What Men Find Most Attractive in a Woman

What kind of girl has a fatal attraction?

There’s a popular question on Zhihu: What kind of girl is the most popular?

You’ll understand if you just read Eileen Chang’s “Red Rose and White Rose”:

A man named Tong Zhenbao has two important women in his life, and these two women are very different.

Red Rose Queen Jiao Rui is alluring and passionate, with a captivating charm.

Meng Yanli, the White Rose, is reserved, conservative, quiet, and gentle.

Red Rose Wang Jiaorui is sexy and charming. “Sexiness” seems to be a gift to them. Every move they make exudes an irresistible charm.

She was like a cat, and men were like mice she had caught; she manipulated them with ease. Of course, Zhenbao was no exception to her charm.

White Rose Meng Yanli, on the other hand, is shy and reserved , never daring to do anything out of line or transgression since childhood. Another characteristic she has is that she is not sexy.

After marriage, Zhenbao’s attitude towards Meng Yanli can be described in two words: “disdain”. He not only disliked her body, but also felt that she was not lively and generous enough, dull and unattractive, and preferred to visit a prostitute once every three weeks.

Why are there such big differences between women?

Essentially, it’s because white roses “lack sex appeal”.

The invisible “shackles” on your bodyIt’s not interesting To achieve irresistible sexiness, one needs two parts charm, three parts courage, and five parts candor. Red roses are open and straightforward, more easily exuding charm and winning affection; while white roses are shy and repressed, like a piece of wood, lacking any distinctive features and becoming tiresome. How can someone who can’t even accept their own body receive love from others?Like the white rose, many women in life suffer from a lack of sex appeal. A psychological counselor once shared a case: A 30-year-old woman, with excellent looks and figure, and a successful career, longs for marriage but is still unable to start a relationship. Many boys’ opinions of her are:

She’s a good girl, but too boring. Talking to her is rather dull. I prefer more outgoing girls.

She’s so outstanding, yet she’s a bit insecure and has a limited way of thinking; it’s impossible to spark a romantic connection with her.

She’s not good at expressing herself, always hesitant and timid, and seems insecure and somewhat repressed.

…Her mental repression stemmed from her family; her parents were extremely strict, monitoring her without any privacy and forbidding her from playing with boys. She learned to be obedient and submissive, suppressing her desires. As she grew up, she became accustomed to suppressing herself and was always unable to open up. She felt very awkward when interacting with boys and was always afraid of being taken advantage of. The shadows of her childhood have long been rooted in her subconscious. Even though she is beautiful on the outside, she is like a beautiful empty shell when she has given up her desires. She looks extremely dull and lacks vitality and enthusiasm.

Freud believed that all psychological repression is sexual repression. Sexual repression not only affects relationships between men and women, but also a person’s personality, making them more prone to low self-esteem, weakness, lack of vitality, and inability to accept themselves.

Li Yinhe once said:”The double standards between men and women in sexual activity are an oppression of women. They make women suppress their desires, hate their bodies, and most seriously, they make women lose their sense of independence and freedom as a person, dare not pursue pleasure, and can only live numbly and repressively.”Sex is not about promiscuity or shame, but rather the most primal experience of life, a sacred joy. To call it dirty or filthy is only human nature’s own doing. From a psychological perspective, having sexual attractiveness makes you more proactive in expressing your emotions and desires, knows how to unleash your charm, and is more likely to find love and marriage. Sexual attractiveness determines whether you can attract the opposite sex, and sexual harmony determines the ultimate outcome of the relationship. So how high is your sex appeal? And how does it affect your relationships?

In collaboration with Starlight Assessment Lab, a professional psychology platform in China, we recommend the “Sexual Attractiveness Assessment.” This assessment will comprehensively evaluate your sexual attractiveness index from nine aspects , including self-appreciation, sexual openness, sexual allure, sexual desire, and sexual interaction . It will then provide targeted suggestions to help you awaken your inner life energy, improve your sexual skills, and confidently radiate charm.

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This assessment was developed by referencing Masters and Johnson’s “Human Sexual Response , ” the Kinsey Reports , and Adam’s works , while taking into account the specific circumstances of China. This test was developed by the professional psychological testing R&D team at Starlight Testing Lab, based on Chinese cultural background and by collecting multiple individual behavioral data.

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What Men Find Most Attractive in a Woman