The Truth: Will Women Stay Because of a Man’s Physical Strength?

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　　 My ex-girlfriend always complained that our sex life wasn’t harmonious. Recently, she started seeing another man, even though he’s neither as rich nor as handsome as me. I guess he’s just better in bed. That’s why she’s determined to break up with me.

　　I really don’t understand women. Why are their desires so strong? Are they even more thirsty than men?

　　I want to ask the experts, would a woman stay with a man just because he can satisfy her sexually? What are women thinking?

Feng Muzi replied:

The common view is that men are lustful and women are greedy.

But in fact, when women say men are lustful, it proves that they themselves care the most about sex and are particularly interested in the bedroom matters with men; when men say women are greedy for money, it often shows that they themselves care the most about money and think that women value these things the most.

The example above further illustrates that you can win a woman’s heart by conquering her body, and you can only keep her heart by conquering her vagina.

Women are emotional creatures, so isn’t physical satisfaction the most direct and sensual experience? When two people are together, the most exaggerated and intense way to express love is through physical intimacy. Don’t try to persuade a woman to submit with reason and ideology. Apart from instant material satisfaction, the most effective and lasting way is naturally to conquer and possess her with wildness, tenderness, and the body.

Some women follow a man based on his wealth, some on physical satisfaction, and others on his good character and kindness. The first two reasons are often unspoken and difficult for women to admit; the former might lead a man to accuse you of vanity, the latter of being a slut. The last reason is more readily acknowledged. A woman won’t say she’ll leave you for those reasons, but men need to understand that she’ll only be loyal if you provide sufficient money and physical satisfaction. If you offer her love but leave her feeling unfulfilled, she might pretend to like you and stay, but there’s no guarantee she won’t succumb to the temptations of a more attractive man.

Men think what women think; in fact, we are all the same. A person’s thoughts only change at different ages and in different environments. We are all men and women in this mortal world, and it’s a bit difficult to escape worldly conventions.

Here is another insightful comment from a reader:

This article is the best; it captures the true thoughts of women regarding sex and overturns common traditional views. Whether a woman is willing to spend her life with a man and remain faithful involves many complex factors, and trying to explain them clearly is futile. However, one point can be analyzed this way: women are emotional creatures. You must first captivate her with your upper body, and then hold her with your lower body. Only then will she be with you willingly and legitimately. Few women talk about ideals or care about politics; those are men’s business. After all, it’s a union of two sexes, driven by sexual needs, so how can sex be ignored? A woman’s attitude towards sex is polarized. If she hasn’t been properly developed from the beginning—that is, if she hasn’t experienced the intense and passionate pleasure of sex—she might feel that men are dispensable to her, and might even choose to remain unmarried for life. Once a woman has had a profound sexual experience, it becomes an addiction, making her recklessly pursue love. What can you say about her then?

The prevailing view is that men are lustful and women are greedy. You, however, interpret it the other way around, which is a valuable and corrective measure. If men weren’t greedy, would they work tirelessly day and night? Isn’t it all for money? They know they can use the money to bribe women, so it’s perfectly logical for them to label women as greedy. If women weren’t lustful, why would they dress up and flirt? They use various methods and allure to attract men, then choose the best one to marry. The man then makes his move, pinning her down, and she certainly enjoys it immensely. Then she cries “thief!” and accuses the man of lust. How amusing! They’re just a pair of adulterers.

From this perspective, women are constantly in a state of arousal, because every time she passes a man, she makes sure to appear alluring, even if she doesn’t release a scent of arousal, she often uses perfume instead. There’s an interesting phenomenon in the animal kingdom that can be compared to the human situation. For example, a bear in heat will naturally have a bleeding vagina and a strong odor. She will walk past the male bears without looking at them, leading them one by one deeper into the forest. She will lie down beside a rock, and the male bears will start to pry up trees, move stones, or roll on the ground, all of which the female bear will observe. Finally, a physical battle begins, and the victor roars. Then the female bear gets up and walks to another part of the forest, and the victor will happily shake his head and wag his rump to follow. If the female bear lets him follow, it means that the ecstatic mating is about to begin.

When a mysterious attraction arises between a man and a woman, a life-or-death passage inevitably appears. Some interpret this passage as a gateway between life and death, expressing the ability to communicate with the dead; others call it a black hole, a point of no return once fallen. Artists, however, have given it a beautiful name: love. Regardless of the name, the common thread is its irresistible magic!