How to Keep the Romance Alive in Your Marriage

First trick: Discover overlooked opportunities for sex

Your time is often taken up by work, children, and entertainment, leaving you feeling like you don’t have enough. A lack of undisturbed non-sleep time in bed together may be part of the problem, primarily because couples aren’t using their time effectively.

Step 1: If you have ten minutes available, have a quick round of sex.

It may sound too rushed, but quick sex isn’t necessarily a bad thing. In fact, many couples appreciate the stimulation of rapid sex and the feeling of creating a private moment just for the two of them, especially before friends and family come over for dinner.

Second tip: Improve your stroking techniques

After several years of marriage, frequent caressing of a partner is more effective in strengthening the bond than frequent sex. “Aside from sex, many couples rarely caress each other tenderly, and they may feel awkward about it.” Improving caressing techniques is the key to removing any obstacles to achieving a good sex experience.

The third tip: Learn to express your wishes.

Many men behave like ascetics in bed, trying their best to please you by covering every inch of your skin with sincere force. If you want him to stay on a certain part, you should give him some instructions.

Fourth trick: Expand the space for sex

If your bed is the only place you two have sex, you might miss out on the great pleasure you get from having sex in other places at home.

Step 1: Start in the kitchen. Consider making use of all the delicious foods in the cupboards and refrigerator. This may lead you to unprecedented heights.

Step Two: Repeat this in every room. If you’ve already experienced the pleasure of having sex on a rocking chair in the bedroom, you can move on to a deeper level.

Fifth tip: Never miss a fleeting opportunity.

Many people get excited at home, but on their way to the bedroom, they are often distracted by various things and quickly lose interest. If you want to enjoy more and better sex, you should act immediately when you are aroused.

Step 1: When you feel aroused, don’t get distracted by other things. Focus and don’t let the excitement slip away.

Step Two: Do everything possible to choose a place in your home and start taking action immediately.

Sixth tip: Know when to express sexual fantasies.

Having gone through the above steps, your sexual communication skills have improved. Now you can prepare to take your verbal skills to another level—make a special request or share a sexual fantasy.

Step 1: Let your lover know what you need, or write down what you want on a note, or try the bookmark technique: in a book describing sexual fantasies, find a scene you want to “reenact”, then mark that part with a red pen, and place the book next to his bed.

Step Two: Before the scheduled date for the sexual encounter, inform him to read those chapters, giving him enough time to fully understand their contents.

Seventh tip: Understand the other party’s needs

Men’s preferred ways of caressing someone actually come in many different variations, and they often find themselves powerless to do so. In this section, he will show you his preferences, which can be very enlightening and stimulating.

Step 1: When you ask him to demonstrate how he likes to stroke his penis, he usually feels embarrassed. Try talking to him about it first. The key is that he needs to believe you really want to see a demonstration; then he won’t feel too awkward.

Step Two: Carefully observe what kind of methods make him particularly excited. How fast does he thrust? How strong is his grip? Does he focus only on the shaft, or does it include the glans and testicles? The following are also very important: During the entire process of orgasm, does he continue thrusting, or does he stop before reaching orgasm? Next time you have sex, try to apply what you’ve observed to ensure he’s very satisfied.

Eighth move: Arouse sexual desire

Step 1: Praise him. Generally speaking, both men and women are more enthusiastic about sex when they are complimented and happy. The more specific your praise, the more genuine it shows.

Step Two: Create an atmosphere of eager anticipation. If you plan to have sex that night, try to project a sense of longing to take it off while getting dressed in the morning. While getting ready, help him straighten his tie and slowly unzip his trousers. Ask him to fasten your bra, and let your hair fall over it before his hands leave your back.

Ninth tip: Try new ways to have sex

What if you suddenly find your usual sex routine extremely boring? If you dare to try, you’re sure to reap unexpected rewards.

Step 1: Conduct some research and take the time to develop an inspiring sex menu, referring to relevant books.

Step Two: One evening, take the menu to bed and read it with your husband, selecting and trying new sex techniques. Remember to keep a flexible mind and keep the book nearby.

Tenth tip: Plan your sex journey

Most people like to do the craziest things in the countryside, which makes sex special again.

Step 1: Sit down with your husband and plan a trip that you’ve never tried before and that will ignite your passion for sex. Perhaps it’s just about creating fun and giving you a romantic, intimate feeling.

Step Two: Choose one of the trips from the itinerary and bring it up again on the night of your intimacy, or surprise him. The most important thing is to make the trip unexpected and enjoyable for your husband.

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How to Keep the Romance Alive in Your Marriage