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Myth 1: Will sex toys feel like foreign objects? Will they hurt?
Who said sex toys have to be inserted?!
Sex toys are for personal pleasure, not to replace a male organ. Many young girls have experience with masturbation without being taught; desire and pleasure are instinctive.
Many women already know this: penetration isn’t the primary source of pleasure; the more than 8,000 nerve endings on the clitoris are an inexhaustible treasure trove. (For those who want to learn more, please refer to the illustrated guide to the clitoris: a female secret you can’t afford to miss.)
Using stick-shaped sex toys to simulate sex is indeed a choice for some, but the variety and sales of toys specifically designed for clitoral pleasure have long surpassed those of “phalluses.” What has created today’s market? It’s, of course, the real needs of women!
These small toys often have different vibration frequencies to choose from, making them more direct and effective than other external stimuli such as hand pressure. And here’s a little secret: many women’s first orgasm doesn’t come from a man, but from a small clitoral massager .
Myth 2: Why do I feel ashamed of sex toys?
Sex toys should be everyday items.
However, few people currently share this consensus. At least in China, sex toys are rarely sold like any normal commodity, and the channels for purchasing them are extremely limited—either hidden and dilapidated “adult product” shops on the roadside (whose storefronts often deter people from entering), or the exaggerated pictures and horrifying descriptions online, but with dubious origins and often misrepresented products. Therefore, when many people mention sex toys, their first reaction inevitably involves unclean images.
Such a bright and open shopping environment is rarely seen.
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Societal views on sex also have a significant impact. In Victorian England, there were certain sexual etiquette rules: one should not be too involved, not too excited, and not use too many positions, etc. Sex is certainly a necessity of life, but for a long time, people’s attitudes towards sexual pleasure have been quite negative. Almost everyone has a sex life, yet few can openly admit, “I have sex for pleasure and enjoyment!”
Sex can be considered private, but it is definitely not shameful. The instinct to make oneself more happy is a fundamental desire. If we can openly call ourselves “foodies” and go to a restaurant we like, why can’t we use a toy we like without any reservations?
Of course, since sex remains a private matter for most people, it can still be embarrassing to have someone else see your sex toys. How to solve this? There are solutions.
Fortunately, human ingenuity in design is so remarkable that modern sex toys are becoming less and less like sex toys. On the other hand, various beauty and massage devices…are becoming more and more like the sex toys people imagine.
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So, you should choose sex toys that are cute in design, small in size, and don’t have any overtly sexual features. There’s no need to hide them too much; placing them on your bedside table in a storage box or hiding them inside a plush toy is a good option.
What if someone still asks you about it (isn’t this just guessing and teasing you?)? Just openly say it’s a massage device and tell them not to worry too much about where it’s massaging! Of course, all of this is based on the premise that you have actually developed a positive understanding of sex.
Myth 3: Will using sex toys raise my sex threshold? Will regular sex life still satisfy me?
Tools are meant to make your life more convenient, not replace your daily routine.
From infancy to adulthood, everyone’s perception of the outside world changes, and their desires change accordingly. As a child, your desire might have been just that one piece of candy your mother wouldn’t let you eat. Later, you might want candy with beautiful packaging, healthy ingredients, and a sweet taste. But it’s also possible that one day you might suddenly not want to eat candy anymore.
For some, sex toys are like colorful candies of various flavors; you might crave one every now and then. But perhaps one day, the directness and speed of orgasm will bore you.
But don’t panic. On one hand, technological advancements have opened up more possibilities for sex toys, allowing for more human, visual, and emotional interaction. Perhaps one day, sex toys, combined with AI and more advanced materials, will truly bring you more pleasure than humans can.
On the other hand, I still maintain that the brain is also an important sexual organ, and the “feelings” it brings are multifaceted and rich, irreplaceable by purely instinctive thrills. Those “feelings” can be love, alcohol, or strange sexual preferences; a person, a kiss, a hug, a glance, a silly joke, a rainy afternoon, a comfortable bed sheet, and so on.
These “feelings” may or may not involve communication with another person. But in any case, the climax resulting from these “feelings” combined with sex cannot be replicated. Every experience is unique.
Sexual pleasure and sexual desire are two different things; don’t define your feelings so narrowly.
The feelings of sex and love should be given by both the body and the brain at the same time. Don’t equate your pleasure with sex toys, and don’t mistakenly believe that sex toys will take over your life like poison and replace you in doing what you love.
The process of growing up gives us the opportunity to experience many delicious foods, and I believe you won’t be obsessed with just one piece of candy.
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