Industry Story: After I became a sex toy tester, my husband wanted a divorce.

It was 10 p.m. After putting my daughter to sleep, I got up and went to the second bedroom.

I adjusted the lights to a warm tone and took out the package I received today: a sex toy. After carefully studying the instructions, I began to experience it.

An ambiguous atmosphere hung in the air. I carefully felt its texture and all the sensations it evoked in me.

After a thoroughly enjoyable experience, I got up and drank some hot water. Once I had calmed down, I turned on my computer and began to express my experience in words.

Fingers dance across the keyboard, each word a genuine expression of feeling, without any exaggeration.

I experience this scenario about once every four days, sometimes even more frequently.

Please don’t misunderstand, I’m not a promiscuous woman who’s restless and only seeks physical pleasure; this is actually my job.

I am a sex toy tester.

My task was to experience the sex toys manufactured by the company, carefully examine their texture and performance, and write down my impressions in humorous and lively language. I would then send these impressions to the company’s back office, where the company would process and summarize them to determine the improvement plan for the sex toy and the details of its market launch.

The variety of sex toys I experience is vast. However, because I’m divorced and currently single, I can only accept orders for women’s sex toys.

When it comes to sex toys, people might think of those strangely shaped, toy-like things. But that’s not all. Sex toys also include lingerie, stockings, stimulants, perfumes, and more.

I have now been a full-time sex toy tester for over a year.

I not only became a full-time employee of the company, but I also have my own online store where I share my personal experiences for my fans to refer to.

If my fans buy products through my link, the company will pay me an extra commission.

Doesn’t that sound like a great job? No drinking, no sex, you can make money just by lying down.

To be honest, I was initially attracted by this advertising slogan, which is why I decided to go into this industry.

Now, my work is going smoothly, and on the surface I seem to be both financially independent and have relatively free time, but no one knows how much pain I went through to achieve this.

Let’s go back a year, when my daughter had just been weaned.

Her husband, Shen Jun, works as a sales manager at a friend’s home appliance store. Although he doesn’t earn a fortune, it’s enough to cover the family’s expenses.

Originally, Shen Jun didn’t plan for me to go out to work; he wanted me to stay home and take care of the children full-time.

To be honest, I’m really worried about my mother-in-law taking care of my daughter because she has severe diabetes and is very weak.

But who would have thought that Shen Jun, on his own initiative, partnered with a friend to ship apples to the south, and lost more than 200,000 yuan! That was all our savings after we got married!

Although Shen Jun confidently stated that he had failed this time because he hadn’t done proper market research, he would definitely make it all back next time.

But what about right now? The family’s daily expenses, my in-laws’ medicine, my daughter’s formula—all of these cost money.

How could his meager salary sustain him for long?

I’m planning to look for a job. But it has to be one I can do from home.

I started asking friends for help and also searched online.

Because I studied advertising and planning, I have a certain level of writing skills. A friend introduced me to self-media, but after a month, I didn’t earn any income. Moreover, I was exhausted by the daily readership requirements, so I had to give up in the end.

That day, I happened to see a job posting online for a sex toy tester.

The advertising slogan is particularly attractive: “No need to drink alcohol, no need to sleep with your partner, earn enough for a house a year.”

Although the advertising slogan was a bit exaggerated, I was completely captivated. Flexible work location and generous salary—just what I needed.

But I’m worried my husband won’t agree.

That day at dinner, I casually brought up this topic, saying that I never knew there was such a profession.

As the husband carefully picked the bones out of the fish, he casually remarked, “What kind of lousy job is this? Isn’t this just teaching women to be promiscuous? It’s definitely not a good thing!”

Since my husband has a prejudice against this profession, I was afraid he would get angry, so I had to do it secretly. After making a phone call, I sent my resume to apply for the job.

Soon, I received a reply from the company: a three-month probationary period. If I passed, I would officially sign a contract and become an employee of the company.

I didn’t expect to get the job so quickly.

Because the company is located in Dongguan, which is too far from me, the company specially arranged for a salesperson named Xiaodi to contact me.

Xiaodi told me that no matter what product it is, I should try it out carefully. If it doesn’t work the first time, I should try it out several more times and write down my most authentic experience and feelings. I should write down the advantages, disadvantages and even suggestions for improvement clearly and in detail.

Xiao Di even thoughtfully sent me a sample manuscript so I could study it.

I told Xiaodi that we should never write the specific name on the package when sending it by courier, because it’s not something to be proud of, and I’m afraid others will find out.

Xiao Di told me with a smile that they don’t specify the product when mailing sex toys, as they take great care to protect customer privacy.

At the same time, Xiaodi told me not to feel too guilty. In fact, sex toys have existed since ancient Greece, and now they are openly sold both online and offline, so there is nothing shameful about them.

Perhaps because of my experience, more people will be able to enjoy the wonders of sex.

I was completely dumbfounded. I didn’t care about such noble motives; all I wanted was to make money.

I received a text message informing me that the first sample had arrived by express delivery. My heart was filled with both trepidation and anticipation.

To avoid being seen by acquaintances, I deliberately chose to go to the courier company after dinner.

The employee, already familiar with me, smiled and said, “You bought something online again?”

My face flushed red, and I quickly walked out, clutching the box. Once home, I first put the box in the storage room.

The next day, after Shen Jun went to work, I opened the package. It was a sex toy, the kind that’s most commonly found in online stores.

This was the first time I had ever seen the real thing, and my face immediately turned red.

I gritted my teeth and carefully read the instructions, then began to study how to use it.

I pressed the switch, and the sudden vibration startled me.

I quickly put it back in the box, and could only try it out after my daughter fell asleep.

I still remember the scene from my first experience. I was flustered, my ears were red and my heart was pounding, as if I were doing something heinous!

I quickly finished the experience and sent my report to Xiaodi. Unexpectedly, she immediately rejected it.

Xiao Di told me that a novice like me needs to experience it at least three times before I can write a comprehensive and objective experience report.

Moreover, my writing was too blunt and straightforward, which made it difficult to pass the test.

During my first product trial, I tried it three times over three consecutive days. To be honest, I wasn’t as reserved as I was the first time during the latter two trials.

I mentally encouraged myself, this is my job, I have to be responsible to my clients, I’m not doing this for my own physical pleasure.

The first trial experience report ultimately received positive feedback from Xiaodi.

As the saying goes, “Everything is difficult at the beginning,” but I gradually figured out the tricks of the trade, and the experience was no longer as resistant as it was at the beginning.

Three months later, I successfully passed the probation period and became a full-time employee of the company! I not only receive a base salary, but also receive extra bonuses based on the quality of each copy.

Of course, all of this was kept secret from everyone.

Worried that Shen Jun would find out, I would run to a far-away trash can to throw away every sex toy after I finished using it.

Even though I was extremely careful, Shen Jun still found out. No, to be precise, my mother-in-law found out.

I didn’t expect my mother-in-law to show up uninvited, and to go directly to Shen Jun’s workplace to get the key to open the door.

At that time, my daughter and I were buying baby formula at the mall.

My mother-in-law started helping us with the big cleaning, and then she rummaged through a pile of messy boxes in the storage room and found a few sex toys and sexy lingerie.

I tried it a while ago and found it very effective, so I couldn’t bear to throw it away.

The father-in-law, with his feudal and conservative mindset, was the first to cause an uproar.

After taking pictures of these things, he sent them directly to Shen Jun, questioning him about how he could live such a licentious and extravagant life.

The father-in-law was known for his bad temper and ordered Shen Jun to come back immediately.

It’s easy to imagine how Shen Jun took out his anger at his father-in-law on me.

In front of his father-in-law, he chopped up the sex toys with a kitchen knife and cut the clothes to shreds.

When my father-in-law heard that I had bought all these things and that Shen Jun had no idea, he immediately turned his anger on me again.

I became the target of the whole family’s condemnation. My father-in-law said to my mother-in-law with a dark face, “Take your granddaughter away. How can someone like her raise a child well?”

My daughter was so frightened that she cried loudly and vomited up all the milk she had drunk that morning.

I was trembling with anger: “What did I do? I didn’t steal or rob, and I didn’t do anything to wrong the Shen family, so why are you scolding me?”

“On what grounds? On what grounds? On what grounds? Because you have no shame and have disgraced the Shen family!” The father-in-law slammed his cane into the ground.

Seeing that I remained unrepentant, my father-in-law gave Shen Jun an order: “Show some manly spirit and resolve this matter tonight.”

My father-in-law was about to leave with my daughter in his arms, and I rushed over to stop him. Unexpectedly, Shen Jun grabbed me and threw me backward, causing me to fall onto the sofa.

By the time I got up again, my in-laws had already taken my daughter out of the house. My daughter’s piercing cries echoed in the hallway.

I cried out in anger, “What did I do wrong? Shen Jun, explain yourself!”

Shen Jun was so angry his eyes turned green: “You shameless bastard! Will you die if you don’t do that?”

I cried and tried to explain. I told Shen Jun that it was a job, a proper job, and that I hadn’t done anything to wrong anyone.

No matter how much I pleaded, Shen Jun simply wouldn’t allow me to continue working as a sex toy tester. Finally, he threatened to divorce me if I persisted!

We argued for the entire afternoon and evening.

Early in the morning, my father-in-law suddenly called to say that my daughter had developed a high fever and was being taken to the hospital. I rushed out of the house like a madman.

My stubborn father-in-law wouldn’t let me see my daughter, but I refused. We argued at the door of the ward.

Several nurses came over to dissuade them, and several patients’ family members also came to watch the commotion.

My father-in-law then excitedly told everyone around me how despicable I was doing. In his words, I had become a shameless and wanton woman who only thought about her lower body all day long.

My father-in-law even revealed that I was pregnant out of wedlock, saying that I was eager to get into his son’s bed.

A chorus of murmurs rippled through the crowd, and countless mocking glances were directed at me like knives.

How could I allow him to slander me like that! I was so angry at the time that I pushed my father-in-law with all my might.

The father-in-law lost his balance and sat down on the ground.

Just as I was about to rush into the ward to see my daughter, Shen Jun suddenly rushed over and slapped me hard twice.

He gritted his teeth and said to me, “Let’s get a divorce right now! I don’t want to see you for even a second!”

I’ve never felt so heartbroken. Having married far away, I know I’m powerless and outnumbered; I can’t possibly defeat him.

I’m going to court to file for divorce. I’m determined to get custody of my daughter no matter what.

Before, I didn’t have a job and wouldn’t have had this confidence, but now I have a job and a stable income.

Although this job doesn’t seem to be recognized by others, I don’t find it dark or sordid at all.

Ultimately, I gained custody of my daughter.

My in-laws spread rumors about my “misdeeds” everywhere, and even relatives who didn’t know the truth thought I was a shameless woman.

I won’t argue.

Although I don’t care how others ridicule me, I’m afraid those rumors will hurt my daughter.

To provide my daughter with a quiet living environment, I moved to another city without hesitation.

In the days following the divorce, instead of becoming depressed, I grew more and more confident. My daughter and I lived a peaceful and happy life.

Six months after my divorce from Shen Jun, Shen Jun surprisingly decided to personally visit my daughter’s home to celebrate her birthday.

I didn’t agree. It’s fine to celebrate my birthday, but please don’t come to my house.

We ultimately chose to stay at the hotel.

During the meal, Shen Jun seriously complained that I was too selfish back then and didn’t consider my daughter’s feelings.

Finally, Shen Jun told me that if I could give up this job now, he would be willing to remarry me.

I smiled and declined.

Shen Jun still couldn’t understand that the essence of the divorce wasn’t my job itself, but that he and his family didn’t respect or trust me.

Love and marriage are not simply about physical possession and mental control. I am a living, breathing woman with my own thoughts and a desire for independence. What’s wrong with that?

However, Shen Jun and his family didn’t even give me basic trust; based solely on their own assumptions, they branded me as unfaithful. On what grounds?

As Shen Jun was leaving, he angrily said to me, “Just you wait and see, no man will approve of you doing such a disgusting thing. You’ll be living the life of a widow!”

Is being a sex toy tester really that shameful?

Although I am still single, I still believe that there will be a man who will understand my work because he loves me.

I’m looking forward to it.

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Industry Story: After I became a sex toy tester, my husband wanted a divorce.