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They say life is like a play, and it all depends on acting skills.
But many people probably never imagined that their acting skills were actually honed in bed!
The renowned medical journal *Journal of Sexual Medicine* once conducted a survey on fake orgasms, and the results showed that among heterosexual men and women who had penetrating sexual experience, 67% of women and 28% of men admitted that they had faked “orgasms” .
Out of 10 girls, 6 of them were actually acting!
The reasons vary, but ultimately it all boils down to one thing— it’s really hard for women to achieve orgasm!
The book “The Science of Female Orgasm,” published by Harvard University, states that only about 25% of women can achieve orgasm through simple “piston-like movements.”
This is because women have fewer sensory nerve endings in their vaginas, making them less sensitive to sexual stimulation . To achieve orgasm, it is often necessary to directly stimulate the clitoris through methods such as rubbing, sucking, and friction.
Another important point is that women often need more time to reach the peak of pleasure during sex.
Therefore, if the man goes straight to the point, the pleasure of intimacy will only turn into the pain of “trying to start a fire by rubbing sticks together,” leaving the partner with no joy whatsoever and only able to become an “Oscar-winning actress,” hoping only for it to end as soon as possible.
Many people might wonder, “Isn’t male orgasm just ejaculation? Can it be faked?”
Well, boys’ thoughts and feelings are not as simple as people think.
Male faking orgasms can be divided into two situations:
One type is pretending to have ejaculated even though they didn’t.
When men are too nervous or anxious about sex, or experience delayed or inability to ejaculate due to certain illnesses, they may have to put on a show of “acting” to maintain their self-esteem.
Another possibility is that although ejaculation occurred, there was no pleasure .
After all, life is stressful these days. Sometimes you’re too tired or not in a good state, but your partner is in the mood for sex. If you force yourself to go through with it, you can only do it perfunctorily and finish quickly.
So, even though some people have sex several times a week, the number of times they truly experience ultimate pleasure is very small.
There have always been many descriptions of climaxes in books and movies—
However, to date, the academic community has not reached a consensus on the definition of “orgasm”.
Clinically, it is believed that “during the sexual response cycle, a person reaches orgasm when the sudden release of tension throughout the body causes the muscles in the pelvic region to contract. At this time, multiple areas of the body will experience muscle stiffness, panting, and body swaying. “
Collins’ dictionary defines orgasm as: “When people are sexually aroused by strong sexual stimulation, orgasm is the peak of sexual arousal, accompanied by an intense feeling of pleasure, and in men, ejaculation.”
Some people say that a man’s orgasm is like a firecracker that costs 2 yuan, it ends in a flash;
A woman’s orgasm is like a box of fireworks costing 200 yuan, one after another.
For men, the moment a bullet leaves the barrel is the peak of orgasm, which lasts only 3 to 10 seconds .
During this period, they tend to remain still for a while , experiencing pleasure better in a “still” posture.
In comparison, female orgasms manifest in a more diverse and complex manner:
- The clitoris swells and protrudes, pulsating with orgasm;
- The vaginal sphincter muscles will contract rhythmically from strong to weak about 3 to 12 times;
- Increased vaginal discharge may cause a woman to shout or moan unconsciously.
At this point, they would prefer their partners to increase the frequency and intensity of their stimulation , launching a continuous and intense “attack” on their sensitive spots to reach the peak of perfect pleasure.
When talking about sensitive spots for female orgasm, one term that cannot be ignored is the G-spot .
It does exist for some women. Statistics show that only about 10% to 40% of women have a G-spot.
The G-spot was originally proposed by German gynecologist Ernst Grafenberg, referring to a region on the anterior wall of the vagina, about 3 cm from the vaginal opening .
From a physiological perspective, the G-spot is not actually a single point, but rather an area containing complex blood vessels, nerves, and urethral glands. When sufficiently stimulated, this highly sensitive area swells and protrudes outward, bringing immense sexual pleasure.
This is how people who have experienced G-spot orgasms describe it:
“The feeling was an itch at first, a numbness at second, and a sensation like tiny insects crawling inside at third.”
“It feels like slathering your genitals with Tiger Balm and then turning on the air conditioner.”
Some experienced drivers might already be thinking dirty thoughts~ (If this is true, please report to the comments section.)
A single encounter between lovers, like the golden breeze and jade dew, surpasses countless encounters in the mortal world. While orgasm is something to look forward to, if one forces it too much, causing stress in sex life and even affecting the happiness index, then it defeats the purpose.
Rather than solely pursuing the ultimate pleasure of climax, creating shared joy during the process is more important and useful.
As one netizen said, “Doing intimate things with the one you love and enjoying the flow of emotions between you is already wonderful.”
So how can you have a pleasurable, satisfying, and high-quality sex life? Here are two tips to boost your sexual happiness:
Sex is a two-person activity that emphasizes cooperation and tacit understanding.
If the needs and pace of both parties are not in sync, an awkward situation may arise where “expectations are high, but the result is disappointing”.
To improve compatibility, before getting down to business, both partners can spend a few minutes having a deep conversation, talking about their feelings in their sex life, such as sexual fantasies, desired frequency of sex per week, most pleasurable and least pleasurable sex, and positions they would like to try .
Communicate more, find ways to make each other happy, and the improved experience will create anticipation for the next time!
Good foreplay is half the battle won in a successful sex life.
Good foreplay involves both verbal teasing and physical activities (kissing, touching sensitive areas, etc.) , and should not be rushed; each session should last at least 15 minutes .
Besides the sensitive genital area, the ears, tongue, neck, and lower abdomen are also areas that can ignite desire, waiting for those with a heart and love to explore them together.
Furthermore, don’t neglect afterplay. Men can spend more time with their partners afterwards, such as showering together, hugging, chatting, listening to music, watching a movie together…
More than the act of sex itself, the feeling of being valued and loved after the passion fades is perhaps the true source of happiness and fulfillment for people.
Wang Xiaobo once said:
“Sex is the most primal and natural human need, as simple and beautiful as eating and sleeping.”
Sex has no task and requires no pretense.
If you want something, say so; if you don’t want something, refuse it. Facing your own feelings and needs honestly is the most important thing.
After all, great sex is never just about “making” love, but about feeling, expressing, and conveying love.
May we all sincerely express our feelings and never forget our initial love amidst the trivialities of life.
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