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Jiang Hui, President of the Chinese Sexology Association and Director of the Department of Andrology at Peking University Third Hospital
Recently, renowned actor Daniel Wu posted a tweet on social media, accompanied by a picture of himself holding hand sanitizer. He wrote, “Ten years of marriage, my genitals are probably the cleanest part of my body…”
A netizen left a comment asking: What does being married for 10 years have to do with having clean reproductive organs? He then replied with “lack of use,” bluntly telling everyone: “After ten years of marriage, I have very little sex life.”
It has to be said that whether you’re a celebrity or an ordinary person, you can’t escape the issues that most couples face.
In fact, sexless couples are not uncommon in life.
The current state of sex life among Chinese people: Too easygoing!
Are you satisfied with your sex life? A set of data is shocking: only 40% of people are satisfied.
In 2014, the “Blue Book on Sexual Happiness in China,” jointly launched by the Chinese Sexology Association, the Andrology Branch of the Chinese Medical Association, and other institutions, revealed that only 37% of the men surveyed were very satisfied with their current sex lives, only 19% of working men had sex more than four times a week, a staggering 81% had sex less than three times a week, nearly 45% did not achieve the required level 4 hardness for quality sex, and a whopping 48% had sex for less than 10 minutes per session. ①
“In the past, I often saw wives and husbands coming to my clinic together for infertility treatment, but recently many of my patients are wives bringing their husbands to see me for erectile dysfunction (ED), and some are even wives dragging their husbands along. A couple’s sex life could be very sweet, but many people are ashamed and suffer because of it. Chinese people are too good at making do with sex !”
The sexual well-being crisis among Chinese men also directly impacts the sexual well-being of working women, with over 21% of working women reporting that they have never experienced an orgasm.
In 2014, Professor Jiang Hui, president of the Chinese Sexology Association and director of the Department of Andrology at Peking University Third Hospital, shared changes he observed in his outpatient clinic at an event. He stated that many people believe that the decline in sexual function in men in their forties and fifties is a natural phenomenon. However, a survey in the United States found that 42% of men over 40 experience erectile dysfunction (ED), and similar data was obtained from related surveys in my country.
On the one hand, this reflects the high proportion of erectile dysfunction (ED) among middle-aged and elderly men; on the other hand, it also shows that not all men experience ED, and nearly 60% of men are enjoying sexual activity. If you unfortunately belong to this 40%, your wife will certainly not be sexually satisfied either. ①
Besides the quality of their sex lives, the frequency of sexual activity among Chinese people is also low. Even young people have become accustomed to a “sexless life.”
In April 2018, a report titled “Sexual Happiness Report of Chinese Post-80s and Post-90s Generations” showed that 72% of Chinese office workers were dissatisfied with their sex lives, and as many as 30% had no sex life and had been single for more than 5 years.
Professor Pan Suiming of the Institute of Sexual Sociology at Renmin University of China has conducted a survey on “Sexuality in China” for 15 consecutive years. Data from 2015 shows that among young people aged 18-29, 12.1% of men and 27.3% of women felt sexually uninterested in the past year. In 2000, these figures were 4.8% and 12.8%, respectively. Young people are increasingly less inclined to have sex, marriage, or children.
In 2011, sociologist and sexologist Li Yinhe stated at an event that sexual satisfaction is a level above food. She explained that China has long been a society where sex is a taboo subject, with people generally repressed about it. As the ancients said, “Food and sex are human nature.” “To put it bluntly,” she said, “besides eating, people also need happiness, so sexual satisfaction has become a livelihood issue at a higher level than eating.”
Lack of sex life leads to marital crisis
Sex is an indispensable part of married life; it serves as a lubricant for the couple’s relationship. A lack of sexual intimacy can potentially lead to a marital crisis.
According to the “Report on the Living Conditions of Chinese Women (2017)” published by Social Sciences Academic Press in 2017, the most damaging factors to marital intimacy are emotional abuse (56.4%), suspicion and lack of trust (53.9%), infidelity (52.4%), disharmonious sex life (46.5%), and domestic violence (43.1%).
Disharmony in sexual life has become a significant reason for divorce.
If one partner’s normal physiological needs are not met, it can easily affect the relationship between the couple.
Furthermore, sexless marriages can indirectly threaten family harmony, and in severe cases, may lead to one spouse having an extramarital affair, ultimately resulting in the breakdown of the family.
Taiwanese singer Tsai Chin once experienced a ten-year sexless marriage. In her youth, she met director Edward Yang through a film.
However, when they got married, Edward Yang told her that he hoped their marriage would be a purely Platonic love, existing in a sexless manner. Tsai Chin agreed and wholeheartedly supported his film career after their marriage.
Ten years later, Edward Yang became a renowned figure in the film industry, but he filed for divorce from Tsai Chin.
Under Tsai Chin’s questioning, Edward Yang admitted to his infidelity. He and this woman had two children and lived a loving relationship until Yang’s death. ③④
Therefore, if a couple does not have sex for a long time, the quality of the marriage will definitely be greatly reduced.
A scientific and healthy sex life contributes to good health.
Besides maintaining a good quality marriage, a scientific and healthy sex life is also very beneficial to our physical health!
Dr. Yang Yiyao, a andrologist specializing in reproductive medicine at the West China Second University Hospital of Sichuan University, pointed out five reasons in an article published in the Health Times’s gender section on November 16, 2019. ②
01The pain is gone, and it helps with stress relief and sleep.
During sexual activity, the hypothalamus and pituitary gland secrete a large amount of oxytocin, which can relieve physical pain, especially headaches; after orgasm, it can also help relieve stress, lower blood pressure, and promote sleep, making it easier for you to achieve a sense of happiness in life and making your body feel more relaxed and comfortable.
02Fewer accidents, clearer blood vessels
A 20-year follow-up study of 914 men published in the British journal *Epidemiology and Community Health* found that men who had sex more than twice a week had a 50% lower incidence of fatal heart disease compared to men who had sex only once a month. Sex promotes blood circulation and enhances heart function and lung capacity. Vigorous sexual activity not only does not cause heart disease, but it also has a beneficial effect on reducing its incidence.
03A stronger immune system means fewer illnesses.
Sexual activity can strengthen the immune system; having sex once or twice a week can increase the body’s ability to fight viral infections by 30%. Professor Sari of the Department of Psychology at Simon Fraser University in Canada found that sexual activity can increase both androgen and estrogen levels. Androgens strengthen bones and build muscles, which is beneficial for heart function. A follow-up study published in the *British Journal of Urology International* showed that men in their twenties who ejaculated more than five times a week had a one-third lower risk of developing prostate cancer later in life.
04Better memory means slower aging.
Multiple studies have found that regular sexual activity helps prevent cognitive decline, and more frequent sexual activity leads to better cognitive function. Japanese medical research also indicates that appropriate sexual activity helps prevent brain aging, promotes metabolism, and delays memory loss.
05Protect the prostate and reduce the incidence of disease.
The British Journal of Urology cited an Australian study that tracked men diagnosed with and without prostate cancer and found that if men in their twenties ejaculated more than five times a week, their risk of developing prostate cancer would be reduced by one-third.
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