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Return To ShopText Anxiety: I Always Imagine You’re With Another Person When You Leave Me on Read
Girls rarely reply to my texts promptly, and the length of my replies varies. Sometimes she asks me a question, I answer it, and then she never replies again. What should I do?
Young man, even if a girl replies to every text message you send instantly, your relationship won’t improve. You’re just thinking about some things wrong.1Why don’t you text or answer the phone? She’s shopping, taking a shower, or taking a nap. She just doesn’t answer because she finds you annoying. It’s that simple.
Men in this situation often think that as time goes on, familiarity will naturally develop, a sense of connection will form, and feelings will grow over time, leading to a romantic relationship. Therefore, their conversations revolve around showing concern, asking if you’ve eaten breakfast, lunch, or dinner, and incidentally, providing daily weather forecasts.
Simply put, you hope that one day after saying good morning and good night, she’ll say, ” You’ve kept up the good morning and good night routine for so many years, it really touches me, and I want you to be my boyfriend .” That’s impossible; you’ll only get rejected after confessing your feelings.
Women prefer conversations that are interesting and engaging. Even if a girl likes you, but you don’t like her back, you might still experience her constantly trying to find topics to talk about with you.She wants someone to chat with, to pass the time, to share interesting stories, to resonate emotionally, and even to match her values. Do you see? Chatting is not simple at all.
Judging from your questions, you haven’t passed any of these tests. The most important thing in chatting is showcasing yourself, your strengths, how interesting your life is, and inviting her into your world.2
You send a text message in the morning, and if no one replies half an hour later, you send another, repeating this process all morning. You’ve completely wasted your morning. And if this continues, you’ve wasted your entire day.
The girl went shopping in the morning, found a super delicious restaurant at noon, watched a movie in the afternoon, spent the whole day with her best friend, took photos, and posted them on her WeChat Moments.
In contrast, she has a wonderful day, while you only have a blank day, which makes you seem very low.
You have no activities, no parties or friends, no studies or plans, so you can only find joy in girls. Your life is in someone else’s hands , and if this person doesn’t like you, she will avoid you like the plague.
You think it’s a problem with your conversations, but maybe there’s something wrong with your lifestyle. Stop sending greeting texts and think about how to present yourself as an interesting person in conversations.
It’s very low behavior for a guy to frequently harass a girl with text messages . It also shows he values you, and his expectation of instant replies is expected. However, this doesn’t mean his actions are beneficial to the relationship. It suggests he’s insecure in the relationship, feeling there might be an imbalance, and he needs to do something to keep you, otherwise you might leave him.The general feeling is, “I’ve been buying you breakfast for three years, and you still give me a card.” Therefore, the level of commitment should be equal between men and women. There shouldn’t be an unequal feeling where one party is begging the other to stay.3So we should focus on two things: our social media presence and dating.
Before meeting in person, rely on her social media presence. Once you’ve gotten to know each other, if you need to talk, then talk business; otherwise, cut off contact and avoid idle chatter. Then, showcase your exciting life on social media.So don’t always repost other people’s things or say nonsense on your WeChat Moments. Your WeChat Moments is for showcasing yourself .
Of course, you also need to establish some connection with her. Then, one day she likes or comments on your party photos, you can chat about it and then casually invite her out. Your conversation topics can come from each other’s social media posts. This way, you won’t overly flaunt your strengths and annoy the girl.
What if you’re on a date and still want to chat? If you don’t want to chat, then don’t. Let’s plan the date flow. I suggest avoiding movies or similar activities for a first date. Instead, do something participatory and proactive, like making a DIY cake or an escape room. These activities are fast-paced, involve a lot of hands-on work, and the topics of conversation become part of the activity itself. Plus, these are activities that can stimulate your emotions.
At the same time, there will be a lot of physical contact between you, which will also highlight some of your strengths, such as intelligence or culinary skills.
The trick to dating is changing locations.You went to multiple places on one date. You finished playing an escape room game at 3:30, then went to eat somewhere at 5:00, and then went to a quiet bar for a while at 7:00, or to the school’s playground or tree-lined path. She only spent a few hours with you, but you went to three different places.Some people go out for a meal the first time, a movie the second, and a bar the third. You did it all in one go. Having multiple date activities prevents awkward silences and creates many memories. A well-planned date allows her to experience multiple mood swings, making the experience memorable and fostering a strong sense of connection.
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