The root cause of why relationships between couples often don't last lies in the people involved.

A perfunctory indifference is a thorn that tears apart any relationship.

Many couples who break up can’t understand how things could have ended when they were so in love. The truth is, it’s not that their feelings faded, but rather that one person started treating the relationship with indifference and coldness, gradually leaving their initially happy partner feeling cold and disheartened.

Just like many couples sharing their daily interactions online, when you first get together, if you send a message, your partner will make time to reply even if they are busy. If you say something about everyday life, they can chat with you for a long time with great interest. But after a while, when you enthusiastically share your life, they only reply with a cold “I know”. When you feel wronged and sad and want comfort, they think you are making trouble for no reason and being too dramatic.

This indifference in details is also evident in literary works. Just like Chen Xun and Fang Hui in “Fleet of Time”, when they were young, Chen Xun could give up the big questions of the exam for Fang Hui, and his eyes were full of this quiet girl. But later he gradually became perfunctory, ignoring Fang Hui’s emotions, preferring to joke and play with other girls rather than spend a minute listening to Fang Hui’s troubles.

Between couples, what’s truly agonizing isn’t arguing or fighting, but rather this kind of ignoring and perfunctory treatment. You can comfort yourself once or twice, but if it happens too often, even the most passionate feelings will be extinguished, and the relationship will naturally head towards its end.

They don’t know how to cherish what they have and take the other person’s efforts for granted.

Becoming a couple is a rare and precious缘分 (fate/destiny), yet many people, once they receive genuine affection, begin to squander it recklessly, taking their partner’s efforts for granted. This is the core reason why couples rarely last. Relationships are never a one-sided affair. If one person gives their all while the other takes it all for granted, never reciprocating or showing gratitude, even the deepest feelings will slowly be eroded.

Just like those couples on the internet whose relationship is so heartbreaking, the girl always makes concessions and takes on all the tenderness in life, but the boy thinks that these are things that girls should do, never understands the other’s hard work, and even criticizes her in every way.

The boy’s heart and eyes are full of her, and he gives his all to treat his partner well, but the girl doesn’t care at all and casually tramples on his sincerity.

The tragic love story in “Fleet of Time” also stems from this lack of appreciation. Fang Hui entrusted all her youth and sincerity to Chen Xun, carefully protecting their love. However, Chen Xun felt that this love came too easily. He even forgot his initial promise, ignored Fang Hui’s carefulness, and had ambiguous relationships with other girls, completely disregarding Fang Hui’s heartbreak and sadness.

Human hearts are reciprocal; no one can claim to give unconditionally forever. When those efforts go unrewarded and sincerity is casually betrayed, even the most loving couples can only slowly let go.

Even the deepest love cannot last if hearts are not aligned.

For couples to stay together for a long time, I feel it’s never about fleeting novelty, but about two hearts always being connected, having the determination to walk together, and being willing to face all the difficulties in the relationship together.

However, many couples who break up do so because one person is planning for the future while the other is thinking about leaving; one person is desperately trying to maintain the relationship while the other is constantly trying to escape. Their hearts cannot walk side by side, and such a relationship ultimately has no future.

Many couples online break up not because they no longer love each other, but because their ideas gradually diverge and they drift further apart.

You crave a stable and lasting future, but he only desires immediate pleasure. When conflicts arise and you try to resolve them through communication, he resorts to the silent treatment and avoidance. You treat him as the only one in your life, but he has never included you in his long-term plans. Ultimately, the depth of a couple’s bond is determined by the people involved.

Feelings don’t lie; what changes is people’s hearts. If two people aren’t willing to put in the effort, cherish each other, or work towards the same goal, even the most passionate love will eventually end in separation.

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The root cause of why relationships between couples often don’t last lies in the people involved.