Emotional Cheating Always Begins With These Details

Emotional matters are the most ambiguous. Sometimes, you deceive yourself by saying you don’t care, but every word and phrase reveals your inner desires. It’s not a pure friendship to begin with, yet you insist on pretending to be serious while flirting and teasing, and unknowingly, you fall into a trap. In fact, if two men do these three things, then it’s definitely not a pure friendship.

1. Confess your secrets to the other person

In today’s society, no one truly trusts another completely, so everyone harbors some secrets. Of course, there are exceptions. When a woman pursues a man, or a man pursues a woman, they often easily cross that line, revealing their feelings and sharing secrets—this is the best expression of their feelings. You could call it a sign of being guileless, but are you sure such people exist? So don’t be naive. Only someone who values you highly and wants to woo you would use these secrets to “tempt” you; it’s simply a potential sign that they consider you one of their own.

Second, I think of you first when something happens.

Have you ever encountered a person of the opposite sex who is always trying to get your help, from small daily matters to big emotional stories, they’ll tell you everything, as if they can’t do anything without you? You might think this is immature, that they’re too dependent. But if you put yourself in their shoes, isn’t this just a way of showing they like you? Maybe you’ll only understand this unspoken rule of relationships when you’re in the position of needing their help! So when someone of the opposite sex keeps bothering you, it often indicates that your relationship isn’t purely platonic; at least in their heart, you’re more like a lover than a “buddy.”

Third, I don’t mind physical contact.

If a man (or woman) doesn’t object to physical contact from other men, there are two explanations: either they’re promiscuous, or they have feelings for you. Which explanation do you think is more realistic? Undoubtedly, it’s the latter. Because truly promiscuous men and women are rare, and even if they are, they’ll hide it deeply behind a mask. Otherwise, how could so many women be deceived? So when a man and woman both secretly desire physical contact, then it’s undoubtedly a perfect match—they’re just one step away from breaking the ice. Are you still being foolish?

Sister Ling has something to say: There’s nothing in this world without hidden secrets, and relationships are no exception. If a man and a woman, whether strangers or friends, frequently experience these three things, it already indicates that their friendship is not pure. You can pretend to be innocent and deny it, but the facts have already revealed the ambiguous relationship.

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