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Return To ShopFemale Orgasm Myths: Is Squirting the Only “Genuine” Orgasm?
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01 I received a private message from a young male reader.
He said he has a girlfriend he’s been dating for about a year. During sex, she shows little expression or reaction, doesn’t moan, and has never squirted. He’s watched many Japanese adult films and heard from friends that many women squirt during orgasm. Why doesn’t his girlfriend squirt? This has never happened. Is it because his technique isn’t good enough, preventing her from reaching orgasm? So he’s been wondering, “Does a woman only truly reach orgasm when she squirts? What are the signs of an orgasm? Can you tell?” Since a reader has raised this question, today we’ll discuss squirting and orgasm in detail and seriously. The purpose of this article is to help more men and women understand this topic correctly, avoiding misunderstandings and negative impacts. These things aren’t particularly complicated; with a little patience, they can be avoided. Speaking of squirting, I think some people might not know what it is. This is actually quite normal. If you haven’t experienced this during your sex life, then you probably don’t understand it. Not all women experience squirting during orgasm. Squirting, originating from Japanese, refers to the fluid that is expelled from the vagina during female orgasm. It’s different from urine, and many people confuse the two. The female urethra is surrounded by urethral glands, paraurethral glands, Skene’s glands, the female prostate, the corpus spongiosum, and the G-spot spongiosum. Under sexual stimulation, in addition to fluids from the urethral glands and urine from the bladder, other fluids can also be expelled from the vaginal opening during sudden muscle contractions. While men ejaculate semen during orgasm, women may also expel bodily fluids during orgasm, most of which are produced by the Skene’s glands.
2|Squirting is also a type of sexual orgasm.
However, it’s important to understand that female orgasm isn’t limited to just one form. In other words, women can achieve orgasm without ejaculation; the form may differ. Whether or not a woman experiences ejaculation during sex is perfectly normal. Furthermore, the reactions to orgasm vary from person to person; there’s no single standard or answer. Some women may have stronger, more exaggerated reactions, while others may have milder reactions. Some women may even orgasm without you noticing, as their reactions aren’t very obvious. When a woman is highly aroused, reaches or is about to reach orgasm, her body will exhibit some noticeable changes: for example, the nipples will become erect and hard, the skin around the breasts will become redder, and the areola will swell. She may also moan, commonly known as “going into a trance.” This is accompanied by an increase in breathing and heart rate. During orgasm, the vaginal muscles, especially the muscles at the vaginal opening, will undergo significant, intense, and exciting contractions. At a certain point of arousal or orgasm, some women may experience muscle spasms, manifesting as twitching or trembling of the hands and feet, changes in facial expressions, or body twisting. However, the absence of the above symptoms is also normal. According to relevant scientific research, female orgasm…
It has various types: vaginal contraction type; whole body warm flow type; whole body shaking type; electric current passing type; playful and frenzied type; floating and ascending type; groaning and restless type; drunken and hazy type.
Some women experience two, three, or even four types of orgasms simultaneously. Two or one type are the most common, accounting for about 66%, and the vast majority (about 88%) of these women cling tightly to their partner during orgasm. 10%–12% of women have never experienced an orgasm, about 5% experience pleasure without orgasm, and about 7% experience neither pleasure nor orgasm.
After reading the analysis by professional doctors, don’t you think that sex and orgasm are not as simple as you imagined?
03 So, what can a man do to help a woman reach orgasm?
Here, I must first mention that some men are truly quite unreasonable and selfish. When it comes time for sex, when desire strikes, they can disregard everything else. I’ve also received private messages from female readers saying that their boyfriends or husbands just pull out a condom and go straight to sex. Because the genitals are still quite dry at this time, forcing penetration can be uncomfortable and even painful. Over time, women not only become increasingly indifferent to sex, but some may also develop preventable gynecological infections. Some choose to remain silent, hoping their partner will understand on their own; others try to communicate, but their partners don’t take it seriously and continue as before. Seeing so many women like this, I can’t help but wonder: what do they gain from this forbearance? Therefore, I sincerely hope that some men can realize that sex is ultimately a physical connection between two people, and you can’t just think about yourself. A man who is so selfish is not suited for sex; he’s better suited for masturbation alone, only thinking about himself. So how should we view and treat orgasm? Most importantly, we must first correct our own attitude. Female orgasms are inherently more difficult to achieve than male orgasms, which is why some women fake orgasms in bed—to save face for their partners. However, focusing solely on the orgasm itself while neglecting the overall quality of sex can create more problems. Respecting and caring for your partner during sex, along with quality foreplay and good interaction and cooperation, ensures that even if the woman doesn’t reach orgasm, she will still feel comfortable and enjoy herself. In this case, the overall experience will be satisfying for both partners. If you consistently avoid foreplay but expect your partner to reach orgasm to demonstrate your skill, it’s unrealistic. In such situations, your partner is unlikely to experience arousal or orgasm and won’t enjoy the experience. If you truly cherish your partner and your relationship, understanding sex scientifically will undoubtedly benefit your relationship.
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