Self-Care and Intimate Wellness: It’s Not Just for Men

I’ve always believed that growing up is a gradual process. Along this journey, we need to constantly get to know ourselves, see our own changes, respect ourselves, and also learn to respect others, in order to slowly become better adults.

First, let’s get the concept right: self- care isn’t just for boys.

First, let’s dispel a common misconception: masturbation isn’t a male-only activity. Both men and women have sexual needs and can masturbate ; it’s perfectly normal and natural.

So what exactly is self- wie ? To put it simply , self- wie is the ability to “feed” yourself.

We get hungry, and when there’s no one around to cook for us or eat with us, we cook for ourselves, buy food, and eat by ourselves.

When it comes to sex, the logic is exactly the same: masturbation is the reasonable and safe sexual stimulation and arousal of one’s own reproductive organs through the hands, sex toys, etc., which is a normal way of sexual release .

Many people are shy and find this definition difficult to articulate. But if you think of it as appetite , it immediately becomes clear:

·It’s perfectly normal to eat by yourself when you’re hungry.

·Having sexual needs and satisfying them is perfectly normal.

When your mother is not here, your partner is not here, and there is no one to interact with, taking care of yourself and satisfying yourself is just a choice, not shameful or wrong.

Second, medical science has long established that self -ejaculation is not a disease, but a normal physiological phenomenon.

From a medical perspective: self -harm is not a disease, nor a bad habit, nor a sin.

It is one of the natural ways of human sexual expression. It exists in our lives on its own. It does not exist to “improve” or “cure” anything. It is just a normal choice .

Moderate and healthy self- care also has these positive benefits:

·It can safely satisfy one’s desires, reduce unsafe behaviors, and lower the risk of sexually transmitted diseases;

·It helps us understand our bodies and build a sense of self-intimacy ;

·Relieve stress and achieve relaxation and balance for both mind and body.

Because of the lack of sex education in the past and the constraints of cultural concepts, many people have been instilled with the idea that ” self -harm is dirty, wrong, and immoral. ” These are outdated, wrong, and unscientific prejudices.

The purpose of this lesson is to remove these frameworks, misunderstandings, and prejudices, and to genuinely accept that this is a normal, healthy, and openly discussed topic.

III. Important Reminder: Self- service is possible, but you must “know how to eat, know how to choose, and respect boundaries.”

Let me use eating as an analogy: Eating is normal, but you wouldn’t eat randomly in class or on the street; self- defense is the same, it can’t be done anytime, anywhere, but you have to consider the occasion, hygiene, and boundaries.

1. When is it appropriate? It depends on whether the venue is suitable.

You don’t need to reject yourself , but you need to have a dialogue with yourself:

·I have desires now, but is this place and this time appropriate?

·Does it offer privacy? Is it safe? Will it disturb others?

Privacy, safety, and not affecting others are the first principles.

2. Since Wie is not “binge eating”

Many people ask: What constitutes excess?

The answer is simple: don’t look at the number of times, look at how you feel physically and mentally.

·If you feel physically relaxed, emotionally stable, and it doesn’t affect your studies or daily life after you finish, then it’s normal.

·If you feel tired, unwell, anxious, guilty, or it even affects your daily routine and interpersonal relationships, then you’re overdoing it.

Just like eating: some people can eat three bowls and feel right, while others feel full after half a bowl. There’s no single standard; your body will tell you the answer.

Don’t restrict yourself with “a few times a day” or “a few times a week.” Comfortable, healthy, and not affecting your life is just right.

Fourth, girls need to understand: Your body is your own responsibility.

In many minds, there exists a very unfair phenomenon:

·It seems that male masturbation is tolerated ;

·Girls who commit suicide are labeled as ” shameful ” and ” impure ” .

This is completely wrong and unequal.

Girls also have desires, curiosity, and the right to explore their bodies, just like “girls also have stomachs and need to eat.”

For a long time, many girls have been taught:

·Be quiet, be elegant, and have no desires;

·Happiness is given by others, and one’s body is defined by others;

·Even when a harmful incident occurs, the victim will be ” examined ” .

These all need to be changed.

The true concept of health is:

·My body, I define it myself ;

·I decide what I wear and what I choose .

·My happiness is my own business , and I don’t need anyone’s permission.

Women need to learn to explore themselves and make themselves happy before they can better express their needs in relationships, guide their partners, and have true sexual autonomy .

Both research and reality tell us that women are far more likely to achieve pleasure by themselves than to passively wait for others to do so.

You know your own taste best. Instead of expecting others to cook your favorite food, you should learn how to cook it properly and “feed” yourself.

Fifth, self- care is not just for teenagers; it accompanies them throughout their lives.

Another common misconception is: “Only single people and only young people need to self- care . “

That’s also wrong.

Let’s take eating as an example:

·You’ll feel hungry at 20 , and you’ll still feel hungry at 60 and 70 .

·Having a partner and a family doesn’t mean you’ll never need to take care of yourself.

Self -sufficiency is the ability to independently satisfy oneself . When a person is not overly dependent on others sexually, they are more comfortable, more equal, and less suffocated in relationships.

A good intimate relationship is not about “I need you to be happy”, but about “I can be happy on my own, and being together is the icing on the cake”.

In fact, healthy self- care can make a relationship more harmonious . When your partner is temporarily unable to meet your needs, you can take care of yourself in a safe and self-loving way, without feeling wronged, repressed, or complaining.

Sixth, always remember: hygiene and safety should always come first.

Self -wiping is normal, but only if it’s clean, safe, and doesn’t harm yourself .

Here are a few simple but important suggestions:

1. Choose a private and safe environment , and do not conduct it in public places;

2. Keep clean :

oTrim and file your nails beforehand to avoid scratching them;

oWash your hands thoroughly to reduce bacterial infection;

3. Post-coital care :

oBoth men and women are advised to urinate and clean their private parts after intercourse.

oAvoid excessive friction; use a suitable lubricant if necessary.

4. Do not use dangerous or unclean items , and protect your body.

When done correctly and with attention to hygiene, self- wiping is a safe, harmless, and responsible way to satisfy needs.

VII. Finally, let me highlight the key points for everyone again.

1. Self- pleasure is a normal physiological and psychological behavior , and both boys and girls can do it. There is no need to feel ashamed or guilty.

2. There is no ” fixed number ” of times that is considered normal . Whether it is excessive or not depends on whether your body and mood are comfortable.

3. Be mindful of the occasion, maintain hygiene, and respect boundaries ; do not disturb others or harm yourself.

4. Self -love is a way to know and love yourself . Only by getting along well with yourself can you get along better with others.

5. Sex itself is not a sin; repression, misunderstanding, and prejudice are the problems .

Growing up means learning to face your body, your needs, and your feelings with equanimity. You don’t need to pretend you have no desires, nor do you need to be secretive or engage in self-attack.

Taking care of and accepting yourself in the right way is a very important step in becoming a mature, healthy, and self-loving adult .

If you still have questions, are hesitant to ask, or don’t know how to start a conversation, feel free to express yourself. I will always be here, accompanying you as you grow, learn, and become a better version of yourself.

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Self-Care and Intimate Wellness: It’s Not Just for Men