Understand Emotional Resonance Between Lovers

Foreword:

In a true relationship between a man and a woman, there must be emotional resonance and an understanding of the meaning behind it, rather than just the taste of desire and the desire to continue the family line.

Only by understanding these things can you have a true lover, instead of a tumultuous relationship with a man who is after your money or lust.

Unfortunately, most people in this world don’t seriously consider what emotional resonance is, or what the meaning of a relationship between men and women is.

Many people even find resonance in the stimulation generated by eating, drinking, having fun, and material things.

If you don’t believe me, just ask your parents, relatives, classmates, and colleagues. Ask them:

What is emotional resonance, and what is the significance of male-female relationships?

I believe very few people can explain it completely. Most people would probably stammer and not know the answer.

Even if someone could give an answer, it would inevitably be from the perspective of the majority (almost 99%), focusing on how to maximize “egoism” and seek personal gain.

Are these things strange?

If we analyze it from the perspective of human nature, the answers, no matter how varied, are not surprising.

Next, the old rule still applies: do not read without a calm mind, otherwise it’s better not to read at all.

Regarding the answer to the article title, I would like to clarify that you are welcome to have your own, any answer you like.You don’t necessarily have to take my opinion as the standard.Based on my long-standing habits, aside from sticking to my own views on the three things of “thinking like a strong person, improving mental strength, and working hard to make money,” I rarely stick to my own ideas, especially when it comes to matters of the heart.Why?Because most people have generally experienced matters between men and women, and many are influenced by unrealistic movies and TV dramas, their actions and thoughts are highly subjective, regardless of whether they are correct or not.Many people, in order to gain personal benefits, deliberately distort the true meaning of certain things.Even if this person is only acting on animal instinct, they will still insist on their own ideas. Because many people only know a corner of the world, but not the whole picture, just like “summer insects that do not know winter.”Such a person cannot distinguish or explain the relationship, connection, and difference between emotions and desires.You can’t reason with them.In addition, most people are generally “self-centered and stubborn,” and very few people will take the initiative to admit their lack of wisdom.Therefore, I will not argue with anyone to prove that my point of view is correct when it comes to emotional issues.Today, I just want to use a reader’s comment to reveal the different understandings of relationships, meanings, and resonance between people in emotional issues.Let’s get to the point—Last night’s article, ” As a woman, you have no standards for choosing a partner. If things go well, stay together; if not, break up. Time will help you filter (the mindset of the strong) ,” left a very deep impression on me with a comment from a male reader, which received a lot of likes.He said:“A relationship that has no meaning should not be forced, and emotions that do not resonate will not last.”I recently went back to my hometown and met someone who was very good-looking, but after getting to know her better, I realized we weren’t compatible, so we broke up.Now she’s dating a guy who drives a Mercedes A-Class, and I think that’s great. Everyone’s on the path they’ve always wanted to take.I think it’s very sad if a relationship is only based on money.When a man comes home and his wife doesn’t care about his well-being but only asks for money and acts coquettishly, although he may feel touched by being needed, he can’t shake off the loneliness of having no one understand him.Just like some people buy cars for the prestige of the brand, they don’t care about comfort. I like driving my beat-up Tank 500 through the sand, so what?In the end, it all boils down to one sentence:If you want to live a happier life, don’t just look at appearances; improve yourself and seek out truly outstanding people .After reading this reader’s comment, I deeply admire his established sense of self-awareness.He knew exactly what he wanted.This is also the “spirit of the strong” that I have always advocated.It means that people must have their own independent thinking ability and not follow the crowd or parrot others.In particular, he went a step further by illustrating my article on establishing criteria for choosing a spouse, using his own case as an example.

In fact, regardless of gender or wealth, everyone should strive to find what they need after recognizing their own needs; this will greatly increase their chances of success.

However, in reality, there are many situations where some women are with men simply for their money.

Other men are also very superficial, only looking at a woman’s appearance, seeking temporary novelty and then abandoning her, which is despicable.

While we may find some things tragic, those involved in certain events may actually find enjoyment in them. If you change your perspective and try to see things from another person’s point of view, the outcome of many things will be different.

But I always feel that if you truly want to spend your life together, and you always talk about money (as long as you talk about it moderately, it’s not a problem), how can it last?

Or, if we always prioritize appearance and physique, then when one person grows old, will the two people have to separate?

What, then, is true emotional resonance, and what is the meaning of a relationship between men and women?

In my opinion, this is definitely not the physical intimacy between two people when desire takes over. Nor is it even what people often call “companionship.” These are too superficial and are merely the simplest and most basic explanations of emotions, lacking any real substance.

What should it be?

In the ordinary, mundane aspects of life, even if the other person is very ordinary, you won’t look down on them in your heart. You can still laugh together and have the feeling of living together.

They are more likely to put themselves in each other’s shoes and think from each other’s perspective when the other is down, and work together to find solutions to the difficulties and fight against the world together; rather than one party leaving “sensibly” when the other’s finances, career, or appearance are not good.

It’s not about blaming or making a scene.

Unfortunately, this kind of blissful feeling is only meant for wise men and women.

Most men and women are not willing to think deeply and improve their wisdom.

Therefore, if men prioritize sex and women always put money first, such men and women, regardless of their appearance or how high their position is, are actually just ordinary people.

We congratulate such people on their happy marriages, and it’s normal for them to be unhappy in their marriages; they don’t deserve our sympathy.

Dear readers, today’s topic is more of a starting point for discussion, and what I say is only one person’s opinion.

What I hope to do is to initiate a discussion on “finding true emotions”.

The goal is for each of us to enjoy the true nourishment of emotions, to fully experience the joy of life, and thus to live up to this precious life.

Finally, “Giving roses to others leaves a lingering fragrance on your own hands.”

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Understand Emotional Resonance Between Lovers