"Go have sex, you don't need to reply to my WeChat messages."

I recently saw a quote online:

People who like you will “report” before and after taking a shower, while people who don’t like you will “die” in the bathroom after saying so.People who like you will “report” before and after meals, while people who don’t like you will “die” at the dinner table after saying their piece.People who like you will “report” to you before and after going to sleep; people who don’t like you will “die” in bed after saying that.

While this statement may be somewhat sarcastic, the underlying principle is quite insightful. Only someone who doesn’t love you would “take a shower all night, eat all day, and sleep for 24 hours straight.” The person who loves you will reply to your WeChat messages instantly and pin them to the top of their chat list, just like your personal “24-hour convenience store”. He can close his shop to the whole world, but he’s open 24/7 only to you. In fact, love and lack of love are hidden in the details of everyday life.

I reply to you instantly, but your reply takes forever. There’s a popular saying: People who care about you will reply instantly, while those who don’t care about you will go through countless cycles. This is probably the most accurate depiction of emotional communication between couples. Koichi Tanaka, a legendary Japanese man who failed his exams , won the 2002 Nobel Prize in Chemistry. His wife was the first to hear the news. She was in a taxi when she heard the good news on the radio and immediately called him. At that moment, Koichi Tanaka was giving an important interview. But he interrupted the interview and whispered to his wife, “I’m being interviewed…” Then, after hanging up the phone, he told the reporter, “It’s my wife.” Koichi Tanaka replied to his wife instantly because he understood her worries and nervousness, and he also understood her overwhelming excitement at that moment. The first thing I did was answer the phone so I could tell my family, “I’m here, I’m fine.” In the world of emotions, nothing is more heartbreaking than this: I reply to you instantly, but your reply takes forever.

The reason you reply instantly is because you care about the other person and keep them in your heart. The reason the other party is “reincarnated” is because they don’t care about you and have thrown you to the “sky”. People these days are glued to their phones and always have WeChat open, so how could they not see your message? The other person just doesn’t like you that much, and your love is just wishful thinking!

It’s not that you’re busy, it’s that I’m not important to you. There is a kind of concern in the world called ” I am here, ” and there is a kind of excuse called ” I am very busy .” A person who truly cares about you will never have “I’m busy” in their dictionary; they will always say “I’m here” to you. Because ” I’m busy ” is just an excuse he uses to refuse others. There is a short story about a young couple who have been in love for three years and are still as sweet as ever. Someone asked them, “You two have such a good relationship, don’t you ever argue?” The boy smiled shyly: ” Of course we argue. But we both consider each other the most important person in our lives, and no matter what happens, we’ll rush to each other’s side immediately. ” The girl nodded and said, “Every time he sends a WeChat message or calls, I reply to him immediately, just in case he has to wait too long. Even if I’m very busy, I’ll contact him as soon as I’m done. As for him, needless to say, even if he’s taking a shower, he’ll dry his hands and reply to my message as soon as he hears it.” Someone who loves you will want to keep their phone on 24/7 for you; someone who doesn’t love you will feel like they’re wasting their life if you take even a minute out of theirs. If the other person is so ” busy ” that they don’t even have time to greet you, please leave them decisively. It’s not that he’s too busy, it’s that you’re not important to him.

In fact, love is very simple and small. It is hidden in the little things in life, in the phone call he makes to you as soon as he finishes his work, and in the few words he reminds you to go to bed early even late at night. Love needs to be timely to be truly meaningful. As Yamada Tsuruku said:

“All belated comfort, affection, and warmth are meaningless if they appear after the right time has passed. What I want is a timely hug, a timely response, and every little detail.”

I will never bother you if you ignore me. Not long ago, I saw a popular comment on NetEase Cloud Music: I long to go back to the days when you would reply to my chats instantly and we would wish each other well every morning and evening.You’re replying very slowly now, and your replies are only a few words long. Maybe I’ve been talking too much, or maybe I’m getting a little annoyed. Or perhaps I overestimated my place in your heart. Is love only precious when it’s unspoken?
Love is precious not just because it’s unspoken! Always responding to every request and maintaining uninterrupted communication provides the sense of security that loved ones deserve. This is the right way for couples to connect.

There was a couple who fell in love online. At the beginning, no matter what message the girl sent, the boy would reply instantly and would always show her concern and care. Later, the two met and had sex. But in less than six months, the boy became indifferent to the girl, and their WeChat conversations went from being full of things to having nothing to say to each other. Later, the boy “disappeared” from the internet. The girl begins a frantic search for the boy… Finally, the boy got through on the phone. On the phone, the girl heard another girl’s voice. It turns out that he didn’t have time for girls because he was busy going to hotels with other girls. This reminds me of a line from “No Longer Human”:

“Being too enthusiastic towards anyone increases the chances of not being appreciated.”

If every time you think of them, you don’t get their appreciation in return, and every time you reply instantly, all you get is a “read” message, then stop thinking about them.
Humbly trying to please someone who doesn’t care about you is just wasting your true feelings. Some people are busy with life, but love you in their spare time; others are busy loving you, but live their lives in their spare time. Who is the person you should care about? You probably already have the answer!

The saddest emotion in the world is:I consider you the most important person in my heart, while you treat me like a nameless stranger in your life. Love is about reciprocal giving and receiving, not about me liking you but you not liking me.Love and the lack thereof are both revealed in the details. Since you’re so busy, then “go have sex with someone else, and don’t bother replying to my WeChat messages!”

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“Go have sex, you don’t need to reply to my WeChat messages.”