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Return To ShopEverything seems harmonious, but she’s secretly doing DIY. Should I expose her?
I found this submission amazing because I had received a similar gender-swapped version before.
A girl asked me why her boyfriend still masturbates. My reply was, “It’s okay to masturbate even if you have a girlfriend. After all, men’s sexual desires come and go quickly, and women are definitely not their tools for sexual release.” (For details, please see “My Boyfriend Masturbates Behind My Back ,” click the blue text to read .)
Many male students in the comments section at the time testified that DIY is very common because it saves time and effort. So when I saw a man who was definitely familiar with masturbation ask, “Why do I still DIY even though she’s with me?”, I was not only amazed but also very surprised. How come you can do it, but she can’t? Did you give up your traditional skills after marriage?
Why would you believe that your partner’s sex life belongs only to you?
Everyone has heard the saying “I am in control of my body.” Love and marriage may involve many promises and commitments, but one would never surrender their body to another, nor gain the right to control another’s body. The Civil Code stipulates sexual harassment within the scope of the right to life, bodily integrity, and health in Chapter Two, indicating that sexual autonomy falls under the categories of bodily integrity and health rights. Masturbation, as a form of sexual expression and a beneficial form of physical and mental exercise, is entirely one’s own right. Why then should it be questioned or obstructed?
You seem a little angry, and even kept evidence, as if she had done something wrong.
Let’s guess what’s going on in your mind: After she rejected you, she chose to masturbate, which might have hurt your pride, since it wasn’t that she didn’t want to. Seeing her enjoy herself might make you start to doubt your “harmonious” sex life, stirring up some unease. Considering that she’s done this more than once without ever telling you why, do you blame her for not being honest? Or do you think masturbation is a form of betrayal?
Even if your sex life is harmonious, people might still masturbate . She didn’t do anything wrong, and you have no right to expose her . But what’s worth your attention and getting to the root of the problem is why you feel aversion. There could be different reasons, and that requires you to gather clues, dispel misunderstandings, and eliminate unnecessary anxiety.
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