Story: A 32-year-old woman's sex life

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In April in Beijing, the spring breeze is not gentle, but rather fierce, wantonly teasing the ends of one’s hair.

Jasmine started getting ready at noon, trying on various outfits. In the end, she chose a smart and professional-looking ensemble. She had put a lot of thought into this appointment.

Saturday afternoon at 2 pm, Blue Harbor, Northeast corner coffee shop.

This is the time and place where the strange woman arranged to meet Jasmine.

Jasmine had very little information, only knowing that the woman claimed to be related to Pao Ge, and nothing else. Of course, she wouldn’t ask Pao Ge; she wasn’t that stupid.

Perhaps she felt that this was a secret between two women.

Jasmine arrived at the coffee shop first. The shop was deserted, so she found a seat by the floor-to-ceiling window.

About ten minutes later, a petite girl wearing a mask entered the coffee shop. Jasmine glanced at her and immediately recognized her as the girl she wanted to meet, so she went over to her.

The girl was surprised and said, “You’re Jasmine! How did you recognize me at first glance?”

Jasmine said, “I’ve seen your photo.”

The girl asked, somewhat surprised, “Brother Pao, you showed me my picture?”

Jasmine said, “No, I just saw it on Weibo by chance.”

Upon seeing the girl, Jasmine breathed a sigh of relief. The girl in front of her looked like she was born in the mid-90s. She was probably only 160 cm tall and weighed 85 catties. Her looks were definitely on point, with a small face and a pointed chin, just like those internet celebrity live streamers on Douyin, exuding the “naive and sweet” charm of a little girl.

It’s hard for a woman to admit that another woman is prettier than her. Even if Jasmine compliments her looks, she still adds at the end: “She’s a bit naive and innocent.”

Looking back at Jasmine, she is already 32 years old. She has been working hard in the workplace for 10 years, from Shenzhen to Beijing. She is clearly a workplace elite with a capable temperament and a touch of “femininity”.

If you can’t imagine it, just compare Sun Li’s image in the TV series “An Jia” with the trainees in “Youth With You 2”, and you’ll get a general idea of the feeling.

Jasmine felt that she had her own advantages compared to this girl, so she became much more confident as soon as the conversation started.

She wasn’t wrong before; the girl in front of her was Pao Ge’s ex.

According to the girl, she and Pao Ge dated for a year and a half and were very much in love, both aiming for marriage. They later broke up for some reason. However, although they didn’t become lovers, they remained friends.

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The little girl was very talkative and didn’t seem embarrassed at all. As soon as they met, she treated Jasmine like a friend or an older sister, telling her about her story with Pao Ge and going on and on. Jasmine couldn’t bear to interrupt her.

Jasmine finally spoke after the girl had a brief moment to take a sip of her coffee.

“So, what is the purpose of your meeting with me?”

“Nothing, I just wanted to see you.”

“See me? What’s so special about me?”

“Since you’re with Pao Ge, of course I want to see you.”

“What did Brother Pao tell you?”

“No, I just said I recently started dating someone.”

“Anything else?”

“That’s all. When I asked him, he avoided the topic and wouldn’t talk about you.”

“So, I asked you out to find out who’s so lucky to be with him.”

After this conversation, Jasmine had mixed feelings. Originally, she wanted to just point it out directly: she and Pao Ge were just friends with benefits, it wasn’t that complicated, and there was no need to speculate too much about her.

But Jasmine noticed that Pao Ge had told his ex that he had recently started dating someone. Jasmine was completely confused. What was going on? They were clearly in a casual relationship, yet he was calling himself a boyfriend. She suddenly thought that she might as well play along.

According to the girl, they dated for a year and a half and had a very good relationship. She broke up with Pao Ge last September, but they remained good friends afterward. However, she didn’t say why they broke up, and Jasmine didn’t press her for an answer.

Towards the end of the conversation, Jasmine was looking for an excuse to leave because she wasn’t interested in what the girl was saying. But at that moment, the girl’s focus began to shift, and she started calling Jasmine “sister” and began to tell her story.

The girl said, “Sister, you and Pao Ge are a perfect match. You seem very mature. He can be playful and mischievous at times. I feel quite at ease leaving Pao Ge with you. I hope you two will be happier and happier.”

The girl continued, “Sister Jasmine, ever since Pao Ge left me, he’s been in a bad mood and isn’t as cheerful as before. I think his mood is still very changeable. Please spend more time with him.”

Sister Jasmine, about Pao Ge, let me say a few more things about his life. Pao Ge doesn’t like cilantro or onions, and he’s allergic to mangoes. Also, he likes to sunbathe in this coffee shop and order a caramel macchiato. We used to come to Blue Harbor often on weekends to hang out, shop, and eat. He also loves the steakhouse there. Chaoyang Park is right next door, with some thrill rides, but he doesn’t like watching horror movies.

Jasmine was initially a little impatient, but after listening to her talk for so long, she became interested instead.

The girl continued, “He sometimes argues with his parents, so you should try to talk to him. He’s under a lot of pressure at work, so remember to make him some milk. He probably told you he has two apartments, one in Xicheng and one in Chaoyang, and he needs regular cleaning. Also, I’ve traveled to over a dozen countries with him, but he doesn’t like to plan trips, so please remember to do that.”

One last thing: Pao Ge’s parents are both business people. They used to be quite strict with me, but I know it was all for my own good. Not long ago, her parents sent me a message saying they hadn’t seen me in a long time, missed me, and treated me like their own daughter.

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Jasmine couldn’t stand it anymore, so she took the opportunity to interrupt and couldn’t help but ask her, “Why did you break up?”

The girl paused, her expression clearly downcast. She said, “I later found out that I’m infertile, and Pao Ge’s parents want a grandchild. So, I had no choice but to withdraw.”

Jasmine was shocked when she heard this and asked, “Have you had a check-up? Weren’t you born in 1997? How could you be gone at such a young age?”

The girl said that she was pregnant when she was with Pao Ge. She wanted to give birth, but she miscarried after two months. She said that after the surgery, she was probably weak and did not recover well, which caused complications.

Jasmine asked in horror, “Isn’t it possible to do IVF now?” The girl said, “Yes, it is possible, but the success rate might not be high, and my parents wouldn’t accept it. After all, they’re business people and want to continue their family line by having children naturally.”

Jasmine, who had just found her nagging, suddenly felt a pang of sympathy for her. That guy, Pao Ge, is just too much! You’ve become like this for him, and he doesn’t want you. Do your parents know about this? The girl shook her head.

Jasmine didn’t know how to continue the conversation. She regretted asking why they broke up, as it had upset the girl again. The main point was that, now that she said it, Pao Ge seemed like a complete beast.

At this moment, Jasmine recalled the smiles her parents gave her when they first met. Now, thinking back, it felt like surveillance, like an X-ray scan, checking for any fertility problems. At 32, wouldn’t they consider her an older mother?

Jasmine’s first meeting with Pao Ge’s ex-boyfriend ended just like that. She came with a bunch of questions, and left with a bunch of anger and even more questions.

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Jasmine walked to Zaoying Station on the Beijing Subway Line 14. Its main color is rose red, a very light and cheerful color. Jasmine felt that the world was too unfair to girls.

When she got home, Jasmine received a WeChat message from Pao Ge.

Pao asked her, “Want to go fly kites in Dongba tomorrow? There are rapeseed flowers there, it should be beautiful.”

Jasmine made an excuse to decline the invitation, saying that she had to work overtime at the company.

Moreover, what puzzled Jasmine was that she and Pao Ge had never talked about dating; they had always mainly used crude language to hook up, and she had never even considered dating Pao Ge.

No, Jasmine did have a fleeting thought, a couple of times, about whether a relationship with Pao Ge was possible. But she quickly dismissed it. Relationships that start with casual sex usually don’t last, since both parties know it was a casual encounter, and there’s no guarantee they won’t hook up with other people later.

Trust is crucial in any romantic relationship. Therefore, those who rely on dating apps to find love face immense difficulty; almost everyone on these apps is in it with a casual, casual mindset. They might hook up with you today and even start a relationship. How can you guarantee she won’t hook up with other people later? What you gain is usually what you lose.

That’s a bit of a tangent. Back to Jasmine, after meeting Pao Ge’s ex, Jasmine was in a terrible mood.

On the one hand, given how many things Pao Ge and his ex had done, when she thinks about doing something with Pao Ge now, she feels that it’s something that others have already done, and maybe Pao Ge is just reminiscing about his ex.

Thinking about how Pao Ge and that girl went here and there, ate there and there, and even kept in touch with his parents on WeChat, Jasmine thought about herself and realized she had nothing, and suddenly felt lost.

Jasmine claimed it was just a casual fling, but what woman wouldn’t feel possessive of a man she’d been hooking up with long-term? Possessiveness is innate and indelible. Jasmine admitted to herself that thinking about how affectionate they used to be and all the things they did made her jealous and irritable, and she suddenly didn’t want to see Pao Ge anymore.

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On Sunday, Jasmine stayed home and didn’t go anywhere. She couldn’t concentrate on her work, nor did she feel like reading or watching TV.

She opened the game Honor of Kings and found that it had to load again. The new season had started, her rank had dropped to Diamond, and the skin for her favorite character, Zhen Ji, had expired. She felt that the default skin was plain and outdated.

She spent the entire afternoon playing King of Glory, dropping from Diamond 2 to 5, with terrible teammates the whole time. She was so angry she almost threw her phone.

Soon, it will be the work week from Monday to Friday. Since companies in Beijing have lifted the restrictions on all employees working in the office, she will not be able to work from home.

This year, the pandemic has had a severe impact, causing Jasmine’s company business to decline. With very heavy KPIs, the work pressure is unimaginable.

It was past ten o’clock when I got home. Jasmine lay in bed, feeling tired and irritable, so she wanted to watch some porn to relieve stress. She messaged me on WeChat, “Seven, you mentioned in your last article that you have some Korean films with a beautiful aesthetic. Can you send me some?”

I said, don’t you already have Pao Ge? Do you really need this solution?

Jasmine said, “I haven’t made plans with Pao Ge lately. I’ve been busy. I’ll tell you about it another day, and you can give me your analysis too.” Enough with the chit-chat, give me some feedback.

I said, “You’re so eager for it?” I don’t have any on hand either. It’s so late, everyone’s on the computer, I’m already in bed. I asked a friend if they had anything else.

Later, Jasmine watched the movie while using the sex toys I had recently recommended to satisfy her needs.

That sex toy (currently unavailable, but may be featured again in May) – I believe many people remember it. It had powerful functions, including suction and vibration. I’ll write about some follow-up stories about this thing another day.

Jasmine’s story began when she bought this product, came to me to tell me, and that’s how I finally learned her story. And so, today we have the fifth installment.

As a guy, I couldn’t review this product myself; I only heard from friends that it was good. Later, Jasmine said she had tried it and would give me her review.

So I won’t go into detail about Jasmine using sex toys at night; you can use your imagination. Anyway, Jasmine said she had to put down a towel or change the sheets.

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We’ve digressed again. Let’s get back to the Jasmine story.

Adults’ worries and stress often translate into sexual stimulation. Many readers will likely relate to this: when alone, late at night, if feeling restless and wanting to release stress, they may seek sexual relief, including masturbation.

Jasmine is like that. As mentioned before, she has a pair of sex toys, which she says are like her “best friends.” They have been with her throughout her years of struggling in Beijing, except for a brief period of neglect after Pao Ge appeared.

She didn’t know why she was so eager to sleep with Pao Ge before, because she always felt that satisfying her desires herself was safe, healthy, convenient, controllable, and only used a little electricity.

Jasmine said, “Maybe this is a weakness of human nature. After trying too many toys, I might want to experience them in real life. Maybe, after I get tired of sleeping with Pao Ge, I’ll miss my toys.”

In a 24-hour day, Jasmine sleeps for 8 hours, works for 10 hours, and spends 6 hours alone.

Jasmine said, “I’m filled with work every day and driven by the pace of life in Beijing. Although it seems like my stories always involve ‘Pao Ge’ and ‘little toys,’ deep down I still feel that sex is just a seasoning. You can do without it, but it’s better to have it.”

I asked Jasmine, “Aren’t you planning to see Brother Pao anymore?”

Jasmine replied, “Yes, I will.”

I pressed on, asking, “When?”

Jasmine said that she had been in a bad mood these past few days and hadn’t replied to him much. She planned to ask him on Saturday why he dumped his ex, why he told others that he was dating someone, and whether he still wanted to be a “good sex partner”.

I sighed and said, “Okay, I’ll wait for your follow-up. Feel free to contact me anytime if anything comes up. I’m going to play a game of King of Glory too. Writing your stories lately has been making me lose a lot of hair, Jasmine. Remember to check the comments section when you have time.”

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Story: A 32-year-old woman’s sex life