“My sex life with my girlfriend was harmonious, but I still cheated on her.”

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” They believe that a man’s true charm lies in having a stable wife at home and mistresses on the side. “

01 I have a girlfriend I’ve been dating for three and a half years.

She wasn’t strikingly beautiful; she was pretty but still quite lovely and pleasing to the eye.

She is excellent in every way. She is smart and, in some aspects, she is even better than me, whether in studies or work.

Our sex life is usually very harmonious, and we understand each other’s erogenous zones.

Although it seems fine on the surface, I always feel it’s too harmonious—

Instead, it made me feel bored, unreal, and without any sense of accomplishment.

So, by chance, I had an affair.

To be honest, that woman wasn’t as pretty as my girlfriend.

She’s average-looking, average-figured, and her other qualities are just so-so.

The only redeeming quality is her bedroom skills; she’s adept at it and knows how to have fun, and I enjoyed it.

Some people might find it strange that my girlfriend is so great and our sex life is so harmonious, so why would I do this?

Sometimes, things aren’t as simple as they seem.

I have to admit that the reason I cheated on my girlfriend in the first place was because she was too outstanding and too assertive.

Over the years I’ve known her, I’ve always felt that she looks down on me deep down, not as she seems on the surface.

So when I’m with her, I often feel like I’m not a man, and she doesn’t want to rely on me.

My role as a boyfriend is more like a decoration.

But the woman I met later needed me in so many ways, both in daily life and in bed. Only when I was with her did I feel like a man.

Moreover, different women like me and are willing to be with me, and she hasn’t even realized it yet, so I already feel very charming.

How could one possess two women with such different personalities without charm?

The longer I cheat, the smug I feel, because I like and enjoy this thrill.

My girlfriend hasn’t noticed yet; she’s always cheerful and thinks our relationship is great.

My relationship with her wasn’t bad, it was almost too good, which made it seem unreal.

However, one thing I can be sure of is:

My girlfriend is still the person I want to marry. After all, her qualifications are there for me, and it would be foolish not to choose her.

As for that woman, she can be a playmate, but let’s forget about her as a marriage partner; we still need to consider practical matters.

02 After reading the whole thing, I really think this man is disgusting; he’s the epitome of hypocrisy.

He also felt very sorry for his girlfriend, who hadn’t done anything wrong but had to bear all this .

Although I know he might not listen to what I’m about to say, I still want to say it, not for any other reason than that I feel there are some things I should say:

You said that the reason you cheated on your girlfriend in the first place was because she was too outstanding and too strong.

If your circumstances were similar to hers, you wouldn’t even have these thoughts. The fact that you have these thoughts only shows that there are many differences between you.

You feel a sense of loss, but you are powerless to change anything, so you try to fill the void with other women.

You’re clearly in the wrong for cheating; it’s all your insecurity that’s to blame. How dare you point the finger at your girlfriend? That’s just too shameless!

Do you think that being with two women at the same time, one legitimate and the other just for fun when you’re bored, proves your strong personal charm?

Please, that’s not how a man proves or displays his charm, is it?

Only incompetent men believe that conquering more women proves their charm.

A man’s inherent charm lies in his talent, his ability, his kindness, and his character.

But you’ve overlooked a crucial point: while you’re playing with women, you’re also likely being played with and mocked by other women, they just haven’t said it outright.

Don’t think that others are clueless fools and that you are the smartest. It’s not certain who is fooling whom or who is deceiving whom.

You enjoy the thrill of cheating and it makes you feel great, so let me ask you a question: how can you be sure that your girlfriend is completely unaware?

You said she’s excellent and smart, but I think it’s very likely she’s just pretending not to know anything and quietly watching your clumsy performance from the sidelines.

He thought she was the best marriage partner because of her qualities, but he didn’t want to take responsibility or bear the burden he should.

A man like you is truly disgusting.

Why do you take everything so for granted?

Someone like you who doesn’t know how to cherish things doesn’t deserve a good woman or good love.

No matter how much fun and excitement you’re having now, you should be prepared to pay the price one day. When the consequences come back, I hope you won’t regret it!

03 There’s a scary idea:

That is, in the eyes of some men, cheating is a very normal thing.

Whether the woman in the house is beautiful or not, or outstanding or not, these things are irrelevant.

They felt that most men couldn’t help themselves; it was just their nature.

They also believe that a man’s true charm lies in having a stable home life while having affairs on the side.

So it’s okay to go out and have fun, but remember to come home. If you can do that, that would be great.

Setting such low standards for oneself and making up reasonable excuses for one’s mistakes in advance—do you think a man like that would treat women with the same standards?

The truth is, no!

If their woman cheats on them, they are more likely to get angry and furious than other men.

Because this kind of man is inherently problematic; he only treats women as accessories.

Since they’re just “accessories” to them, do you think they care about a woman’s feelings?

His standard is:

He can be unfaithful to you because he’s a man, it’s in his nature. He just made a mistake that most men make. Why are you nagging and going on and on?

But if you are disloyal to him, then things will be different.

Because you are a woman, you must be loyal to your man. If you don’t, you are a promiscuous and wicked woman, and you should be despised.

Is this a double standard? But he’s unaware of it, and you shouldn’t even think about changing him; the chances are extremely slim.

If you continue to be with him, you’ll be lucky if you don’t get brainwashed and assimilated by him.

So when you encounter this kind of man, you must be careful and not let love cloud your judgment.

Love, including marriage, should be built on loyalty and respect. Without these, a relationship is like a pile of loose sand, which will scatter at the slightest touch.

Finally, I hope this disgusting man gets hit by a car and dies a slow, agonizing death. Please click “Like,” “Share,” and “Comment” at the end of this article to warn other scumbags:

It’s not that retribution won’t come, it’s just that the time hasn’t arrived yet; when the time comes, everything will be repaid.