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On a cloudy day, in a room without the lights on.
As all thoughts gradually settle down
You observe and confirm that no one is around.
The decision was made to embark on a routine trip that would be kept secret from outsiders…
“Snap!” The light came on.
My partner, who had come back to retrieve some documents, rushed in.
Without any warning
You looked at each other.
The awkwardness reached rock bottom
You begin to reflect on whether masturbation is truly a form of spiritual opium.
Or just a boring pastime at the end of the century…
Facts about female masturbation:
- The higher a woman’s testosterone (androgen) level, the more likely she is to masturbate.
- Using saliva as a lubricant during masturbation can easily disrupt the vaginal flora, leading to fungal infections.
- A recent survey found that 44% of female college students masturbate an average of 4.7 times per month.
- Masturbation can help relieve different types of pain, including menstrual cramps.
- There are three types of female orgasms: clitoral orgasm, vaginal orgasm, and clitorvaginal orgasm. Masturbation can help achieve all three types of orgasm at once.
- The average duration of a female orgasm is 20 seconds.
- The doctor invented the vibrator to treat hysteria, not to help women masturbate.
- At least one-third of women over 60 have masturbated. The older a woman is, the more likely she is to masturbate.
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“Female masturbation is a normal physiological behavior”
There’s no need to feel guilty !@大毛毛毛毛I’m 23 years old. The first time I mustered up the courage to discuss sex with my mom, her face turned bright red instantly, and the scene became incredibly awkward. I didn’t know what to do… @Want to raise lots of catsI went to the hospital with my mother for a gynecological exam and they found out I had been sexually active. Ever since then, she’s been telling me every day, “You’re worthless now. Just find someone to marry.” I’m really distressed!
@It’s fafaI’ve been with my current boyfriend for two years, and I never experience pleasure during sex. I don’t know how to talk to him about it. Could you give me some advice? These confusions all point to the same problem—even in 2019, people still can’t openly talk about “sex,” especially when it involves women. Recently, the movie “Send Me to the Clouds,” starring Yao Chen, sparked heated discussions. In the film, the female lead, Sheng Nan, loudly told the boy she liked, “I want to have sex with you,” which was widely praised for her candid and open expression of her desires.
The ancients said, “Food and sex are human nature.” Sex, like eating, is an innate human desire, regardless of gender.
In today’s discourse, we can openly discuss men’s masturbation and joke about “nerdy men being useless,” but why is it that women are not “good women” once they have physical desires or openly discuss them?
In many Western countries, even women in their 50s and 60s have the right to enjoy sexual pleasure and the freedom ; however, in China, girls feel ashamed for masturbating in private, let alone discussing it openly.
Phoenix.com once conducted a survey, and among the 70,000 women who participated in the survey, 95% had masturbated, and more than half of them felt ashamed after masturbating.
They used words like: empty, disgusting, filthy, shameful, abnormal…
In fact, many girls do have needs, but because their needs have been suppressed for a long time, they can only do so and dare not talk about it in public.
Therefore, many people avoid talking about it.
They have absolutely no way to learn more, even if they have been hurt in their sex lives or have never experienced pleasure .
Even in hospitals, “some female patients actually use eggplants, cucumbers, cosmetic bottles, and other items to fill their genitals in order to find physiological satisfaction. As a result, because these items are not clean enough, they cause bacterial infections and even inflammation in the genitals.”
These women were labeled “sluts” and became the subject of gossip.
Viewing sex as a synonym for obscenity or as a monstrous threat is abnormal. Such a mindset will force more women to become severely repressed.
The film “The Piano Teacher” tells a story like this.
The female lead is a piano teacher who is talented and has a refined demeanor.
But she has been suppressing her feelings for many years. She has neither a boyfriend nor a husband.
She was already in her thirties, so of course she had desires. But the constraints that the world places on women are powerful, pervasive, and all-encompassing. You cannot be free, nor can you be proactive.
All I can do is endure it, just endure it.
When he could no longer control himself, he would close the bathroom door, take out a razor blade, sit on the edge of the bathtub with his legs bare, and slash a certain area until it bled profusely.
Where is the export destination?
The best remaining option seems to be only one: sex toys.
A survey shows that sales of “women’s products” far exceed those of men, and this figure continues to rise rapidly.
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“We love vibrant colors and unique designs.”
Because I hate monotony and mediocrity.
On some forums, single women exchange their experiences.
Some say, “It doesn’t matter, as long as I have batteries, I have a husband.”
Some say that society scrutinizes women’s beds with a magnifying glass, and if there’s even the slightest hint of wrongdoing, they’ll be put on trial. There’s no other way; they can’t afford the consequences and have to buy substitutes.
Some experts even believe that the sexual repression experienced by women today is no less than that experienced by the 50 million disabled people.
Who should solve their problems?
As night fell, the dim, somewhat ambiguous red light in front of a sex shop was already lit.
The boss, Zhang Zhiming, lit a cigarette and began brewing tea, his face relaxed and content.
“Ten years ago, people looked at me with prejudice, but now they’re used to it. My customers have also expanded from middle-aged and older men to women. Business is getting better and better.”
Whether you are a man or a woman, masturbation is not shameful; in fact, appropriate masturbation can regulate physical and mental health.
This method also applies to tens of thousands of women.
This awkward situation is not only a problem for single women, but also a source of unspoken distress for many married women.
Pan Suiming, a sexologist at Renmin University of China, once released survey data showing that 21% of women in China are experiencing sexless marriages.
In other words, one in five married women is experiencing disappointment.
What can you do?
Seeking communication often proves fruitless.
Medical treatment is often ineffective.
Divorce, however, is extremely costly.
They could only turn to “toys”.
After each time, the woman would be overwhelmed with an even greater sense of desolation: the world is so prosperous, yet I am so ridiculous, what a meaningless life!
She shed tears because what women need is not just sex, but also a sense of belonging.
This sense of belonging comes from the reassurance that “no matter where I go, he’s always there when I turn around,” from the comfort that “no matter how anxious I am, a hug from him can calm me down,” from the protection that “no matter what happens to me, he’s always there for me,” from the relationship, from communication, from sharing the same space and breathing together…
The human desire for love is innate.
This is something that toys cannot prevent or replace.
To put it bluntly, masturbation is just like eating; it’s a perfectly normal physiological need. Just like when we’re hungry, we want to eat; when we want pleasure, we can listen to comedy, relax, or exercise.
Of course, masturbation is also an option, and there’s absolutely no problem with that.
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“ Actually, many women masturbate.”
It’s just that I won’t tell anyone.
The kind that won’t admit it even if you ask .
Currently, in society, whether it’s our elders or the people around us, masturbation has been given many wrong names and misconceptions. This makes it difficult for us to resist accepting from a young age that masturbation is definitely bad and harmful to our health, and so on.
So let’s first talk about what are some of the so-called scapegoats regarding masturbation.
From a cultural perspective, in the past, not only in China, but also in Western countries and religions, it was believed that sexual behavior must be for the purpose of procreation.
This sounds a lot like the saying we used to say: “Anyone who dates someone without the intention of getting married is a scoundrel.”
It’s like saying that if your sexual behavior isn’t aimed at reproduction or procreation, then it’s wrong.
This is actually not logically correct, because from a physiological point of view, human females have a clitoris, and the purpose of this structure is to produce pleasure.
If the sole purpose is reproduction, then the clitoris can be completely absent. In fact, it is precisely because of the existence of the clitoris that it can bring physical and mental pleasure. During intercourse, it can allow women to experience pleasure and satisfaction, or psychological and physiological satisfaction.
I wholeheartedly agree with what sociologist Li Yinhe said in her book “Chinese Women’s Emotions and Sexuality”:
Human sex and love are not only not vulgar qualities and behaviors, but also noble; not only not trivial matters, but very important.
For women, long-term repression and social pressure make us even more afraid to face this issue, which is why we need to promote it more.
Whether it’s using sex toys or focusing more on one’s own experience in sexual relationships, it’s an awakening of female self-awareness, and even more so, a form of self-respect and pleasure.
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