What to do with a partner with a strong sexual desire？

Men and women who have no sexual desire do not have high quality sex and rarely experience the pleasure of orgasm. But having too much desire can also cause a lot of confusion for the couple, so what should they do if the other person has too much desire and they can’t satisfy themselves?

Masturbating or helping a partner masturbate

It’s useless to just suppress your sexual desire. Masturbation can satisfy your own needs without hurting yourself and others. Why not?

If it is a sexual partner who has a great need, it is worth giving it a try to help the sexual partner masturbate, both to satisfy the need and to make the sex life more fun.

Reduces irritation temptation

Cool and eye-catching pornographic websites, adult magazines, pornographic films, etc., are sultry. For people who are prone to sexual impulses, it is just adding fuel to the fire and avoiding them whenever they can.

Diversion

People who use sex to kill time when they have nothing to do may wish to engage in leisure activities that require physical effort, such as going to the gym, skating inline, playing ball, outings, mountaineering, and so on.

All in all, go sweat and vent your energy!

Increased opportunities for interaction between the sexes

Are you full of reverie about the opposite sex, but you don’t know how to get along with him (her), so you put a lot of sexual pressure on yourself?

Relax, engage in club activities, participate in programs such as “Extraordinary Men and Women”, chat and sit in pubs, increase the opportunities for both sexes to get along, start courtship actions, fall in love, and balance your body and mind.

Reviewing intimacy with your partner

If you are a couple, a cohabitant, or a couple with a stable relationship, and when you try to masturbate or help your significant other masturbate, but you still can’t satisfy each other and develop outward, you may know that too strong a desire and dissatisfaction with the desire are just excuses. Think about it carefully, have you not had a real heart-to-heart talk for a long time?

Communicate calmly and euphemistically, trying to find out the cause of the emotional rift.

Expert exhortation：

1. Stay away from alcohol and club drugs

There is no need to explain this sentence about sex after drinking. Everyone can understand it. It should also be noted that sex aids such as Happy Pills and Fairy Water circulated in dance halls and pubs will also destroy people’s self-control and make people extremely happy. Sad.

What is more, under the urging of alcohol and drugs, it is not worth it to neglect safety protection when it is too late or unexpected, and as a result, you are sexually assaulted, or you have an unwanted pregnancy or contracted an STD.

2. Too much sexual desire is not an excuse for dangerous sexual behavior

If you use “I have a need” as an excuse to be obsessed with risky sexual behaviors such as multiple sexual partners, one-night stands, prostitution, and raping others, you will not cherish yourself and harm others.

3. Don’t rush to give yourself a negative evaluation Maybe what you need is to find someone to talk to, or ask a psychologist or a psychiatrist to find out the crux of the problem.