. Actually, I’ve been with three men before, and what he said really makes me feel uncomfortable. I was thinking of having sex before the new year, but now the thought of this makes me feel really uneasy, and I don’t know how to continue.
A: Whether you’re a virgin or not, you’ll know after sleeping with her. But how do you know if he’s a virgin? The virginity complex is just a bluff; arguing about virginity is pointless. The root of a man’s virginity complex lies in the objectification of women. Men use sexual intercourse to label a woman and make her their possession. Perhaps you should carefully consider your boyfriend’s intentions in telling you he has a virginity complex. He’s undoubtedly telling you this hoping you’re a virgin. There are only two possibilities: if you are, your virginity pleases him, but it doesn’t benefit you at all; if you’re not, you don’t meet his expectations, and even if he enjoys the act, he’ll still feel uneasy. He could handle it himself, but he has to tell you beforehand, making you unhappy too. Either way, telling you this benefits you nothing; it only creates resentment. He may love you, but he definitely lacks empathy and doesn’t consider things from your perspective. Whether to continue, and how to continue, depends on your tolerance for error.
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Q: I shared my recent sex life with my sister for the first time, and I felt a little shy. My sister said she often shares it with her two best friends. I think it feels good, even though I feel a little ashamed, but it really helps to clear up some confusion through this kind of communication. I realized that I’m not the only one who fakes orgasms. I also want to share things like this with my best friends in the future, but I’m still a little worried. It’s such a private thing, and I’m afraid it will get out if I tell outsiders.
A: I remember when we were kids, if we wanted to tell a secret to our friends, our opening line would always be, “I’m telling you, but don’t tell anyone else!” Then, within a week, everyone would probably know. I’m not discouraging you from sharing your sexual experiences; I just want to say that by sharing, you’re expressing an acceptance of others knowing about your sex life, so don’t be so hesitant. A desire can only be fully accepted after it’s been completely satisfied and understood. Girls who can talk about sex boldly are cool. Whether it’s with a man or masturbating, you don’t have to care about what others think; you can purely enjoy sex and discuss it with like-minded girlfriends.
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Q: In adult films, a woman’s gaze can arouse desire, but my eyes are small. Can I still seduce men with my eyes?
A: First, you need to distinguish whether you’re trying to seduce a man or your own husband.If it’s the former, boldly stare into his eyes and meet his gaze. When hitchhiking, a single glance is enough for both of you to understand.If it’s the latter, even if your eyes are full of hooks, it won’t work.Eye contact, this light weapon, is almost ineffective between familiar partners unless combined with other ingredients, such as flirting, physical contact, sweet talk, or suggestive banter.In a flirtatious encounter, every woman is a natural seductress.howeverthe seductress needs to act even more, displaying your desires in every way. Don’t be shy; shyness is merely a tool for seduction, used only occasionally.
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Q: I really want to be truly loved, not just sexually loved. What should I do?
A: True love and sex require both to be pursued and strengthened; only then can life achieve true harmony.
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