In romantic relationships, at what stage should a man and woman's relationship reach before they are ready to get married? The answers lie in these 5 points.

Love is a romantic journey, while marriage is a practical journey. Many people want to spend their lives together when their love is intense, but they panic when faced with the mundane realities of daily life.

In fact, marriage is never determined by the length of courtship, nor is it maintained by a momentary impulse.

When a relationship progresses from initial attraction to peace of mind, when you see each other clearly, weather the storms, and discuss reality thoroughly, it’s the best time to move towards marriage.

Can a man and woman get married after dating? Here are 5 points to consider.

1. Even as passion fades into tranquility, we still wish to stay together.

As the writer Sanmao once said, “If love is not grounded in the realities of life, such as clothing, food, sleep, and money, it is not easy for it to last.”

The sweet words and passionate moments of a whirlwind romance will eventually be replaced by the ordinariness of daily life.

A relationship that is truly suitable for marriage is one where, even after the initial excitement fades, you are still willing to share meals and go through all four seasons together without feeling bored or weary.

When Xiaowei and his girlfriend were deeply in love, they went on dates every day, watched movies, and traveled together. Once the honeymoon phase was over, the two of them stayed at home watching TV series, cleaning the house, and cooking together.

Now, when they are together, even in silence, there is no awkwardness. When his girlfriend is sick, Xiaowei takes good care of her, and when he is tired, she gently comforts him. Their ordinary days are filled with peace of mind.

Passion is merely an embellishment of love; ordinariness is the norm in marriage. Only when two people can persevere and accompany each other through ordinary years can they have the confidence to enter into marriage.

2. They argue, but they still want to stay together afterward.

There’s a classic line in the TV series “The Story of Minglan” that goes like this: When you stay with someone, what you ultimately rely on is their lowest point, the lowest point of their character.

Before couples in love get married, they can tell what kind of person the other is when they are angry by having a few conflicts and arguments.

In any relationship, there are no couples who don’t argue.

Actually, arguing isn’t scary; what’s scary is blaming each other and bringing up old grievances during an argument, followed by a cold war afterward.

A good relationship means that no matter how fierce the argument, neither party will abandon the other, and both are willing to humble themselves, reconcile, and communicate effectively.

Xiao Ran and her boyfriend often argue over trivial matters, but they never engage in a cold war. After arguing, they sit down, share their thoughts, and take the initiative to reconcile. Their relationship deepens through mutual understanding and tolerance.

Arguing is a touchstone for a relationship. Only when both parties have the ability to properly handle conflicts can they withstand the storms of marriage in the future.

3. They discussed “money” and “the future” and reached a consensus.

Dating is all about romance and beauty, but marriage is all about the mundane realities of daily life.

Therefore, before entering into marriage, it is essential to openly discuss all practical issues without avoiding or concealing them, and to reach a consensus on plans in order to avoid conflicts after marriage.

After all, marriage in the future will involve practical cooperation, such as money, housing, childbirth, and supporting parents.

Don’t underestimate these seemingly trivial issues; they are the ballast stones for a long and stable marriage.

Xiaofeng and her boyfriend dated for two years. Before getting married, they seriously discussed the bride price, mortgage, childcare plans, and how to support their parents. They reached a consensus and were confident about the future before getting married. Now they live a happy and stable life together, which is the envy of others.

Discussing money before marriage is not worldly; it’s a responsible approach to marriage. Only by reaching a consensus on practical issues can a marriage last and go far.

4. Even after both parties have “devalued” each other, they are still willing to choose each other.

Professor Chen Guo of Fudan University once made a profound statement: “When you look at a woman, if you remove her sexual value and you can still get along with her, then she’s a worthwhile person! When you look at a man, if you set aside his economic value and you’re still willing to be with him, then he’s the one you’re looking for.”

Indeed, when a woman’s beauty fades, the initial excitement wears off, and her sexual attraction diminishes; when a man sheds the “golden armor” woven from “money and status,” and reverts to his true self, you are still willing to stay together, inseparable.

This shows that you chose to be together because you appreciate each other’s character and interesting souls, and not just because of beauty and money.

Only by openly accepting each other’s most vulnerable and ordinary moments can we still see each other’s strengths. This deep emotional connection is the prerequisite for two people to enter into marriage.

5. Both parties are determined in their choice, firmly believing that changing partners may not necessarily lead to greater happiness.

If a romantic relationship between a man and a woman can’t continue, they can still break up gracefully; but once marriage is involved, if you want to back out, it will result in a lose-lose situation, and both parties will suffer greatly.

Therefore, marriage is never a compromise of settling for second best, nor is it a matter of settling because of age. Rather, it is when you have seen the world’s splendor and also seen all the imperfections and ordinariness of the other person, yet you still willingly and steadfastly choose this person.

I was convinced that even if I could do it all over again, with a different person, I might not be happier.

This is the answer worth entrusting one’s life to.

Junsheng and his girlfriend have been dating for many years. They have both had other women who are more outstanding, but they have never wavered. They know how precious each other is and believe that the other is the one they want to spend their lives with.

In the end, they became a couple and spent the rest of their lives together.

A firm choice between the man and woman is the strongest armor to protect their marriage in the future. Only when they are willing can they stay together for a long time.

Love is the joy of first sight, marriage is the enduring comfort of being together.

From dating to marriage, it’s never about a fleeting infatuation, but about:

Perseverance amidst the mundane.

Tolerance in conflict.

Honesty in real life.

Devalued identification.

And a deep sense of cherishing.

When these five points are met in a relationship, it’s the perfect time to get married.

In the end,

May every couple who truly love each other find the right person at the right time, to share a lifetime of happiness and stay together year after year.

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In romantic relationships, at what stage should a man and woman’s relationship reach before they are ready to get married? The answers lie in these 5 points.